To think a two hour sesh sounds hellish?

[MyWarmOchreHare]

Just been away for a weekend with a male friend. During one conversation we got on about sex somehow, and he said he thought anything less than a two hour session is a waste of time.

Good for him I suppose, but AIBU to think the majority of people would find this far too long and start planning their dinner?

Before anyone says he’s trying to impress me or get me into bed, he’s not.

I have asked. They don’t fancy going at it for two hours either.

We’ve been going on holiday for years. Haven’t fallen onto his cock yet.

Not sure why you’re trying to attempt to make such a storm in a teacup. We’re all happy. This is a thread about whether you’d want to be rogered for two hours?

100%. Half an hour tops.

I thought he wasn’t “rogering” for 2 hours.

One minute he’s Sting, next he’s the Duracell bunny. One minute you’re sharing one bottle of wine with a friend, next there’s a fucking crowd of you.

I can’t keep up 🤣

Send him my way.

I was with someone once, we used to go on for about 4-5 hours, it was exhausting. After about 8 years, I was getting fed up with it. Don't get me wrong, it was a flipping good workout and I was in good condition, but boy, there was never a quick 5 minute get it over with. I could have written those 50 shades books long before they were even thought about. When I suggested we dial it back, it was like I had suggested we never get intimate again.

The relationship didn't last long after that, when I met my now husband, I must admit, I was expecting a full on marathon session the first time. I didn't realise that what we was doing wasn't normal.

Okay, well you don’t have to. No worries.

Ha! Will let him know hes got an offer.

4-5 hours?! My imagination doesn’t even extend to how to make it last that long.

On a rare occasion, 2 hours would be great. Assuming that includes massage, lots of foreplay, etc. 2 hours routinely - no way!

Bullshit!! I would’ve quoted Shania Twain, “ That don’t impress me much”

Two hours is hardly unimaginable- but its his claim anything less is a waste of time that's odd.

Variety is the spice of life - you'd need a few wham bam thank you mam moments and other approaches too. I mean blocking off four hours every Thursday would be lovely but not as the only time or style.

Evidently he doesnt binge watch whilst in a relationship. Well binge watch series at least. 😃

What kind of bad luck?

I actually think men should read this thread because society, tv, movies, social media ect. do give men the impression that in order to please a woman they have to "last" a long time.
I think this comes from the fact that men could come within 2 mins if let, where as most women take abit longer im guessing 10 mins but it would be a useful stat (for men) if woman put out more surveys about time needed..any longer for me and im thinking of anything but sex. It would also be interesting to know how much faking it goes on, iv not actually had an orgasm since about 2010 but when I made the mistake of telling my then husband oh god! that's when the really long sessions started as he thought that going on for longer was the answer, which i guess is what men are thought. My now partner i just told him I come quick , that way he doesn't go on and on.😂

Balls to that. Get it done, go to sleep.

I haven't had an orgasm during sex since about 2010, could be longer actually 😒

Jesus…

Same!

Not often now, granted but when we have the time. Staying in a hotel etc it's actually very fun and enjoyable. It's not constant PIV though, that's fun for nobody!

Jesus, why do you tolerate that?

Once had a boyfriend that, er, 'finished' almost immediately, and I mean before any penetration. He was hugely apologetic, but I found it a huge turn-on - like he found me irresistible. So much so that he couldn't control himself. He was young, so it wasn't long before he was good to go again!

Don't know if it's weird of me to see it that way or not! And apologies if that's TMI!

Haha, look who's projecting.

Why are you so against people saying he may want a shagging session with you?

The lady doth protest too much!

You keep saying you're all happy, trying to convince yourself?
You've asked your friends who said no, but thatwasn't enough for you, here you are still obsessing about the rogering sesh.

If someone thinks they are in the wrong sex body, is it better to:

1 Work on changing their thinking
or
2 Give them a sex change involving taking fertility and health damaging hormones, and operating on genitals?

One had an affair. One was coercively controlling. One ghosted him.

Wrong thread?

How do I delete it and post in best place?