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AIBU?

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To ask what you do for work?

204 replies

Biscoffnutellatoast · 26/07/2025 14:51

I’m early 20’s, and to be honest am a bit stuck on career choices. My dream is to become a forensic psychologist, however the current job market in this subject is terrible, and I’m paranoid about wasting time and money, over several years for a degree/s which I will end up not using!

AIBU to ask what your career is?

OP posts:
youreactinglikeafunmum · 26/07/2025 16:43

Sahm - yes its work!

Bonjovispyjamas · 26/07/2025 16:44

Nanny. If I had my time over, I definitely would do something else.

unsurewhattodoaboutit · 26/07/2025 16:44

Senior lecturer in Nursing. The job situation isn’t great at the moment. Lots of redundancy.

Titasaducksarse · 26/07/2025 16:46

Social worker but moving into inspection.

Yuja · 26/07/2025 16:52

I work in corporate Learning & Development. It’s fun and interesting and I feel lucky to do it but the money is not amazing since most jobs are in London.

Isobel201 · 26/07/2025 16:54

I'm a civil servant, case working decision maker at the moment. In my opinion best in the terms of job security and a garaunteed pension at the end of it.

WinterNightStars · 26/07/2025 16:55

Nurse started 35 years ago. Now in primary care & love it. Major downside is pay.

Hubblebubble · 26/07/2025 16:56

Used to teach. Another vote for dont do it!
Am now a copywriter. Fab work/life balance.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 26/07/2025 16:58

User415373 · 26/07/2025 15:49

I used to be a teacher. Don't do that.
I'm now in project management in the civil service and I see it much as a job than a career. It's 100x better than teaching though.

I work for a Civil Service Arms Length Body. We are full of ex teachers!!

CommentHere · 26/07/2025 16:58

Accountant. I'm the financial controller of the company I work in. Accountancy can lead to a lot of career paths but I stayed in Industry liking the debits and credits and financial reporting.

DeirdreChambersWhatACoincidence · 26/07/2025 16:59

I'm a cook in a school. I love it.

CeeJay26 · 26/07/2025 17:15

I work in financial services, in a risk assurance role - essentially reviewing processes. I get satisfaction from improving things, and like the investigative element of the work. It pays well too, considering I don’t have a degree. And I’ve found it to be really flexible from a work/life balance perspective.

Crazyladee · 26/07/2025 17:15

I'm a foster carer for adults with mild learning disabilities. I currently have a lovely 29 year old lady who lives with us and is part of the family. I doubt it's something you would consider at your age to be honest. However it's perfect for me as I'm mid fifties and starting to wind down.
The pay is very good. Its income tax exempt and there are 46 paid days holiday a year. I love how rewarding it is. I'm out and about a lot with the lady I care for, but have quite a lot of free time as well.

Parata · 26/07/2025 17:27

I manage a (engineering) design team in an engineering company. It offers good work life balance and a decent salary. I sort of fell into the role coming at it sideways from a specialist role in another part of the company.

Greenfingers37 · 26/07/2025 17:38

Retired teacher now an exam invigilator on a casual basis. Whatever you do, don’t go into teaching if you actually want a life!

MrsPinkCock · 26/07/2025 17:44

Lawyer. I wouldn’t say don’t do it, but I would say go into it with your eyes open, and pick the right kind of firm, as there are so many toxic firms/partnerships out there that are founded on pure greed.

Love my current job! But I’ve had a couple of shitty ones too.

Eyesopenwideawake · 26/07/2025 17:47

Remedial hypnotist. Absolutely love the work but the marketing side is tough.

Firstshoes · 26/07/2025 17:48

Medical Secretary in the NHS.....I don't think I need to bother to say don't do it Grin

GrumpyExpat · 26/07/2025 17:49

I started my career as an editor for a medical communications company before moving into writing. Years ago it was very interesting what you could write about. Lots of medical education, papers and attending events. I got to travel the world extensively. I’m not sure that’s the case anymore. I eventually moved into market access communications which is very interesting but extremely competitive for consultants like me. There are many consultancies and agencies trying to get all the work from the pharmaceutical companies. I’m not gonna say don’t do it because it actually served me while having a family. I worked in an industry that was extremely flexible way before Covid and I don’t regret that. Enabled me to work from home when my daughter was little and spend a lot of time with her. The pay is decent, especially if you work up to Director level or cross over to the pharma industry (I never did this but know many who did). But I think AI is going to change the medical writing industry completely. Also working in the pharmaceutical sector can be soul destroying because you see what pharma execs really think of patients and payers. They are ruthless.

tostaky · 26/07/2025 17:49

Why not consider a NHS funded doctorate in child and adolescent psychotherapy or in child and adolescent psychology. After a couple of years of practice, you will be able to branch out into forensic psychotherapy/psychology.
or look for other NHS funded courses maybe?
i know the educational psychology doctorate is really badly funded.

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 26/07/2025 17:50

Manager of a specialist antisocial behaviour team for a housing association. Investigating allegations of antisocial behaviour and enforcing tenancy breaches.

Aquestiontoponder · 26/07/2025 18:07

Behaviour Change Practitioner for the NHS.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 26/07/2025 18:08

I own and run my own dog-walking and pet-sitting business.

Octavia64 · 26/07/2025 18:09

Teacher. Don’t.

i did briefly work in accountancy but rejected it as boring, I didn’t want to be clock watching. Teaching wasn’t boring but was too far the other way around- far too much work and after a while stressful.

mrstambourinewoman · 26/07/2025 18:17

Author. Really love it. Only started writing in my late twenties after a completely unrelated degree