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ilovesooty · 24/07/2025 23:26

novanova5 · 24/07/2025 23:12

@WhereIsMyJumper It's truly not. If you can justify why this thing should continue to exist, it says a great deal about you.

Please stop attacking posters because their opinion differs from yours.

WhereIsMyJumper · 24/07/2025 23:26

News stories like these whip up an incredible amount of emotion, of course everyone is horrified by the murderers actions and we can feel deeply disturbed and angry and upset for a long time afterwards. This is why I try and avoid this type of news story myself.

But, here is the thing, we cannot change laws in this country - especially ones as serious as reinstating the death penalty - on emotion. They have to be based on rational, logical thinking. With the emotion taken out.

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:26

SummerEve · 24/07/2025 23:26

Of course I feel strongly about it, but I don’t think that arguing in favour of the DP on Mumsnet is going to be even remotely helpful in preventing these awful crimes.

Fair point. I just saw the story and felt so upset.

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novanova5 · 24/07/2025 23:27

@ilovesooty I could say the same to you 🤦‍♀️

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:28

WhereIsMyJumper · 24/07/2025 23:26

News stories like these whip up an incredible amount of emotion, of course everyone is horrified by the murderers actions and we can feel deeply disturbed and angry and upset for a long time afterwards. This is why I try and avoid this type of news story myself.

But, here is the thing, we cannot change laws in this country - especially ones as serious as reinstating the death penalty - on emotion. They have to be based on rational, logical thinking. With the emotion taken out.

Based on logical thinking, what do we gain from keeping this person alive? Ok, I know that’s still an emotional response. But it’s just fucking horrific and the world would be a better place if he and others like him weren’t in it.

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RantzNotBantz · 24/07/2025 23:28

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:16

I look at that child’s innocent face and I see my own DC at that age. It’s horrific.

Of course it is horrific.

No one thinks it is anything other than horrific., whatever their views on capital punishment

SummerEve · 24/07/2025 23:29

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:26

Fair point. I just saw the story and felt so upset.

I get that. But seriously, what are you actually going to DO to make a meaningful contribution to the prevention of violence? Actions speak louder than words.

WhereIsMyJumper · 24/07/2025 23:29

AllTheChaos · 24/07/2025 23:24

So murdering innocent people is fine? (Given miscarriages of justice etc) Reducing the likelihood of guilty people being punished is ok? (A serious sentence like this demands higher standards of evidence, plus juries are much warier - as in cases where chemical castration was used as punishment for rape etc, heck rape cases full stop) Forcing people to murder as part of their job is ok - with the damage it will do them? Doing this whilst not reducing crime is fine? (It has been shown the death penalty doesn’t act as a deterrent). You want murder used as punishment, with no possibility of redemption, knowing innocent people will die and it won’t reduce crime? Given all that, I don’t think it’s the people who are against the death penalty that are the disturbed ones.

You make a very good point, in a court of law, would a jury be more reticent to deliver a guilty verdict if they knew the punishment was death rather than imprisonment… so would we have actually more murderers go free.

randomchap · 24/07/2025 23:29

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:24

I wonder how many miscarriages of justice there have been for child killers.

At least one, Stefan Kiszko

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 24/07/2025 23:29

RantzNotBantz · 24/07/2025 23:13

We are a civilised society with resources and values.

I am not prepared for my own values to be dictated by those who are evil, uncivilised, wicked, selfish and who have no regard for human life or quality of life,

If I kill, or allow the state to kill on my behalf as a reaction to their crimes I am allowing their behaviour to dictate my actions.Tneir behaviour will have turned me into a killer.

Killing people is wrong. So wrong that killers do not deserve the privilege of freedom in a civilised society. They can be locked up for life to keep that freedom from them and to ensure they cannot kill or harm again.

And that enables us to keep our dignity and values in a civilised society.

This is what I think.

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:30

SummerEve · 24/07/2025 23:29

I get that. But seriously, what are you actually going to DO to make a meaningful contribution to the prevention of violence? Actions speak louder than words.

I don’t know. You’re right, I should have a think about that. And perhaps anyone who’s horrified by this child’s death should too. (There may be posters on this thread who already are.)

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TheSmallAssassin · 24/07/2025 23:31

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:03

I’m struggling to see that right now. Why should the scumbag who murdered an innocent baby get to live when his victim didn’t?

Killing someone is wrong, whoever does it.

novanova5 · 24/07/2025 23:32

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WhereIsMyJumper · 24/07/2025 23:32

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:28

Based on logical thinking, what do we gain from keeping this person alive? Ok, I know that’s still an emotional response. But it’s just fucking horrific and the world would be a better place if he and others like him weren’t in it.

Nothing. We gain nothing from keeping him alive. But what do we lose, as a society, if we killed him?

And we can’t just reinstate the death penalty for just this one person.

ilovesooty · 24/07/2025 23:33

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:24

I wonder how many miscarriages of justice there have been for child killers.

Stefan Kiszko.

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:33

randomchap · 24/07/2025 23:29

At least one, Stefan Kiszko

Ok. But in cases like this one it’s inarguably black and white.

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SummerEve · 24/07/2025 23:33

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:30

I don’t know. You’re right, I should have a think about that. And perhaps anyone who’s horrified by this child’s death should too. (There may be posters on this thread who already are.)

Yes, I am one of them. Over a decade spent working with all sorts of people, including paedophiles, murderers and rapists is yet to convince me that the DP would be a good thing.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 24/07/2025 23:34

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Don be so bloody ridiculous. Nobody is doing that.

ilovesooty · 24/07/2025 23:34

novanova5 · 24/07/2025 23:27

@ilovesooty I could say the same to you 🤦‍♀️

Where have I made personal attacks on others?

JudgeJ · 24/07/2025 23:35

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 22:52

Are you saying the Daily Mail report is untrue?

“The premature baby suffered ‘catastrophic injuries’ to his jaw, head, neck and legs at Yeovil District Hospital, Somerset.”

There’s no “complexity” about it.

You must realise that many MNers wouldn't believe the result of last night's football match, they'd be checking with the totally unbiased Grauniad. The same horrific case is reported on other websites so it must be true.

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:35

WhereIsMyJumper · 24/07/2025 23:32

Nothing. We gain nothing from keeping him alive. But what do we lose, as a society, if we killed him?

And we can’t just reinstate the death penalty for just this one person.

We gain revenge, and that feels good. Like justice has actually been done. And it’s not just him - I feel the same about all child killers.

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JoyDivision79 · 24/07/2025 23:35

Although it's the DM and therefore gutter press, I don't doubt that the gist is correct.

The problem with the death penalty for me is that people with power abuse their power endlessly, they make mistakes continually, sometimes deliberately. How many innocent people would be killed? How many innocent people would be waiting to die c/o the death penalty and they'd regularly fuck that up I imagine. Oopsy, I injected it into the skin by mistake. 🖕

Just like the baby was left with them to be killed despite obvious multiple flags. Seriously. How 🤷

I'd like to hope he'd be ended in prison. However, I believe a significant proportion in prison will be sociopathic, like he has to be to act this way ( or a psychopath).

No easy answers to dealing with these ghouls. They shouldn't pro create, but again, we can't enforce that because it would cross too many lines and they'd abuse and balls that up too if we enabled anyone power over that choice.

randomchap · 24/07/2025 23:35

bluewanda · 24/07/2025 23:33

Ok. But in cases like this one it’s inarguably black and white.

Yes, it is. But bringing back the death penalty opens the door to the possibility of innocent people being killed by the state.

novanova5 · 24/07/2025 23:35

@RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie sure.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 24/07/2025 23:36

JudgeJ · 24/07/2025 23:35

You must realise that many MNers wouldn't believe the result of last night's football match, they'd be checking with the totally unbiased Grauniad. The same horrific case is reported on other websites so it must be true.

Precisely nobody is saying it didn’t happen.

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