Repeating himself during sex!

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I have a new man. He’s lovely. We have had sex three times now, and that’s been lovely too apart from the fact that he keeps saying the same thing over and over again as we DtD!

He keeps saying (sorry if this is TMI but the whole thing is, and if you’ve got this far…) ‘My dick feels good’. Must have said it literally 50 times each time. It’s almost like a nervous tic. It’s often barely audible, but sometimes it’s normal volume. We’ll be doing it and he’ll say it, and it’s almost like he’s saying it to himself or doesn’t even realise it!

Always that exact phrase. Maybe with an ‘Oh’ or a ‘Yeah’ involved beforehand.

I haven’t mentioned it. It’s not overly problematic and I don’t want him to feel embarrassed. It’s just odd (to me). Obviously I’m pleased his dick feels good! But I don’t need to be repeatedly told.

I feel like I might need to say something, but how can I do this sensitively?? Maybe I should start repeating a phrase of my own, over and over. ‘Have I left the oven on…?’ I really don’t know.

That’s hilarious 😂😂😂

JFC. I would stick a plaster over his mouth.

Not bearable!

YADDDeffo NBU

Could you take the approach of saying its nice that he likes to talk during sex and you like that too, but it would be better to vary it a bit to spice it up for both of you as the same thing can feel a bit monotonous. Then discuss some other phrases you both like. To be honest I doubt he's even aware he's doing it,more like it it's a phase he repeats without thinking.

😂😂😂😂 i don't think we do their egos any good.

For Strictly fans only, I am now hearing this response in the dulcet tones of Gavin Henson!

Previous posters suggestion that you respond “that’s nice” every time he says it immediately made me hear the phrase in Mrs. Browns voice 😂😂

Oh let's not be hasty throwing Tom Hardie out... 😂

This reminds me a bit of a p.poster who's dp would shout/groan "back of the net!" every time he climaxed.
She wondered what on earth he was thinking about on the build up to that !!
I believe they didn't last.

Tell him to give it a rest - he sounds like a dog with a bone-r

Not helpful to the op, but I actually snort laughed at several comments on here - just what I needed on a boring Monday afternoon!

I briefly went out with a woman who used to repeat "Shove it in me" over and over again. After the third occasion Iet her know that it really wasn't doing anything for me. She then spent the next two times trying to come up with a new catchphrase. There was not a 6th attempt.

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What is that comedy film with Ben Stiller where he sleeps with this girl he thought was wonderful, but once in bed she keeps yelling “Cock me!” Repeatedly. His expression is wonderful… eventually he says, very mildly..” I thought I WAS cocking you..”

This bloke you describe, op, is in bit of a self hypnosis hyper focus, isn’t he.. it’s a bit more like a masturbatory reverie than actually a mutual session. He’s kind of excluding you. I’d be trying to chip away at his solo reverie.

‘Self hypnosis hyper focus’ sounds a bit right. Obviously I’m pleased that he feels good, and don’t even mind hearing it, but he is very much focused on that one thing, yes. I think I need to try and slow it down a bit and bring him back round.
Interestingly, on another day before the first time we actually had sex we fooled around a bit and he came, but there was no ‘my dick feels good’ then.

don't ask him after sex. Ask him 1 hour before and explain first what are you experiencing when he finishes. Is he asleep? Maybe he's dreaming or has sleep disorder?

I’ve never been wildly confident in bed but I’m pretty sure he’s awake.

Or say 'echo echo' like in the Airplane film

Thanks for the thread OP. I literally just LOL!!!

Please use the oven comment repeatedly and let us know how you get along after!

@VimesandhisCardboardBoots catchphrase as in 'say what you see?'

Mine twinge, omg I'm howling !!

That made me snort and nearly wee myself at the same time 😂😂😂

I took it to mean that shagging OP was making his dick feel good . If you're thinking about cleaning the oven though OP I don't think the sex is up to much

The fact he isn’t asking you if it feels good and is more focused on how he feels makes me doubt his love making skills…

Eurgh

Pahaha

He's wanting you to say his dick feels good to you too