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Bonnie blue 1000 men and me

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tangerinemagic · 31/07/2025 09:05

I watched last night (don’t ask me why) I wish I didn’t. Woke up feeling dirty. Pure greed is where her motivation comes from. ‘Bonnie’ aka Tia boasted throughout she is a multi millionaire, where she started making £50k/month and went up to £2m/month before OF shut her account down. Now she’s back to making £600k/month on her new site, selling her body. The men queing up for her 1000 men stunt were just arriving from the street, no one had vetted them and the ones who were on show looked far too old for her and frankly, disgusting in old tracksuit bottoms and huge beer bellies. I’m so concerned by the internet. The young women on the show were ‘Only Fans creators’ and were 18-21, seemed nervous, shy and about to film a porn scene with Bonnie, completely for free but by Bonnie tagging them they would be earning money through new subscribers. These young girls, like Bonnie were stating it’s better than sitting behind a desk.

AIBU to wake up feeling anxious, disgusted, concerned with the damage and short cut to money Only Fans is creating for young women.

OP posts:
Nagginthenag · 01/08/2025 13:07

Is anyone surprised she looks years older than her actual age, though, given what she does for a living?

Ihateboris · 01/08/2025 13:10

Nagginthenag · 01/08/2025 13:07

Is anyone surprised she looks years older than her actual age, though, given what she does for a living?

Exactly! Also, I'm not saying she takes recreational drugs, but prostitution and drug abuse often go hand in hand.

No3392 · 01/08/2025 13:13

So we all just lower ourselves to commenting on people's looks and age because of what she does/says? Are we not better than that?
Tit for tat? (Pun not intended)

Goldenbear · 01/08/2025 13:27

No3392 · 01/08/2025 13:13

So we all just lower ourselves to commenting on people's looks and age because of what she does/says? Are we not better than that?
Tit for tat? (Pun not intended)

I don't think it's that though, if you are quite a bit older than you say you are (which I don't know at all in this woman's case) because your whole world is based upon your aesthetic, then you are perpetuating the issue women have with being judged for getting old. Women have a right to call that out and say to their daughters (maybe) that you are more than your looks, you are more than an object, your usefulness is not based upon sex and looks! You have a brain, bloody use it and stop indulging people who think in this shallow way!

HunnyPot · 01/08/2025 13:35

Are we not better than that?

This is MN. No one’s better than that 🤣

HelloHattie · 01/08/2025 13:37

I think any man who sends a sample of spunk for her to ‘bathe in, play with and drink’ should have the sample intercepted by police and put on a list somewhere. It’s beyond disgusting.

she needs help from a psychiatrist. She said her future kids won’t know as she’s not really called Bonnie blue. Ye gods.

HangingOver · 01/08/2025 13:40

It's the injectables. People getting fillers broadly fall into two camps, those who are losing volume due to age and want to put back what was there before and those who want to change or enhance what is there to start with. Again, generalising but the former makes you look younger, latter makes you look older. There was a lass on Love Island who'd had so many injections she looked a good 15 years older than she was.

Plastictreees · 01/08/2025 14:50

OnlyHerefortheBiscuits · 01/08/2025 07:26

I wonder if she feels deep down that she is unloveable but masks it very well.

She seems gleeful at it being women's partners who are partaking of her..ummm...services. I just have a gut feeling that deep down she thinks there is something fundamentally wrong with her that means she doesn't get to have what other people have (relationships with "normal" men), so she enjoys (in her mind at least) getting one-up on the women who have it. It just sounded all very goady and I think there's something going on there.

Then again I could be completely wrong!

I'd rather be in my "boring" desk job, with modest pay but my modesty intact though. But that's just me.

I agree. The whole thing reeks of self hate but she’s in deep denial and trying to convince herself how ‘empowered’ she is and how much she ‘enjoys’ it. Tragic.

404PageNotFound · 01/08/2025 15:24

I caught 5 minutes of the programme out of curiosity but didn't find it particularly interesting so turned it off. She reminds me a little of my narcissistic ex - dead eyes and an empty shell.

Beetlebumz · 01/08/2025 18:18

No3392 · 01/08/2025 13:13

So we all just lower ourselves to commenting on people's looks and age because of what she does/says? Are we not better than that?
Tit for tat? (Pun not intended)

She deserves everything she gets. Women like her encourage the abuse of young girls. She is heinous.

Bitchesbelike · 01/08/2025 18:25

W0tnow · 31/07/2025 10:45

The most revolting aspect of this for me is the men. One woman is prepared to be involved in such a degrading spectacle. Clearly 1000’s of men are. Yech.

Yeah; in no way could I imagine queue of 1000 women waiting in line to pogo on some man’s dick

floppybit · 01/08/2025 18:39

DevonDonnie · 31/07/2025 23:50

Showing my age here but I’ve noticed no one ever brings this up in the Bonnie/Lily discussions. Apologies if it’s come up here as I have not read the whole thread. Back when I was young there was a young American girl from Asian descent who did similar (before social media) and it was a huge outroar. She slept with hundreds of men in 12 or 24 hours. Her parents were very very conservative and horrified. It was made in to a documentary. I remember (I didn’t see it) but the back lash was massive and everyone was shocked.

Yes, I have been thinking about her while all this has been going on! I remember watching the documentary at the time, it’s really stuck with me how upset her family were. I’ve been racking my brains but I can’t remember her name!!

floppybit · 01/08/2025 18:50

@DevonDonnie it was Annabel Chong

Falseknock · 01/08/2025 18:59

tangerinemagic · 31/07/2025 11:58

To feed her ego. Her ego is huge in this. The footage in the documentary shows Chanel handbags strewn around, she’s wearing a LV cardigan/blazer, dripping in designer jewellery. Everything is to feed her ego, even calling normal hard working people ‘boring’ like she is something special. I’m sure as someone who is fascinated by human psychology, that her family have told her she is special her entire life, she has had no boundaries and she genuinely believes it. Male attention hasn’t been due to low self worth, rather to boost her inflated ego. Being able to walk into Chanel and buy handbags at £15k a go is fuelling her arrogance. As is fame and attention. The ‘rage bate’ of 200 videos a day released to wind women up is not genius marketing, it’s attention seeking.

Edited

You are giving this woman to much she's no different to the local bike. The difference is people are more outraged for her making a living out of it. We are to prudish.

Falseknock · 01/08/2025 19:00

Bitchesbelike · 01/08/2025 18:25

Yeah; in no way could I imagine queue of 1000 women waiting in line to pogo on some man’s dick

Could he physically keep it up for 1000 women it will go dead after one woman.

Falseknock · 01/08/2025 19:02

Thousands of women and men have sex every weekend after a drink no one's to challenging them. You can see them getting banged down Alley ways and in cars. When did we turn into a bunch of nuns?

Goldenbear · 01/08/2025 19:07

Falseknock · 01/08/2025 19:02

Thousands of women and men have sex every weekend after a drink no one's to challenging them. You can see them getting banged down Alley ways and in cars. When did we turn into a bunch of nuns?

Lovely, who said romance was dead!

No3392 · 01/08/2025 19:17

Beetlebumz · 01/08/2025 18:18

She deserves everything she gets. Women like her encourage the abuse of young girls. She is heinous.

Exactly! So talk about that!

There are posts that only mention how she looks or her age. It detracts from the actual issues of this woman.

HunnyPot · 01/08/2025 19:22

You can see them getting banged down Alley ways and in cars. When did we turn into a bunch of nuns?

Bunch? It’s a Convent of nuns. What’s wrong with nuns anyway? You sound judgmental. Are you always so nunist?

HelloHattie · 01/08/2025 19:33

The average time any of the 1000 men got was 37 seconds. Literally a dip and then move on.

Falseknock · 01/08/2025 19:38

HunnyPot · 01/08/2025 19:22

You can see them getting banged down Alley ways and in cars. When did we turn into a bunch of nuns?

Bunch? It’s a Convent of nuns. What’s wrong with nuns anyway? You sound judgmental. Are you always so nunist?

What's this thread all about pot kettle

Nagginthenag · 01/08/2025 19:40

Falseknock · 01/08/2025 19:02

Thousands of women and men have sex every weekend after a drink no one's to challenging them. You can see them getting banged down Alley ways and in cars. When did we turn into a bunch of nuns?

So you can't see any issues with what she's doing? None?

Wishing14 · 01/08/2025 20:00

This was always going to be the outcome of ‘sex work is real work’ unfortunately

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 01/08/2025 20:00

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 31/07/2025 10:32

I watched it too OP and also felt really grubby afterwards. I'd heard about her but not seen her before and didn't realise she was so young. The whole barely legal thing was absolutely grim, if a man was rocking up to a uni and wanting all the barely legal girls there would be uproar. There might have been, as I said she's only just appeared on my radar.

I wonder who she had sex with at 13, you don't behave like she does without serious trauma.

I disagree that there would be uproar if a handsome man in his late 20s was looking to sleep with 18 year old girls - this is part and parcel of what happens in most nightclubs and on dating apps every day and society totally normalizes it

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 01/08/2025 20:01

ExtraOnions · 31/07/2025 10:42

I’m not going to watch it, but I do question the finances that are quoted.

“made a million pounds from that stunt” - from whom? Is it actually real money.. is any of it real money ? I’ve no doubt she’s made some money, I just don’t believe the numbers quoted.

Porn is free .. so not sure where all this money is from.

She’ll end up like a lot of people on that industry broke .. in all ways.

Her porn isn't free, it's pay per view

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