To think a two hour sesh sounds hellish?

[MyWarmOchreHare]

Just been away for a weekend with a male friend. During one conversation we got on about sex somehow, and he said he thought anything less than a two hour session is a waste of time.

Good for him I suppose, but AIBU to think the majority of people would find this far too long and start planning their dinner?

Before anyone says he’s trying to impress me or get me into bed, he’s not.

This thread makes me feel better as my ex would want to shag for bloody ages (at least an hour) - I hated it, I was bored out of my mind and it put me off having sex at all. I would literally be planning dinners, making to do lists and pondering work stuff in my head. 5-minute quickie sounds ideal to me (though I’ve just stayed single as I can’t be arsed at all tbh)

I was with someone for 3 years who drew it out like this. I got a bit stuck with him during the covid years. It was a major factor in me going off sex with him.

It really buggered up my knees actually.

This reminds me a few years back when my OH's friend was telling us about his new gf. He boasted that she 'was riding my dick for an hour!' I mentally rolled my eyes when he proudly declared that. Like yeah of course she did! Either both of your bits would have been sore, or you have a problem ejaculating!
He does have a tendency to boast, he thinks we are impressed, but anything he tells us we take with a pinch of salt.
Personally, I would be bored of riding a dick for longer than 15 minutes tops.

Well, wine was involved and ended up talking about sex sessions.

Can't say I'd be happy if my DP went away on holiday with the opposite sex where they drink and talk about their stamina, whilst sometimes sharing a room.

All sounds dodgy.

You can be “cool girl” about anything. Including faux claiming your straight male friend is drinking wine and getting into sex talk without wondering at the back of his mind if it’ll lead to a shag.

Especially when you are aware you’ve told him you’re off to post about his alleged sexual stamina on mumsnet for lots of other women to discuss 🤣

This is a scam

He is.

Oh 100 he's bad in bed and most likely is addicted to porn being able to last that long is the process desensitisation and screams alarm bells it really is not a flex . He has clear issues with intimacy.

Tell him he's doing it wrong! I find it hard to believe any partner would want to spend 2 hours having sex. People just don't have that kind of time on a regular basis. So he must not be having much sex!

Well, he wasn't a man who thought one orgasm was sufficient, let's put it like that 😂

Well we’ll both have to make our peace with never being in a relationship with you.

I find it quite sad that you think having a bottle of wine on a break with your friend is dodgy though! Each to their own.

😂 I went out with someone once he kept trying to go for ages and I got bored and he just kept at it alone. Wasn’t sure whether it was rude to excuse myself or what.

The OP was very clear that he wasn't talking about thrusting away for 2 hours, that he was including foreplay etc. I don't understand what about him saying he likes to enjoy sexual experiences means he's bad in bed and addicted to porn.

If we're spouting unsubstantiated bullshit, it's probably more likely that the people saying they'd get bored after twenty minutes are the ones who are bad in bed.

Well, he was. And he knows it won’t lead to sex. I can’t really see what he or I have done wrong.

Cool girl is a term used to insult women in relationships who are okay with their boyfriends and husbands behaving in a way they wouldn't like. He’s not my boyfriend or husband.

Talking to a man about sex? You Jezebel 😂

He is not. There was more than just me there. Is he trying to shag all of us? Honestly, it’s so bizarre to be so sure about an opinion you’ve got of someone you’ve never met. It’s very odd.

Eh? 😂 Saturday nights on Mumsnet.

Nice drip feed…next you’ll have just overheard the convo from a nearby table 😅

Odd to post on a chat forum asking for opinions and then slate people for having an opinion

Yeah. I mean, I’ve never slept with him, and nor will I ever, but I can’t see this being the case. He doesn’t seem to have intimacy issues or anything. He’s had a run of extraordinarily bad luck with his last few girlfriends but when he’s in a relationship with them hes completely committed to them.

And drinking with him. On holiday. Who knew that would upset people who don’t know either of us? 😂

What did I ask for opinions on? Why would I tell you who’s there? I wanted to know whether people would enjoy sex for two hours.

Did I say ‘do people think it’s okay if I have a male friend, go away for the weekend with him, talk to him, and was it alright that I shared a room with him in the past?’ No, I didn’t. But honestly, why wouldn’t it be okay? 😂 What earthly reason would there be?

Interesting ommission by choice there.

Not just having a bottle of wine is it,
Sometimes sharing a room and talking about sex stamina whilst your DP is at home.
Defensive much!

I'd never want to be in a relationship with someone like either of you, as you have no boundaries, very much at peace with that.

😂, True, would imagine anyone else there would have agreed with OP or sesh stud. Strange no mention of others or what they thought until now.

The 40 year old handsome single man who goes on for two hours decides to go on holiday with OP and sometimes share a room.

So much wine, she can't remember how the conversation started.

Almost three pages of her own posts going on about him and being defensive and disagreeing with PP's views.

Ask your DP OP.

After an hour! My OH gets 15 mins then im snoring! 🤣🤣🤣

Are you projecting insecurities and an unhappy relationship onto me? Or do you not have any friends?

My DP is very happy. No need for you to worry at all.

Back to the thread. A two hour shag. Yay or nay?