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To invoice a repairman?

227 replies

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 18:21

Hi.

My DH took our car to a local handyman/mechanic who is a friend for some work needed. Basically tyre changes, oil changes, handbrake tightening etc

He kept the car for three days, and then when we returned it he gave us an invoice of £30 to cover "costs".

What "costs"? We supplied the tyres to him!

My husband paid him, but I'm fuming. He originally said he wouldn't charge for his labour, as we have known him for so long.

I have decided I am going to send him an invoice for keeping our car longer than he said he would, to reimburse us for having to get the bus into town when we should have been able to drive.

I know this is petty, but a point needs proving. You can't keep a car longer than you promise, and then invoice for a favour!!!!

I'm wondering if it's petty to invoice for more than £30, just to make a point?

My DH says no, and this will only cause trouble, but I'm not being a doormat for his dishonest mate.

What do you all think?

OP posts:
Londonrach1 · 31/07/2025 21:37

Seriously yabu and what a horrible person you are. Must be a made up as no one be this nasty in real life..summer holidays...

Merryoldgoat · 31/07/2025 21:46

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 31/07/2025 21:35

I didn't expect it to still be here 🤣

I keep checking!

LillyPJ · 31/07/2025 21:50

This has got to be a joke!

LillyPJ · 31/07/2025 21:53

But I see OP admitted she's in the wrong,so well done to her.

TitaniasAss · 31/07/2025 22:51

Are you serious? I didn't know people like you actually existed! The guy did you a favour, he only charged you £30, you should be thanking him!

hannonle · 31/07/2025 23:10

So if a bank note is a promissory to exchange the paper note for that value in gold, is OPs promissory note to be exchanged for a promissory note (cash money) to gold?

I feel like in I'm a Droster effect of promissory notes 😂

When does the OP get their crumb of gold dust?

brunettemic · 31/07/2025 23:17

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 18:46

I will make my promissory note for £500 and I'll apologise to my husband. This wasn't an easy read, but the strength of the response...wow

The strength of response is often directly correlated to the stupidity of the original post.

AlwaysHopefull89 · 31/07/2025 23:36

Is this a serious thread?

QueenEthelTheMagnificent · 31/07/2025 23:49

Are you from the 1800's....???

just pay the man.

Mandoidi · 31/07/2025 23:49

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 31/07/2025 21:34

Ooo what was that one?

This one: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/amibeingunreasonable/5382825-do-you-want-a-receipt

Has a similar obviously unreasonable and flimsy complaint to start with, OP then quickly pivoted to something equally odd and weirdly unrelated (in this case it was books and schools wasting paper), and then ended up with accusations from OP of bullying/being mean and mumsnet being the only online forum where that would happen.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 01/08/2025 01:57

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:13

Look, I'm gonna go. I'm trying to help, but if in just getting ridiculed then I'm off.

And yet you posted 9 more times after this. 🙄

Lulubo1 · 01/08/2025 09:27

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:06

Yes. It's a promise to pay just like government money.
No difference.

Try taking your promissory note to pay for you groceries at Tesco. They won't take it. Do you pay your self assessment/corp tax by promissory note!? I don't think HMRC will let that happen for one second

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 01/08/2025 10:09

Anyone, whether that's Dickie Vobes, a Freeman of the Land proponent, Sovereign Citizen etc who try to tell you that there are special magic legal words you can say that mean you can force people to accept your bullshit "bill of exchange" or "promissory note" are grifters, tinfoil-hat conspiracy theorists and/or nut-jobs. That goes double if they've got their own floundering YouTube channel.

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 01/08/2025 10:10

@knuckly77trills welcome to Mumsnet! Out of interest how did you find your way here to this specific thread?

Sahara123 · 01/08/2025 11:04

Catsandcheese · 31/07/2025 19:55

Some of them fit the self checkout at Sainsbury’s though

🤣

Sahara123 · 01/08/2025 11:06

legsekeven · 31/07/2025 19:52

I wonder if you can “cancel the promissory note”

🤣

FunnyOrca · 01/08/2025 11:32

Shazzabaz · 31/07/2025 19:37

It's still going through the courts. But I'll win.

OP, get yourself up to the Edinburgh Fringe.

Biskieboo · 01/08/2025 11:45

FunnyOrca · 01/08/2025 11:32

OP, get yourself up to the Edinburgh Fringe.

Lunatic fringe more like.

Tiswa · 01/08/2025 11:58

knuckly77trills · 01/08/2025 09:09

It's all very simple and explained well on this website.

https://cirnow.com.au/how-to-create-a-bill-of-exchange/

I met Richard Vobes a number of times in the 2010s and he did not seem like a complete hairbrained lunatic then.

It really isn’t, it is just a way to avoid paying any bill from the Government!

Promissory notes had/have their place mainly a form of debt contract - now it is really is either a loan or people use credit cards and make minimum payments!

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 01/08/2025 12:39

Omg is this still up? 🤣

Katherine9 · 01/08/2025 14:07

brunettemic · 31/07/2025 23:17

The strength of response is often directly correlated to the stupidity of the original post.

I'm genuinely annoyed I bothered to read OPs post.

Can some sort of warning go up on their future posts to avoid such timewasting?

EmeraldShamrock000 · 01/08/2025 14:11

He changed his mind, 30 quid is a bargain, maybe don't be so tight the next time, leave it in another garage.

Paganpentacle · 01/08/2025 14:17

UsingAMansNameInAWomensWorld · 31/07/2025 19:38

Maybe he has 100 000 promises to follow...

😂

ConnieHeart · 01/08/2025 14:43

Anewuser · 31/07/2025 19:41

I’m not interested in the nut job or searching YouTube, but I am interested in who the hell is the 1% who think OP is reasonable?

The same people who watch the nut job, probably