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Thread 8: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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DisappointedReader · 16/07/2025 23:41

Well, this has turned out to be slightly longer than the dozen or so replies I expected when I started the first thread!

The Observer The real Salt Path: how a blockbuster book and film were ...

2nd Observer
https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found

3rd Observer
https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-the-truth-behind-the-blockbuster-book-video

4th Observer
‘I felt I was being gaslit’ – the landlord who helped Ray...

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Raynor Winn/Sally Walker's statement Raynor Winn

New posters welcome. It would be helpful to read at least the four Observer items above before posting.

To all - Please be extremely cautious when it comes to naming or implicating people and addresses not in the public eye or with no direct connection to the story, and around the understandable health speculations, especially where details are unclear or still emerging. Please do not engage with possible visitors who seem to have their own agenda and seek to derail.

We have done amazingly well together - in the main that is, not mentioning any names but you know who you are! - for seven threads so far. I can't be on the threads as much as I'd like so all help with keeping our discussion ticking along in a healthy and civil fashion is very welcome.

No saltiness. Keep to the path. Thank you.

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AldoGordo · 18/07/2025 10:47

sualipa · 18/07/2025 09:57

New thought piece - New Stateman

The Salt Path and the sins of memoir
We are all unreliable narrators of our own lives.

As the author of a memoir myself, I admit the story left me unscandalised. Yes, the allegations, if accurate, make a mockery of The Salt Path’s claim to be nonfiction. But to tell you the truth – and would I, dear reader, do anything else? – I’ve come to have low expectations of the average memoir. The genre defined by fidelity to the facts is, on average, a poor guide to deeper truths about human beings. If you want to understand people, you’re better off reading fiction.

But successful memoirs are exceptions. We’re much better at seeing through other people’s hypocrisies and contradictions than our own. That insight underpins the narrative revolution pioneered by Jane Austen: the blending of a character’s innocent perspective with the author’s more knowing one. If Elizabeth Bennett had written her own story, it would be a banal tissue of vanity and delusion. But when Austen told it, she invented “free indirect speech” – and the modern novel.

The messy truth behind the Salt Path may well turn out to be neither Winn’s inspiring redemption story nor the cynical fraud imagined by her online critics. Perhaps it’s something more interesting: a case of two people backed into a corner by bad luck and terrible decisions, who stumbled onto a slightly too perfect escape – and found themselves trapped in their own distortions once it succeeded beyond their wildest dreams. Whatever actually happened, it would make a gripping story. Just don’t expect Raynor Winn to be the person to tell it.

https://www.newstatesman.com/culture/books/2025/07/the-salt-path-and-the-sins-of-memoir

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I think this conclusion is fair. It seems likely the idea snowballed into something that RW couldn't then stop. She never knew how successful her book would become. Nevertheless, the narrative should never have been presented as non-fiction and she must have known that.

hobbledyhoy · 18/07/2025 10:49

Catwith69lives · 18/07/2025 08:24

There is no similar disclaimer in LL or in any other Penguin travelogue that I've got (ie Nicholas Crane's- 2 Degrees West).

Other publisher's of travelogues (ie Picador who published The Crossway by Guy Stagg recently) also don't include such disclaimers.

It must be the major arse covering version. The one they bring out with things don’t seem quite right but the story is bound to sell.

Uricon2 · 18/07/2025 10:54

'How Not to Dal dy Dyr'. That ridiculous neither Welsh nor English title gets more annoying every time I see it 😂

GogleddCymru · 18/07/2025 10:55

AzureStaffy · 17/07/2025 20:54

Don't know if this has been posted before but it's Giles Whittell (writer, journalist) talking to Chloe Hadjimatheou and her editor about the original Observer article. They were both 'floored' by the response to their disclosures. This video only went up in last couple of hours.

Just watched it, thanks for posting. A very clear and balanced explanation of all manner of things, including how many times Chloe H approached both the author and publishers, initially to ask them about her findings and then to examine what had been written pre-publication. Ample opportunity to counter / explain any of the points, offer contrary evidence, or whatever. I recommend a watch, especially for @Humankindness .

Crikeyalmighty · 18/07/2025 10:58

I think on reflection the wording of ‘we didn’t lose our house because of the Hemmings dispute’ may actually be accurate - it seems it was because the loan was passed on and then called in due to default. So the hemmings issue and subsequent loan was the underlying issue but not actually the final trigger for losing the house . I think it was selective wording.

Choux · 18/07/2025 10:59

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FurryHappyKittens · 18/07/2025 10:59

AldoGordo · 18/07/2025 10:47

I think this conclusion is fair. It seems likely the idea snowballed into something that RW couldn't then stop. She never knew how successful her book would become. Nevertheless, the narrative should never have been presented as non-fiction and she must have known that.

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But what did Sally Walker want?

She may not have imagined it to be the success it became, but she wanted it to make money, she wanted it to be published.

Did she imagine it would only make a little, and that Tim would just quietly go into his newly trained job role and they'd live quietly ever after?

I can believe that because of how bad The Wild Silence is. It's a cobbled together mess in essence.

However, the wild story of Tim's health could easily have been dealt with in TWS and Landlines.

She would have been just as successful I believe if she had said in TWS that the consultant thought that he may not even have CBD. The hope she could write about! The joy! The weight that was lifted from their shoulders as the medical profession potentially gave him his life back.

But no, she just keeps going with her, harder to remain believable, narrative. Introducing miracles of brain scans reversing visible damage to his brain.

Just like a pathological liar would.

Humankindness · 18/07/2025 11:00

sualipa · 18/07/2025 09:11

If I were part of a Raynor Winn / Walker's fightback team on social media, I wouldn’t waste time on MN it’s too detailed, too forensic, and too well policed. Instead, I’d focus on a few simple talking points that cast doubt on the story and lean into the idea of trial by media - what can you even believe these days? They haven’t killed anyone, after all. That kind of line.

Most people aren’t buried in the threads arguing over every detail. I’d do exactly what they’re doing now: lie low and say nothing and have top defensive lines - off the top of my head could be.

“It’s a memoir, not a court transcript.”

Personal stories are always subjective. The Salt Path was never billed as investigative journalism it's one person's emotional truth, told through memory and reflection.

“Everyone’s got a version. This is hers.”

Just because others remember things differently doesn’t mean the author is lying. Disputes over memory happen in every family, especially after trauma.

“The press loves a takedown.”

The media builds people up and tears them down. The timing and tone of these stories say more about media cycles than the truth of the book itself.

“Why now?”

Years after the book’s success, suddenly there’s a backlash? Feels like resentment or opportunism. If these concerns were so serious, why wait until now?

As William Rees-Mogg famously said about the Rolling Stones drug busts in the 60s “Who breaks a butterfly on a wheel?”

But most of all I wouldn't argue that here !!

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Agree, especially on the point about the author being advised to stay out of the media frenzy and not feed it.

The way in which I’ve been treated on here is exactly how the author would be treated if she opens her mouth and fails to provide an answer that is 100 percent in line with expectations. It’s a no-win situation. Damned if you do and damned if you don’t. If I were her, I’d stay well away from the baying hounds.

Happy to have been a distraction on here. It was much needed. I’ve been following this thread for days (yes I have had a careful read through) and simply don’t agree with a lot of it. It feels somewhat hysterical. Fancy raising questions about the colour of pen used in a guidebook notation and feeding that into a narrative about retro-fitting. Who actually cares?

Bruisername · 18/07/2025 11:01

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PrimalScreaming · 18/07/2025 11:02

I've been following but think I last posted on about Thread 3!!

I was looking at the walk itself and pulled out my old copy of TSP again. I remembered that the bit I was most interested in when I first read it was where I used to live on the path in Devon.
But this section had been missed out of the walk. Sal & Tim decided not to walk between Starcross and Brixham (about 20-30 miles) as they thought it would be too difficult to wild camp with their being several towns en route and would end up in shop doorways instead.

SW talks about stopping at Dawlish Warren (just beyond Starcross) and camping behind the visitor centre. Dawlish Warren is a huge spit of land going out into the sea. It is a nature reserve which then melds into sand dunes and finally the beach. One end (nature reserve end) is beautiful and wild and only attracts walkers / bird watchers etc. The other end is completely commercialised with funfair and ice cream kiosks etc. The visitor centre is somewhere in the middle. But what surprised me (besides not being a great choice of location given how much more suitable and remote the nature reserve end is) is that they weren't caught. The Warren is always busy and also always patrolled by rangers. There is a very big presence there to stop people camping / overnighting in vans etc. One place on it I would most definitely not camp is by the visitor centre!!

I suppose if you don't know it you might make that decision - especially if arriving late and leaving early - but it seemed a strange one.

No real point here ... just another observation!

AldoGordo · 18/07/2025 11:03

Smike · 18/07/2025 10:07

I think she says ‘Moth will go to university and I will start writing’. Which I think just means that (obviously) she knows with hindsight that she will go on to write TSP while Moth is studying. Probably a later revision when she had a publishing contract, possibly at the behest of an editor saying ‘Well, Moth had his plans to study when the book ends — what did you think you were going to do?’

What I find slightly odd now we know Moth was studying botany or horticulture or whatever at the Eden Project is that in TSP is that throughout TSP, it’s described as a change of career to ‘teacher training’. Not that he couldn’t have eventually taught in botany or horticulture or whatever, but the later stages of TSP make it plain he needs to get the degree, then do further post-graduate training, in order to teach. It’s quite the long training path for someone who doesn’t think he has long to live.

Oh yes, well spotted and corrected. But you are also right, it still coveys an inconsistency.

Interesting observation about the degree. Even if they could argue "well, Moth changed his mind after the walk and decided to do horticulture instead", it doesn't change the fact they were considering a lengthy career move in the face of little, or uncertain time. I do wonder if the idea of studying was simply a way to get a loan to begin rebuilding their lives.

AldoGordo · 18/07/2025 11:09

Humankindness · 18/07/2025 10:18

Winn says that she didn’t have the evidence to prove what actually happened. Selective presentation going on here….,

on your second point, that’s a non-evidenced based statement

Testimony is admissable evidence. That's why courts present witnesses. Are you saying you won't believe Ros Hemmings and their solicitor and daughter until they swear an oath?

Choux · 18/07/2025 11:09

FurryHappyKittens · 18/07/2025 10:59

But what did Sally Walker want?

She may not have imagined it to be the success it became, but she wanted it to make money, she wanted it to be published.

Did she imagine it would only make a little, and that Tim would just quietly go into his newly trained job role and they'd live quietly ever after?

I can believe that because of how bad The Wild Silence is. It's a cobbled together mess in essence.

However, the wild story of Tim's health could easily have been dealt with in TWS and Landlines.

She would have been just as successful I believe if she had said in TWS that the consultant thought that he may not even have CBD. The hope she could write about! The joy! The weight that was lifted from their shoulders as the medical profession potentially gave him his life back.

But no, she just keeps going with her, harder to remain believable, narrative. Introducing miracles of brain scans reversing visible damage to his brain.

Just like a pathological liar would.

I truly believe a large element of this saga is sibling / couple rivalry. Tim’s brother bought a house in France in the early 2000s. So did the Walkers. Tim’s brother published Stopcock in the 2010s. So did the Walkers - possibly How not to… definitely TSP. I am not convinced Sally was the sole author as Tim’s family seem far more creative minded.

I think the embezzlement could well have been to source funds to keep up with Tim’s brother in getting a house in France and a nicer house in Wales. At some point - possibly around the time the embezzlement was uncovered - they seem to have fallen out which might well have galvanised their drive to exceed the brother’s perceived success. And TSP definitely achieved that as financially they are now probably the wealthier of the two couples.

AldoGordo · 18/07/2025 11:13

sualipa · 18/07/2025 10:32

Currently unavailable - I wonder since it has an ISBN number whether your local librray can order a copy from the British Library.

Publisher ‏ : ‎ Gangani Publishing Ltd
Publication date ‏ : ‎ 1 May 2012
Language ‏ : ‎ English
Print length ‏ : ‎ 254 pages
ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0957303106
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0957303102
Item weight ‏ : ‎ 299 g

It’s currently showing as unavailable, but since it has a valid ISBN, your local library may be able to request it via interlibrary loan—possibly even from the British Library, depending on their policies.

It’s worth checking with your library—they’ll usually let you know if it’s available to order in through their network.

There's a post about this a thread or two back. A pp found there was no copy lodged with the British library and someone else pointed out they probably didn't have to as it was self-published.

Crikeyalmighty · 18/07/2025 11:15

@Choux I too think that’s a big part of it - the desire not to look like the poor sibling .

Rallentanda · 18/07/2025 11:16

There’s a whole lot of detail not to care about, or to ascribe to artistic licence…but the trifling matter of embezzlement and the events surrounding that are what began the second, deeper investigation. Which simply would not have gone to print without extensive legalling.

So While there’s a bit of messing about in the weeds of the story on these threads, that’s not what’s causing the reputational damage — damage which Sally herself shored up with her lengthy non-rebuttal.

AldoGordo · 18/07/2025 11:22

Humankindness · 18/07/2025 11:00

Agree, especially on the point about the author being advised to stay out of the media frenzy and not feed it.

The way in which I’ve been treated on here is exactly how the author would be treated if she opens her mouth and fails to provide an answer that is 100 percent in line with expectations. It’s a no-win situation. Damned if you do and damned if you don’t. If I were her, I’d stay well away from the baying hounds.

Happy to have been a distraction on here. It was much needed. I’ve been following this thread for days (yes I have had a careful read through) and simply don’t agree with a lot of it. It feels somewhat hysterical. Fancy raising questions about the colour of pen used in a guidebook notation and feeding that into a narrative about retro-fitting. Who actually cares?

Thanks for your contributions. You've not really offered any answers though. Initially you asked for kindness and empathy, which I find perplexing unless you are someone who has a close connection to Sally and are trying to protect her from valid scrutiny. All you've managed to contribute thus far is to highlight the very many holes and inconsistencies that don't add up, rather than explain them.

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 18/07/2025 11:23

Someone kindly posted a link to TSP online and I've just skim read it. I tried to imagine I was reading it pre-revelations (not really possible, I suppose). Here are my thoughts, which echo a lot previously expressed.

  1. I find it really annoying that she calls grown women girls.
  2. The encounters with other people are not credible and the dialogue is wooden. I'm not saying they didn't happen but it looks very much as if they've been embellished - badly. The bit near the beginning where they do a bit of matchmaking for the young lad and the 'girl with pink hair' - just cringe. The people they meet fall into three clichéed categories: mystic sages (sage mystics, even); comedy fodder; stuck-up posho types.
  3. The illness feels like an add-on - it's shoehorned in now and again.
  4. Tim/moth going to university - this is utterly unconvincing. You're homeless, living in a tent and you're way out is to apply to university? When you know you have a terminal illness and are unlikely to last the length of the course? And the idea that a student loan would be enough for two of them is ridiculous; if their children were at uni, they would know that it's barely enough for one person to live on.
  5. The constant comments about them being old - with one young woman ('girl') in a café even phoning her friend across the street to go and have a look at the 'old people with big rucksacks'. Just no way.
  6. The Simon Armitage stuff - who are they kidding?? And they've never heard of Simon Armitage but they happen to have a copy of Seamus Heaney in their backpack? That's a pretty niche choice for someone who's not heard of one of our best-known poets (pre-Laureate days but even so).
  7. The line where she says something like 'you can make up your own story and in the end you'll believe it yourself.' Just wow.

If I was still working in publishing, these would have been my views on the typescript (except number 7, of course) and I wouldn't have recommended it for publication. But it was picked up by a major publishing house, became a bestseller and won awards - so clearly I know nothing.

FurryHappyKittens · 18/07/2025 11:23

While there’s a bit of messing about in the weeds of the story on these threads

I love that phrase! It's exactly what we've been doing. 😁

But like you say, it doesn't detract from the embezzlement.

Or the loan, and the illness, and the other big inconsistencies in their lives.

FurryHappyKittens · 18/07/2025 11:25

Crikeyalmighty · 18/07/2025 11:15

@Choux I too think that’s a big part of it - the desire not to look like the poor sibling .

I also agree with this. And the entitlement that went along with it.

They've got x, y, z. Why shouldn't we have it too? We deserve it.

VerySwettyBetty · 18/07/2025 11:25

Out of interest, do we know whether anyone has read Martyn Walker’s novel Stopcock? I know it’s fiction of course, but could be an interesting read😁

KimMumsnet · 18/07/2025 11:26

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Catwith69lives · 18/07/2025 11:28

VerySwettyBetty · 18/07/2025 11:25

Out of interest, do we know whether anyone has read Martyn Walker’s novel Stopcock? I know it’s fiction of course, but could be an interesting read😁

Well one person has, although he/she only gave it a 2 star review!

Stopcock: Walker, Martyn: 9781478335979: Amazon.com: Books

Aspanielstolemysanity · 18/07/2025 11:28

Rallentanda · 18/07/2025 11:16

There’s a whole lot of detail not to care about, or to ascribe to artistic licence…but the trifling matter of embezzlement and the events surrounding that are what began the second, deeper investigation. Which simply would not have gone to print without extensive legalling.

So While there’s a bit of messing about in the weeds of the story on these threads, that’s not what’s causing the reputational damage — damage which Sally herself shored up with her lengthy non-rebuttal.

Agree. I'm really not interested in some of the minutiae/areas of artistic licence (although I question the use of the phrase "unflinchingly honest")

But the theft story is significant. And I think SW compounded it with her ill advised statements and attempts to taint the reputation of the Hemmings'.

If she had had good PR advice I think the story wouldnt have gained as much traction

And I actually have some sympathy with the naivety perhaps of writing a very embellished book and not realising now popular it would become. But that doesnt excuse the doubling down on the story in subsequent books and interviews

AldoGordo · 18/07/2025 11:29

VerySwettyBetty · 18/07/2025 11:25

Out of interest, do we know whether anyone has read Martyn Walker’s novel Stopcock? I know it’s fiction of course, but could be an interesting read😁

Maybe this will be the new direction of The Observer? Not the book, but the brother offering his side of the story.

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