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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask what you do for work?

204 replies

Biscoffnutellatoast · 26/07/2025 14:51

I’m early 20’s, and to be honest am a bit stuck on career choices. My dream is to become a forensic psychologist, however the current job market in this subject is terrible, and I’m paranoid about wasting time and money, over several years for a degree/s which I will end up not using!

AIBU to ask what your career is?

OP posts:
Crazyladee · 27/07/2025 09:46

Titasaducksarse · 26/07/2025 20:02

Shared Lives?

Yes! Not many people have heard of it. How do you know about it?

19lottie82 · 27/07/2025 09:51

Agency cook. I work lots of different places but usually residential units, mainly sheltered housing type places.

I used to be an administrator but at the age of 41 I quit as I had always hated it. Went back to college but quickly realised I didn’t want to work in a fancy restaurant. This suits me down to the ground, it’s basically home cooking for around 20 people each day.

The agency wages are a bit better than permanent roles, and I can pick my own shifts, rather than someone telling me when I’m working, which is priceless.

Loobylu66 · 27/07/2025 09:53

I am a Revenues Officer for a local authority. I am currently dealing with all the new second home premiums.

Titasaducksarse · 27/07/2025 09:58

Crazyladee · 27/07/2025 09:46

Yes! Not many people have heard of it. How do you know about it?

I've worked for a scheme previously, supporting the host carers! Great job you're doing there. I too think it's bonkers how little known it is.

SallyS6 · 27/07/2025 10:00

I work as a HR Manager, some HR roles do pay well. I changed my career from property to HR then progressed fairly quickly. Pay is good in my area compared to some other roles. I saw someone say Prison Service..be prepared to work weekends and long shifts, most people I know can't wait to leave!

Mary46 · 27/07/2025 10:04

I help on a school bus. I dont miss office work was so boring! I get all the school holidays. Wouldnt suit everyone but I like it.

catlovingdoctor · 27/07/2025 10:10

sodthebloodypicnics · 26/07/2025 20:52

Doctor

don’t do it

I'm a dentist hoping to switch to med!

catlovingdoctor · 27/07/2025 10:11

Nhs dentist. Awful job.

Natsku · 27/07/2025 10:20

Aircraft mechanic working in production of wooden aircraft (also becoming a bit of a carpenter) rather than maintenance. Bloody love it, highly recommend it to anyone who is good with their hands and doing practical things, but it does involve working in very unergonomic positions at times.

DrPrunesqualer · 27/07/2025 11:23

I’m an Architect

decided when I was about 14 and still loving it. Don’t think I’ll ever stop, I don’t consider it a job

OnGoldenPond · 27/07/2025 12:44

Adelle79360 · 26/07/2025 21:28

Solicitor. I hate it. The money isn’t as much as people expect (unless you’re selling your soul in the city) and the stress just means it feels like it’s not worth it. I desperately want to change careers but I feel like it’s so depressing that I’m struggling to be able to explain why I want a career change without totally slagging off what I already do. How do people explain this in interviews?!

You need to focus on the positive factors of why you want to go into the new field rather than why you no longer want to do law. Talk about new challenges and how you can apply your skills to the new field.

hellohellooo · 28/07/2025 12:54

catlovingdoctor · 27/07/2025 10:11

Nhs dentist. Awful job.

Do you mind if I ask why?

I know a few dentists who have taken lots of time off due to depression

catlovingdoctor · 28/07/2025 22:03

hellohellooo · 28/07/2025 12:54

Do you mind if I ask why?

I know a few dentists who have taken lots of time off due to depression

It just isn't a very satisfying job. It feels more like manual labour than ever using your brain; you're essentially doing microsurgery on fully-conscious patients, straining your neck and back to do so. Because of the NHS system you have to work at a breakneck speed to earn a living. Some treatments leave you in negative equity. On top of this, you're more likely to get sued as a dentist in the UK than anywhere else.

Shayisgreat · 28/07/2025 22:19

Social worker. I find it meaningful but the pay is a bit crap. You really need to have a drive and passion to do it and you need to develop thick skin as you're always to blame somehow according to someone.

Cel77 · 28/07/2025 22:23

Teacher who is now only doing supply teaching. The job is brutal, thankless and you're forever criticised,undermined and overworked.

Honeydewmelon123 · 28/07/2025 22:26

catlovingdoctor · 28/07/2025 22:03

It just isn't a very satisfying job. It feels more like manual labour than ever using your brain; you're essentially doing microsurgery on fully-conscious patients, straining your neck and back to do so. Because of the NHS system you have to work at a breakneck speed to earn a living. Some treatments leave you in negative equity. On top of this, you're more likely to get sued as a dentist in the UK than anywhere else.

Why would medicine be any better?

OublietteBravo · 28/07/2025 22:28

Patent attorney. I’m in-house, and I love it! It’s such a varied job. You need a STEM background and then a training contract. The professional exams are fairly brutal, but it’s well-paid and fairly 9-5 once you’re qualified.

Pinkparka · 28/07/2025 22:32

I’m an Author - living my dream!

ScepticPeg · 28/07/2025 22:42

Graphic Designer of 20 years. No idea how much longer it will last with AI 😀

JockTamsonsBairns · 28/07/2025 22:53

Care worker looking after elderly people in their own homes. Been doing it 30 years and I absolutely love it. The hours are very long and the pay is appalling though.

It would be fascinating to get a snapshot of a totally different job. I could work alongside an investment banker for a week, then she could come out with me on my care rounds for a week 😂.

Zoommeout · 28/07/2025 23:15

FinanceName · 26/07/2025 19:26

I’ve always worked in Finance of some sort. If you like numbers then its not a bad choice and it can be well paid - see@TaxDirector’s post. Though personally I would say you need to be both very able and ambitious to earn 6 figures. Or, possibly if one of those is missing then just happy to play the games involved in getting promoted in big firms/banks/corporates.

I think if I had my time again I would work in the civil service of some sort.

What kind of games? (So I’m sssuming it’s not what you know to get ahead/ promoted?)

@FinanceName

Zoommeout · 28/07/2025 23:26

edwinbear · 26/07/2025 21:15

Investment banking. It pays very well, but it’s dull, monotonous work and standard to be made redundant every 7-8 years. I’ve advised DC against - despite the very nice lifestyle it’s provided them with.

@edwinbear why is it standard to be made redundant every 7/8 years?

(sorry if stupid question!)

what was you education / route to your role? Thanks 💐

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 28/07/2025 23:30

Op if you have a psychology degree you could train to be an educational psychologist? Then you could specialize with excluded children /youth offender teams if that's your interest

Mondaytuesdayhappydays · 28/07/2025 23:32

DrMadelineMaxwell · 26/07/2025 15:24

Teacher. Ditto.

Social worker ditto

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 28/07/2025 23:33

tostaky · 26/07/2025 17:49

Why not consider a NHS funded doctorate in child and adolescent psychotherapy or in child and adolescent psychology. After a couple of years of practice, you will be able to branch out into forensic psychotherapy/psychology.
or look for other NHS funded courses maybe?
i know the educational psychology doctorate is really badly funded.

No it's not, trainee ed psychs will get 26k tax free next year!

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