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I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

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Purplehat123 · 15/07/2025 13:35

I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

Every time I take my children and our small cavapoo to the park, there’s always someone with an intimidating dog off the lead. Yesterday it was a man with a huge German Shepherd (and I mean huge), a bully breed on a lead, and an Akita off the lead just wandering around.

This is a busy, very suburban park, full of families and young children. And there I am, trying to scoop up my two toddlers, push the pram with the baby, grab the dog, and move away as fast as possible because I am not taking the risk of one of those dogs attacking. And let’s be honest, if something did happen, I’d have to sacrifice my dog to protect my children.

Even the two dogs that were technically on a lead, if they decided to go for another dog or child, there’s no way he could have held them back. They were enormous, powerful breeds.

And don’t get me started on the Akita. It was off-lead, trotting around freely as if that’s totally normal. Akitas were originally bred to guard property and hunt large game, including bears. They are strong, territorial, and known for being aggressive toward other dogs. They can be incredibly unpredictable and are not the type of breed you let wander freely in a public park full of children and pets.

Today it was a woman with a giant Rottweiler off-lead, paying absolutely no attention while she scrolled on her phone. Again, no control, no awareness. Rottweilers were originally bred to drive cattle and guard livestock, and they are incredibly strong, protective dogs. They have a natural guarding instinct, which can easily turn dangerous when not properly controlled. It’s no coincidence that they feature in so many fatal dog attacks, especially involving children. The number of child deaths caused by Rottweilers is horrifying and well-documented. It doesn’t matter how sweet you think your dog is at home but when a dog like that turns, it’s too late to stop it.

Far too many times my own dog, who is a total wimp and literally gets bullied by a chihuahua, has been attacked by dogs whose owners claim, “Oh, they never normally do that.” It’s always after the fact, once the damage is done.

And honestly, it’s the complete lack of awareness that really gets me. You might think your dog is friendly, but when you’re letting it freely wander up to children and other dogs, especially massive, powerful breeds, it’s terrifying. It might not scare you, but to everyone else, it’s incredibly intimidating.

I love dogs. I grew up with them. But this constant anxiety when I take my children out is exhausting. I shouldn’t have to be on high alert every time we go to the park because someone refuses to take basic responsibility for an animal that could cause serious harm.

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MuffinsAreJustCakesAtBreakfast · 20/07/2025 20:23

This thread has brought some utter little weirdos out from under their rocks 😂😵‍💫

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 20:26

OonaStubbs · 20/07/2025 20:11

Dogs serve no practical purpose. Any purpose they have is one that people have made up in their heads. "They make people happy", "people get exercise by taking them out for walks" etc etc.

People have made their dogs make them happy?

Honestly, I would prescribe a dog for your apparent misery!

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 20:31

OonaStubbs · 20/07/2025 20:11

Dogs serve no practical purpose. Any purpose they have is one that people have made up in their heads. "They make people happy", "people get exercise by taking them out for walks" etc etc.

So where does this leave police and military dogs, search and rescue dogs, sniffer dogs, guide dogs and hearing dogs, herding dogs and livestock protection dogs....? Do none of them serve a practical purpose in your strange little world?

MuffinsAreJustCakesAtBreakfast · 20/07/2025 20:38

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 20:31

So where does this leave police and military dogs, search and rescue dogs, sniffer dogs, guide dogs and hearing dogs, herding dogs and livestock protection dogs....? Do none of them serve a practical purpose in your strange little world?

And service dogs would go to the end of the world and happily give their lives if necessary to save a person who hates them and their species.

That is the saddest thing. 😔

coxesorangepippin · 20/07/2025 20:41

Yeah I love the 'don't worry, they're friendly' statement

Maybe they are friendly, with you!

YeOldeGreyhound · 20/07/2025 20:42

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 20:31

So where does this leave police and military dogs, search and rescue dogs, sniffer dogs, guide dogs and hearing dogs, herding dogs and livestock protection dogs....? Do none of them serve a practical purpose in your strange little world?

I can predict their answer. Robot dogs. They think robots can replace them all.

cobrakaieaglefang · 20/07/2025 20:42

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 20:31

So where does this leave police and military dogs, search and rescue dogs, sniffer dogs, guide dogs and hearing dogs, herding dogs and livestock protection dogs....? Do none of them serve a practical purpose in your strange little world?

exactly..dogs are wonderful creatures. Far rather spend my time with one than bitter, twisted and frankly sadistic humans as some on here have shown themselves to be
Yes, absolutely, people need to be responsible, train their dogs. My dog is trained in many skills that police/ military/ rescue organisations train their dogs. She doesn't jump on people uninvited.
The same could be said of our children. Prisons are full of badly trained humans.

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 20:48

YeOldeGreyhound · 20/07/2025 20:42

I can predict their answer. Robot dogs. They think robots can replace them all.

Don’t forget miniature pigs 😳

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 20:50

YeOldeGreyhound · 20/07/2025 20:42

I can predict their answer. Robot dogs. They think robots can replace them all.

Oh, she's the robot dog person. It figures 😏

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 20:51

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 20:26

People have made their dogs make them happy?

Honestly, I would prescribe a dog for your apparent misery!

I think what @OonaStubbs is trying to tell us is that we shouldn’t do anything that makes us happy that she doesn’t approve of, ok?

You’re allowed a robot dog or a miniature pig. Thats it.

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 20:57

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 20:51

I think what @OonaStubbs is trying to tell us is that we shouldn’t do anything that makes us happy that she doesn’t approve of, ok?

You’re allowed a robot dog or a miniature pig. Thats it.

Ooh ooh ooh, can I have a robot miniature pig that cooks bacon and plays chess? Or would that make me too happy to be allowed?

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:00

hungryduck · 20/07/2025 20:57

Ooh ooh ooh, can I have a robot miniature pig that cooks bacon and plays chess? Or would that make me too happy to be allowed?

Only if it’s muzzled

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:01

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 20:51

I think what @OonaStubbs is trying to tell us is that we shouldn’t do anything that makes us happy that she doesn’t approve of, ok?

You’re allowed a robot dog or a miniature pig. Thats it.

I'm confused. Is the miniature pig a living creature, or a robot pig, or don't we know?

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:03

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:01

I'm confused. Is the miniature pig a living creature, or a robot pig, or don't we know?

I’m hoping for a real creature, I think recall may be difficult to teach though.

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:04

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:00

Only if it’s muzzled

And on a lead…

YeOldeGreyhound · 20/07/2025 21:09

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:04

And on a lead…

And on private land.

And if it makes a noise, than another poster will beat it with her walking stick.

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:11

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:03

I’m hoping for a real creature, I think recall may be difficult to teach though.

Not much different to a Pyrenean then, so I'd be fine.

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:15

@CoubousAndTourmalet i would say it needs to be on a lead at all times when out

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:17

@TheGreatDownandOutyou’ve just proved my point about entitlement. Dogs bite, children don’t

BlankBlankBlank14 · 20/07/2025 21:17

YeOldeGreyhound · 20/07/2025 21:09

And on private land.

And if it makes a noise, than another poster will beat it with her walking stick.

Or if it looks at grandkids!

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:27

So we are creating a robot miniature pig that plays chess, cooks bacon, is NOT a toaster, wears a muzzle, is always on a lead and doesn’t look at grandchildren whether or not on private land.

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:28

lollypop42 · 20/07/2025 21:17

@TheGreatDownandOutyou’ve just proved my point about entitlement. Dogs bite, children don’t

I literally have no idea what you’re going on about

TheGreatDownandOut · 20/07/2025 21:29

CoubousAndTourmalet · 20/07/2025 21:01

I'm confused. Is the miniature pig a living creature, or a robot pig, or don't we know?

It’s a robot pig that’s on a quest to become a real pig. That’s a movie that writes itself.

OonaStubbs · 20/07/2025 21:30

Laugh all you want but in 25 years dogs will have disappeared from our streets, and will only be seen in zoos.