Repeating himself during sex!

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I have a new man. He’s lovely. We have had sex three times now, and that’s been lovely too apart from the fact that he keeps saying the same thing over and over again as we DtD!

He keeps saying (sorry if this is TMI but the whole thing is, and if you’ve got this far…) ‘My dick feels good’. Must have said it literally 50 times each time. It’s almost like a nervous tic. It’s often barely audible, but sometimes it’s normal volume. We’ll be doing it and he’ll say it, and it’s almost like he’s saying it to himself or doesn’t even realise it!

Always that exact phrase. Maybe with an ‘Oh’ or a ‘Yeah’ involved beforehand.

I haven’t mentioned it. It’s not overly problematic and I don’t want him to feel embarrassed. It’s just odd (to me). Obviously I’m pleased his dick feels good! But I don’t need to be repeatedly told.

I feel like I might need to say something, but how can I do this sensitively?? Maybe I should start repeating a phrase of my own, over and over. ‘Have I left the oven on…?’ I really don’t know.

"Could you stop saying that, its putting me off"

Job done.

Please say ‘Have I left the oven on?’. Please.

In what universe would this be preferable to just asking him to stop??

I think I am engaged. I don’t mind talking during sex at all. I think it’s a good thing. I have no issue saying or hearing things. It’s just the repeating of that one single phrase that’s the issue. If he mixed it up a bit then it would be fine! Even when he’s coming it’s the same, just a bit more forceful and accompanied by a bit of a grunt.

In the universe where people make lighthearted remarks that aren’t meant to be taken seriously?

😆 🤣 😂 was going to suggest the same! He would be gone - down the road muttering 😆 🤣

It could be worse though - he could be calling it his willy. 👋

I did actually have this once. He didn’t do it all the time but on occasion he would refer to that. At the time my DS was about 6 and would often use the same word to describe his own. Suffice to say that the similarity in language was enough to make the relationship a brief one (the relationship with the man, not my DS! That relationship continues to this day!).

Dare I ask... Is the point of climax:
My dick feels good, grunt, my dick feels good, grunt, my dick feels goooood.

I couldn't not giggle.

A bit off topic but this reminds me of an occasion when dh and I were dtd in the living room not long after dh had tiled the fireplace and I blurted out "oh I didn't know you tiled underneath the mantelpiece" . Apparently that's a bit of a mood killer 😂😂.
Sorry no useful advice.

Have the conversation after the next session, just ask, why? 😅

🤢 😆

Oh! This reminds me that i haven’t mentioned the best/worst bit!

No - he makes no different a sound at climax than beforehand. Just louder, with a grunt or two. If he hadn’t been saying the exact same thing dozens of times previously, his orgasm sound would be well within the bounds of normal.

But then, ha! The only change comes immediately afterwards when he says ‘My dick felt good’! Moved it to the past tense!

That’s made me laugh thinking about it.

I just wish he’d use a wider vocabulary! Cock. Even ‘it’ or ‘that’.

Severe ick.

Rhythmic repetition would reminder me of the joke about the elderly grandfather and the ice cream van.

I think you are going to have to tell him and suggest a few other ways he can say it's good.

‘My dick felt good’!

Next time reply - "oh really? I hadn't heard", or "no shit, you said it enough times". Or "I'm glad, now you don't need to tell me a hundred times next time!"

It's a bit emotionally immature. Talking about how amazing it feels, how gorgeous you are, "God, I'm loving this..." It's not hard to mix it up a bit, unless he's very stunted in his ability to express himself. I think I'd struggle not to see him as a bit absent of appropriateness. Reply each time with "makes my minge twinge".. See if he gets the message.

😂😂

Maybe it's just me but I've known several men who've had this 'tic' (each one said something different). It's never been 'sexy', just a phrase that they repeat over and over with increasing speed until they orgasm. Like a kind of self-hypnosis.

Please tell me their phrases had nothing to do with sex. I would laugh so hard if they were rattling off the 1966 World Cup winning team or the ingredients to a roast dinner or something!

Oh nothing so exciting - I might have got involved if they had been, imagine correcting them half way through with 'you left out cauliflower cheese'!

I forget most of them, but one guy used to go 'there...just...there' over and over. Another used to say 'this is it, this is it...' I think I might have preferred the line up of the 1966 World Cup team.

This is wonderful for a Monday morning.So funny and good luck,

You could make it like a little call and response song, "my dick feels good, my fanny is glad, my dick feels good, my fanny is glad". I bet he'd soon stop then!

Oh god I realise it's reminding me of the opening to a Beastie Boys song- 'My mic sounds nice'.....

I would have to add CHECK ONE every time he said it 😃🤘🤘🤘