Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To judge people who still use Twitter/X?

102 replies

CircusofPuffins · 09/08/2025 14:15

Okay, so if your job involves having to use Twitter/X regularly, I get it. But I generally don't understand why so many people still use that platform?

It's very well known what an utterly toxic cesspool it has become under Musk's ownership, being virtually unrecognisable now from the site's heyday in the early 2010s. And there have been repeated stories about this stupid Grok AI thing being generally awful too - today in the news: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwye62e1ndjo

Only a few weeks ago, there was the story about the same thing spewing out anti-semitic bile uncontrolled. That's before we even cover all the disinformation being spread on there, often by Musk himself!

Full disclosure, I deleted my account after Musk's Hitler salutes earlier this year, and now when I hear of someone I know who still uses the site, I can't help but judge them for it. I think either they're tacitly supporting Musk, or care more about their number of followers to have no qualms about still being on such an awful, vile platform.

AIBU?

Taylor Swift smiling wearing a black beanie hat and black jacket.

Pornographic Taylor Swift deepfakes generated by Musk's Grok AI

Grok Imagine's "spicy" mode made explicit videos of Taylor Swift, according to The Verge and Gizmodo.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cwye62e1ndjo

OP posts:
Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 09/08/2025 14:16

None of your business really, is it? People make their own decisions. I've heard that bluesky isn't great for freedom of speech. There seem to be big problems with all forms of social media.

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 09/08/2025 14:26

Its been a toxic cesspool for far longer than Musk has owned it and tbh i don’t think anyone really gives a shit if you are judging them or not!

Panterusblackish · 09/08/2025 14:32

You're right OP.

Sometimes you have to vote with your feet.

The freedom of speech being touted by Elon is just an excuse to abuse freely.

I deleted it ages ago.

Dangermoo · 09/08/2025 14:49

It really is none of your business. Try being more tolerant?

Helpmeplease2025 · 09/08/2025 14:56

Why do people who leave X, have to post about leaving, then pop back to tell everyone again how awful it is (often on X, ironically)

Pop off to Bluesky all you like, stop worrying about everyone else.

OonaStubbs · 09/08/2025 14:59

Surely it's only toxic for users who follow toxic people?

HerdMentality · 09/08/2025 15:03

Kind of agree, but Bluesky is a complete echo chamber whereas there are still more liberal views on X.

Sesma · 09/08/2025 15:03

It's none of your business, people can choose what to use, I really can't be bothered with any of them

cramptramp · 09/08/2025 15:05

HerdMentality · 09/08/2025 15:03

Kind of agree, but Bluesky is a complete echo chamber whereas there are still more liberal views on X.

And thus a complete snooze fest.

Dangermoo · 09/08/2025 15:11

Helpmeplease2025 · 09/08/2025 14:56

Why do people who leave X, have to post about leaving, then pop back to tell everyone again how awful it is (often on X, ironically)

Pop off to Bluesky all you like, stop worrying about everyone else.

Exactly - I guess they have to tell everyone else how great the lefty echo chamber is in Bluesky.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 09/08/2025 15:18

You need a shower after going on Twitter.

Dangermoo · 09/08/2025 15:19

All the subscribers to Bluesky will represent the public sector

Free Palestine
Unions and strikes
Tory scum
Reform scum
Ashamed to be white British

🥱

BellissimoGecko · 09/08/2025 15:20

I’m still on X. It’s great for keeping up with other feminists. My corner isn’t toxic at all. I haven’t seen any of the things you mention.

None of your business though is it?

i find Bluesky just as toxic as X…

EmpressaurusKitty · 09/08/2025 15:23

BellissimoGecko · 09/08/2025 15:20

I’m still on X. It’s great for keeping up with other feminists. My corner isn’t toxic at all. I haven’t seen any of the things you mention.

None of your business though is it?

i find Bluesky just as toxic as X…

This. Feminist Twitter is still alive & kicking.

totk · 09/08/2025 15:31

I'm on it mostly for the gender critical discussions. It's one of the few spaces on the internet where you can call a spade a spade without being censored.

AllMyExesWearRolexes · 09/08/2025 15:35

Nobody gives a shit about your "judgement".

Therewerelions · 09/08/2025 15:35

I still use it to follow people who share my interests so don't see many other posts.
When people follow me I just ignore them.

BIossomtoes · 09/08/2025 15:36

Dangermoo · 09/08/2025 14:49

It really is none of your business. Try being more tolerant?

You mean like the vast majority of X users? 😂

Inchworms · 09/08/2025 15:41

Deleted it cos of fucking Elon making it crap. Bluesky isn’t as good but then twitter now isn’t as good either so it’s just sad in general. No judgement for anyone still there unless they’re Elon fans in which case yeah, I’m judging

Igmum · 09/08/2025 15:43

I too am on there for the feminist content. Really interesting posts generally by well informed women. I don’t see much toxic stuff (in contrast to the old days). I don’t use Bluesky but I’ve seen posts of death and rape threats to women on there. I suppose I should judge you for supporting a site that does that. I don’t think I could approve of those sort of posts.

JHound · 09/08/2025 15:49

I definitely don’t understand black people who use Musk’s platform but I don’t “judge” them per se.

For me it’s a toxic wasteland and given it’s owner is constantly amplifying posts from racist / white nationalist accounts (this charm being his latest: ca.news.yahoo.com/elon-musk-shares-shockingly-sexist-100036602.html).

I prefer not to use it. I do judge those who keep complaining it’s toxic but continue to use it though.

GymBergerac · 09/08/2025 15:53

Isn't it like all other social media platforms though - if you see people posting toxic things, you stop following them, and then you don't see the toxic things?
I follow a few authors, some folks who take part in my sports of choice, a handful of friends and a couple of wildlife/animal accounts. I haven't been bothered by anything unpleasant so far.

DaisyChain505 · 09/08/2025 15:54

I get what you mean but I judge adults who have Snapchat even harder.

Darragon · 09/08/2025 15:55

Virtue signaller signals virtues du jour. Nothing to see here. 🤷‍♀️

EasternStandard · 09/08/2025 16:00

AllMyExesWearRolexes · 09/08/2025 15:35

Nobody gives a shit about your "judgement".

True

Swipe left for the next trending thread