Being told I can’t drink out of certain mugs

[ThePerkyCoralPoet]

I’m staying at my parents house and my dad has said “don’t drink out of my mug that’s the only one I can find that’s like this so you can’t have it drink from your own” so I said “you’re pathetic and this is exactly why you and I will never see eye to eye. Because you behave like a child”

I made my tea in another mug and never bothered speaking to him for the rest of my time here.

You are everything you are accusing him of being. Take a look at the ugly person in the mirror.

I mean, it's not hard to imagine that he finds you difficult to get on with...

If you hate your dad that much go book yourself into a hotel during your renovations instead of freeloading at your parents house.

Weirdest thread ever!

Clearly?!
You clearly haven't read the OP's other threads. She has form for finding fault with those around her, when it's obvious to everyone else that it's her own behaviour that needs addressing.

Off-topic, but how do you know what her other threads are? I see comments like this a lot and always wonder - do you just have a really good memory for names, or is there a way to look up previous posts? I’ve tried searching by names before and it hasn’t worked.

Sorry to derail, have just always wondered!

I’ve got a favourite fork that I will literally wrestle out of my kids hands 😆 but this isn’t really about the mug is it?

YABU to not just use another mug, it’s not that deep.

I'm pretty sure you can do an advanced search based on the user's name. It may be a premium feature now though.

I remember the OP's name from other threads where her behaviour was very unreasonable but she failed to see that, despite almost everyone on the threads telling her so. Some threads stay in your memory when the OP's behaviour is unusual!

You can search for usernames too I think, try advanced search

Ha. I have the worst memory for names. I’ll sometimes recognise someone’s unusual posting style and think “I know you!” But I’ll never remember the name.

Ah yes, I don’t have premium so maybe that’s it.

So you have a special mug that others don't drink out of and you'd respect your mum not to drink out of hers - but your dads is fair game because you don't like him and you don't think it's special enough.

He literally can't do anything right - you're staying at their house as a favour, he buys you ice creams you really like and you won't have them.

You sound incredibly immature and awful tbh. I agree with him that you sound like a complete bitch. And it all seems to randomly come down to your mum and him splitting up for a bit.

What was it about the man your mum was with for a while that you liked so much?

No it's not premium, just click on Advanced search at the top of the thread and search by a specific username.

So you were deliberately trying to wind him up while staying in his house?
Stop acting like a mardy pre-teen.

Go grab a mug (not your Dad's) and pour yourself a really big measure of cop on.

He’s your dad. If there are no other more serious underlying issues why do you dislike him so?

I have been caring for my sainted mother and military father this week after my mum fell and hurt herself in the shower.

so far I’ve had to prevent my dad from carrying her up the stairs, using a pressure cooker and have endured lectures on immigration Ozzy Osbourne, my parenting skills, my bra measuring skills and my marriage. I’ve accepted it all because he’s my dad. You only get one

🤣

You are absolutely vile.My father died 15 years ago and I still miss him everyday.If I was your father I’d kick you out and probably never speak to you again.

Is the only reason you visit to annoy him?

Apologies. That's who I meant

He didn't ask you to stay in his house.

Don't like it? Don't use him and leave

Next thing from OP will be.... well I didn't ask to be born 😤

I have several mugs in my house that are just for my use. They have sentimental value to me and are irreplaceable.

If you touched any one of them I'd do time (probably).

I have a favourite mug and it really pisses me off when other people use it so I hide it!! It’s an Emma Bridgewater so not cheap to replace.
Years ago, part of my maternity leave gift from my colleagues was a mug that said ‘new mummy’. I loved it for sentimental reasons but my bloody father in law kept using it and broke it 😡.
FWIW my df is staying with me and is way worse. Yesterday I showed him a lovely new picture we have just bought for a specific place and he said at the top of his voice
it was ‘ a bloody stupid idea’. I also got shouted at yesterday morning when I put the sprinkler on because there was a hosepipe ban. When I said not in this postcode, he went back inside and huffed for a couple of hours. I have ten more days of this.

Honestly I know no family is perfect but then I read these kind of interactions and I realise that we are the Walton's compared to Op and her father.

This has to be a troll thread right?!?