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I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

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Purplehat123 · 15/07/2025 13:35

I’m so tired of people with dangerous dogs ruining the park for everyone else.

Every time I take my children and our small cavapoo to the park, there’s always someone with an intimidating dog off the lead. Yesterday it was a man with a huge German Shepherd (and I mean huge), a bully breed on a lead, and an Akita off the lead just wandering around.

This is a busy, very suburban park, full of families and young children. And there I am, trying to scoop up my two toddlers, push the pram with the baby, grab the dog, and move away as fast as possible because I am not taking the risk of one of those dogs attacking. And let’s be honest, if something did happen, I’d have to sacrifice my dog to protect my children.

Even the two dogs that were technically on a lead, if they decided to go for another dog or child, there’s no way he could have held them back. They were enormous, powerful breeds.

And don’t get me started on the Akita. It was off-lead, trotting around freely as if that’s totally normal. Akitas were originally bred to guard property and hunt large game, including bears. They are strong, territorial, and known for being aggressive toward other dogs. They can be incredibly unpredictable and are not the type of breed you let wander freely in a public park full of children and pets.

Today it was a woman with a giant Rottweiler off-lead, paying absolutely no attention while she scrolled on her phone. Again, no control, no awareness. Rottweilers were originally bred to drive cattle and guard livestock, and they are incredibly strong, protective dogs. They have a natural guarding instinct, which can easily turn dangerous when not properly controlled. It’s no coincidence that they feature in so many fatal dog attacks, especially involving children. The number of child deaths caused by Rottweilers is horrifying and well-documented. It doesn’t matter how sweet you think your dog is at home but when a dog like that turns, it’s too late to stop it.

Far too many times my own dog, who is a total wimp and literally gets bullied by a chihuahua, has been attacked by dogs whose owners claim, “Oh, they never normally do that.” It’s always after the fact, once the damage is done.

And honestly, it’s the complete lack of awareness that really gets me. You might think your dog is friendly, but when you’re letting it freely wander up to children and other dogs, especially massive, powerful breeds, it’s terrifying. It might not scare you, but to everyone else, it’s incredibly intimidating.

I love dogs. I grew up with them. But this constant anxiety when I take my children out is exhausting. I shouldn’t have to be on high alert every time we go to the park because someone refuses to take basic responsibility for an animal that could cause serious harm.

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JaneEyre40 · 15/07/2025 14:57

spoonbillstretford · 15/07/2025 13:56

I'd look at the dog's behaviour and body language not the breed. Just because it is off lead doesn't mean it isn't under control. If is wandering about and getting into mischief and the owner isn't controlling it then you may have a point, but you seem to be objecting to large dogs just being there and not actually doing anything wrong.

There are thousands of badly trained cavapoos in the country as people think they are easy dogs and lots of people seem to think they are some kind of a fashion accessory. More fool you for having an overpriced mongrel.

Show me a story where a cavapoo mauled a child to death....stupid comment.

MrsMillyFluff · 15/07/2025 15:00

Bridport · 15/07/2025 14:56

There's always someone who comes on these type of threads to write the word yappy and tell us proudly how they kicked a dog.

If a dog is about to go for my leg you're damned right I'm going to kick it! What would the alternative be? Singing it a lullaby?

JaneEyre40 · 15/07/2025 15:00

JengaCupboard · 15/07/2025 14:16

Your anxiety appears genuine but the bulk of your post is baseless assumption. There is absolutely nothing to suggest any of these large breed are dangerous or aggressive in any way, you are just assuming they are.

I too would be interested in your basis for Rottweiler defamation as this isn't my experience regarding research at all.

I am a seasoned large breed owner, yet the only thing that has ever bitten me, AND my dog is a Frenchie. Twice now, on two separate occasions.

People assume that small dogs are safe and large dogs are less so, which blatantly isn't the case. It's about responsible ownership, temperament breeding and consistent training. Not necessarily breed specific, and certainly not in regards to any you have highlighted above.

I would be far more wary of anything off-lead with a distracted owner, than anything under control/on lead.

And nothing to suggest they aren't! That's the problem.

Sweetleftfood · 15/07/2025 15:01

What a ridiculous post, my dog hates German shepherds, akitas and huskys but that's his problem and I do avoid those dog but saying that, most of those dogs that I come across are very well trained and not just running around trying to find something to attack. Those dogs were no threat to you or your precious hand bag dog. I just think this is a typical example of people getting a 'poo' dog and has absolutely no intention of learning anything about dog behaviours or about dog ownership.

FOJN · 15/07/2025 15:02

You've labelled the dogs you saw as dangerous but haven't described any dangerous behaviour. I think your anxiety is getting the better of you and it certainly will be transmitted to your dog which will affect the way other dogs interact with it.

I understand the concern about the damage larger breeds can do but dogs aren't dangerous just because they are large.

Most fatal dog attacks happen in the dogs home, the victims are usually the owner or family members. Your children are statistically more likely to be bitten by your dog than one they encounter when they are out of the house. Nearly all children treated for dog bites in hospital were bitten by the family pet, quite commonly a Labrador.

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:05

MrsMillyFluff · 15/07/2025 15:00

If a dog is about to go for my leg you're damned right I'm going to kick it! What would the alternative be? Singing it a lullaby?

Oops, sorry I was wrong. Not one but two people on this thread telling us they'd kick a dog and squeezing in the word yappy.

MrsMillyFluff · 15/07/2025 15:07

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:05

Oops, sorry I was wrong. Not one but two people on this thread telling us they'd kick a dog and squeezing in the word yappy.

What would you do if a dog was about to go for your leg??

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:19

MrsMillyFluff · 15/07/2025 15:07

What would you do if a dog was about to go for your leg??

I'm 60, have had dogs all my life and walk them daily. It's never happened and I've never wasted any time dreaming up fantasy violent reactions.

MrsMillyFluff · 15/07/2025 15:23

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:19

I'm 60, have had dogs all my life and walk them daily. It's never happened and I've never wasted any time dreaming up fantasy violent reactions.

Well let's hope it doesn't happen to you . I love dogs and am not dreaming up "fantasy violent reactions" just replying to your rather angry rant 😁

beachcitygirl · 15/07/2025 15:24

Any dog is a potential danger. Including your own. Your post reeks of judgement. (Ps it’s not a cockapoo - it’s a mongrel/mutt) you have no idea which dog traits your dog may have as it’s mixed.
I don’t like dogs in pubs and cafe and restaurants and think that they should be excluded from some areas
but
a park is a place you would expect to see a dog. So much so, you took your own dog.

some of the dogs you refer to are by your words on a leash. YOU have no idea of their training levels or nature either.

you sound extremely anxious, best think you can do is avoid public places best you can, until get a grip of your fears and become able to rationalise them. Dogs including big dogs are in parks. That’s a fact & that won’t stop.

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:24

Can two lines constitute a rant?

Goodideaornot · 15/07/2025 15:25

Dogs in public areas should all be on leads, IMO, except for some designated, fenced off running area

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:26

If a dog is about to go for my leg you're damned right I'm going to kick it!
Fantasy violent reaction.

FrillySocksAndDocs · 15/07/2025 15:27

ForgottenPasswordNewAccount · 15/07/2025 14:12

the amount of people who pick up their yappy rat dogs when they see my "monster horse" dog is laughable considering she is terrifed of these dogs as she has been bitten so often by them.

the latest bite was from a frenchie at the weekend. I ha
d to give it a good kick in the ribs to get it away from us but it still came back for more.

I pick up my Chihuahua when I see any dog (except weirdly corgis) because my adopted dog is a fucking menace who will go crazy snapping. He would also bite anyone. Absolutely loves cats though.

Chompingatthebeat · 15/07/2025 15:31

Colalola · 15/07/2025 13:49

It sounds like you’re scared of dogs. I know big dogs can be intimidating but passing judgement because of the breed is wild to me. That big dog has probably been raised with the exact same love and affection as your dog has! Big dogs don’t mean horrible and scary dogs. Do you want everyone to just have small cavapoos? I have a small cockapoo and think this post is utterly ridiculous and judgemental. If you’re scared of big dogs, go to private parks where you won’t see any! Any dog is capable of hurting a child or another dog - not just certain breeds. The media won’t report on that though, hence your judgment.

What a load of baloney, its like wandering around with a knife and claiming it cant hurt

beachcitygirl · 15/07/2025 15:31

A large dog (bull mastiff) ran vaguely in my direction in a country park, the owner seen and called. Dog obeyed. No problem whatsoever. Same day a smaller designer handbag mongrel ran over and literally jumped on me, aggressively barking and claws digging in, owner laughed and said “oh he loves a cuddle” I kicked him off and she freaked out - she’s lucky I didn’t kick her. I did report her and her car registration to the park ranger person.
its all in the training. Recall or lead. It’s not difficult.

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:35

Three kickers now. Lovely people.

TheGreatDownandOut · 15/07/2025 15:35

Oh yay, the daily judgy dog thread.

What exactly were these dogs doing to upset you OP? Other than minding their own business?

Waits for a massive drip feed…

RobertaFirmino · 15/07/2025 15:38

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:35

Three kickers now. Lovely people.

You are well within your rights to kick an animal in self defence.

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:41

RobertaFirmino · 15/07/2025 15:38

You are well within your rights to kick an animal in self defence.

Section 1(1)(a) of the Protection of Animals Act 1911 - It is an offence to cruelly beat, ill-treat, kick, over-ride, over-load, torture, infuriate or terrify any domestic or captive animal,

YourFunnyTiger · 15/07/2025 15:46

My mum has a westie one of its 'friends ' is a German shepherd.
Guess which one out of the 2 is the worst behaved brat.
If you guessed the GS you guessed wrong.
My mum did training classes etc.
Ring the doorbell? Loses its shit
Call out hello? Loses its shit
Post? Etc etc
Won't let anyone else walk her.
Steals socks.
Fuckin little white twat.

The GS has the patience of a saint with the westie and just sits with his ball in his mouth whilst she goes apeshit.
To be fair it's not aggressive,.its just a very loud hello and excitement....still a twat though.

spoonbillstretford · 15/07/2025 15:46

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:41

Section 1(1)(a) of the Protection of Animals Act 1911 - It is an offence to cruelly beat, ill-treat, kick, over-ride, over-load, torture, infuriate or terrify any domestic or captive animal,

It's also ok to kick a dog to defend yourself or someone else being attacked. In the same way that generally hurting other humans is not acceptable but there are some exceptions to the rule.

SouthLondonMum22 · 15/07/2025 15:47

Bridport · 15/07/2025 15:35

Three kickers now. Lovely people.

Do you expect people to just calmly sit there whilst being bitten by a dog?

P.S make it 4. I'd do whatever it takes to get a dog off me, including kicking it. Most people would.

CinnamonBuns67 · 15/07/2025 15:47

Yabu. It sounds like you have something against large breeds. None of these dogs were acting aggressively towards you or your kids, they was simply off lead, which is fine as long as they have good recall and have been sensibly trained and in my experience owners of big breeds take the training of their dogs very seriously. I've been attacked by small breeds, once by a miniature poodle and a miniature schnauzer as a child and another time by a jack russell cross 2 years ago so I understand being frightened by your own prejudice as it took me a long time to be not afraid of small breeds, honestly there was time where I'd not be phased by my aunties german shepherd in fact I loved her but my grandads yorkshire terrier had me climbing walls to get away from him, poor thing meant me no harm I know that now but due to my experience it made me prejudiced against all small breeds and even today the bark of a small dog makes me jump but not the bark of a big dog so it's still a working progress.

Unless these dogs were snarling and snapping at you and your family you really have no case to say these dogs are dangerous. Any dog can be dangerous in the wrong hands, a rottweiler, a bully breed or even a cavapoo.

TheGreatDownandOut · 15/07/2025 15:49

Anyone wanna help me turn this thread in to a ‘love for big dog’s thread’ ??

Let’s show some appreciation for the gentle giants we have encountered.

I once saw a woman in a pub beer garden. It was very busy. She had two fully grown Rottweilers and they were absolutely beautiful. Extremely well behaved, clearly comfortable in their surroundings and spent most of the time by her side taking everything in. I asked if I could approach and say hi, she agreed and I fussed them for ages while she told me about how she had trained them.

I know several people who own retired Greyhounds (they’re big dogs, right?) who have the sweetest temperament and wouldn’t harm a fly.

I saw a man walking his GSD the other week in a quiet field, his was so engaged with his dog the entire time and his dog was constantly fixated on his owner, waiting for the next signal or command.

And let’s not forget all the wonderful service dogs the world over that have saved human lives and helped humans live a more fulfilling existence

Big love to all the wonderful, well behaved, gentle giants out there ❤️