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Neighbour hoovers everyday

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paintthetown · 22/07/2025 18:30

We live in a semi detached bungalow and our next door neighbour (single woman) hoovers every single day without fail. It only lasts 10-15 minutes and is usually in the evening around 6-7pm. AIBU to find it annoying? I can’t understand why someone would need to hoover that much unless they have kids or pets (she has neither)

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Thefaceofboe · 22/07/2025 20:45

paintthetown · 22/07/2025 18:54

Of course, I'm not keeping an eye on her. The walls are so thin and we’re usually sat in the living room while she does it. I don't know anyone who hoovers that often. We maintain a tidy home, but there's no need to vacuum daily surely. If people have carpets, they must be completely worn out.

Do you have kids? Have you ever given them a packet of crisps?

Okiedokie123 · 22/07/2025 20:48

For sure there is no need to hoover that often if there are no pets or small children. But if it makes her happy its no biggie. Maybe go for a walk at that time if its really that much of a bother. Or do something else, somewhere else.
Come visit me if you like - you can "enjoy" my neighbours parties that go on until dawn o'clock.

Dontthink · 22/07/2025 20:48

I hoover 2-3 times a day. I have a toddler and carpet.

LadyRoughDiamond · 22/07/2025 20:50

OP, you’re the problem here, not your neighbour.

Geesgirl · 22/07/2025 20:50

Behave

BakewellGin1 · 22/07/2025 20:59

I hoover downstairs daily at least once.
Bedrooms every other day
Stairs weekly
Kitchen and bathroom floors daily
I just like it clean. Takes literally 10 minutes

I live in a terraced old house. I dont hear next door so dont even know of they hear us. I also put wash on at 5am and hang it out by 6am. Glad your not my neighbour though

Nanny0gg · 22/07/2025 21:12

paintthetown · 22/07/2025 18:54

Of course, I'm not keeping an eye on her. The walls are so thin and we’re usually sat in the living room while she does it. I don't know anyone who hoovers that often. We maintain a tidy home, but there's no need to vacuum daily surely. If people have carpets, they must be completely worn out.

There is as much need as people want

defrazzled · 22/07/2025 21:28

You'd hate it here, DH hoovers constantly. He'll hoover you if you stop still long enough 😂

Hotflushesandchilblains · 22/07/2025 21:29

Yes, you are very unreasonable.

Digdongdoo · 22/07/2025 21:31

I hoover twice a day 🙀
YABU to moan about brief daytime cleaning. Get a life.

OnTheBoardwalk · 22/07/2025 21:37

I thought you were going to say an hour everyday at 6am

i'm a hairy fecker and single so I obviously have cats as mandated on these threads. I don’t have carpets but like a good sweep every evening

StrugglingwithIvanhoe · 22/07/2025 21:46

You'll just have to suck it up I'm afraid.

Goldengirl123 · 22/07/2025 21:52

You are being very unreasonable

tothelefttotheleft · 22/07/2025 21:58

quicklywick · 22/07/2025 19:52

You would hate me i had the hoover out at 3 this morning getting a huge spider

That's such a cruel thing to do.

DottieMoon · 22/07/2025 22:02

YABU

She's not doing it at an unreasonable time and not for long. What is your problem.

I hoover downstairs everyday!

gradygals · 22/07/2025 22:03

I have a friend who vacuums 3 times a day. I vacuum 3 times a week (sometimes).

gradygals · 22/07/2025 22:06

I used to vacuum when the children were in bed as we had a very small living area. Both became great sleepers through any noise.

MellowPinkDeer · 22/07/2025 22:10

You’d hate me then. I hoover twice a day everyday. Usually at 8am and about 7pm. Good job I’m detached!

Nothankyov · 22/07/2025 22:12

@paintthetown i have to say I had to re read your post. I thought you said she hoovered at 6/7am. Which I understand could be annoying as not everyone are early risers. But in this case. You are being very unreasonable.

WhereYouLeftIt · 22/07/2025 22:19

Once upon a time, when I was new to running my own house and therefore incredibly houseproud, I hoovered every day before going to work, so that the house - MY house - was pristine for my return.

Now I'm older and far more slatternly, it's lucky if I hoover once a quarter week.

YABU.

Chick981 · 22/07/2025 22:41

Sometimes we hoover twice a day OP, don’t move in next to us

Deathinparadisefan · 22/07/2025 22:53

I think the mention of the single status of the neighbour implies that she lives alone and therefore makes OP question why the daily hoovering.

If you had a nice lightweight vacuum cleaner, it’s not a chore to use it every day. You also need to keep on top of dust mites.

Lifesaidyes · 22/07/2025 22:57

You would hate being our neighbour, admittedly we have kids and a lot of animals but I hoover twice a day and send the robotic around 3 more times. Kind of necessary here if we don't want to be trailing hair, seed and feathers around the place.

If I didn't have pets I would still hoover once a day, I thought everyone did - what about the dust and mud you bring in on your clothes / the crumbs from food / teeny tiny particles from opening packages or sharpening pencils? Everyone makes floor dust, wouldn't it feel manky underfoot if you didn't lift it daily?

quicklywick · 23/07/2025 06:24

tothelefttotheleft · 22/07/2025 21:58

That's such a cruel thing to do.

The spider was trespassing it was me or him

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