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Thread 6: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?

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DisappointedReader · 12/07/2025 23:41

The Observer The real Salt Path: how a blockbuster book and film were ...

Second article in the Observer
https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found

Third item in the Observer
https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-the-truth-behind-the-blockbuster-book-video

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Raynor Winn/Sally Walker's statement Raynor Winn

NB Please be careful when it comes to naming or implicating people who aren't in the public eye or have no connection to the story, especially where details are unclear or still emerging i.e. DON'T DO IT.

Keep on the path. No saltiness. Thank you.

New posters welcome. It would be helpful to read at least the three Observer articles before posting.

The real Salt Path: what’s in the book, and what The Obse...

The real Salt Path: what’s in the book, and what The Obse...

Raynor and Moth Winn’s redemptive journey from penury and homelessness led to a bestselling book. The truth behind it is very different

https://observer.co.uk/news/national/article/the-salt-path-whats-in-the-book-and-what-the-observer-has-found

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mauvishagain · 14/07/2025 13:02

Loving all the AntArt suggestions!

AzureStaffy · 14/07/2025 13:04

ChocolateCrumpets · 14/07/2025 10:58

The cruelty of the council woman's words: "Well, if you're not going to die soon, like in the next year, then you're not that ill, are you" seen unlikely. Anyway, you'd challenge it and get your doctors to back up your application.

This bit I can well believe. Having been up against the system with illness. It’s completely broken and inhumane, with many cruel individuals working within it. Fighting it is soul destroying. But when you’ve been there it’s easy to see straight through TSP for the shameless, manipulative grift that it is. It reeks of people with zero integrity. I was not surprised at all to find she was a thief.

I was homeless a long time ago and yes there are some cruel people working in council housing but as the WalkerWinns are a middle aged couple, articulate and one's got a serious illness and almost certainly got consultant neurologist support, I think they could have got a council or housing association flat.

Uricon2 · 14/07/2025 13:05

hoopyvest · 14/07/2025 12:55

What does 'friends and family called her Sally/Ray interchangeably' actually mean?

I've known some people who have used a different name at work to the one they were born with and which family call them, but I've never come across anybody who is called completely different names by the same people.

It seems odd to me too, Tim/Moth maybe but Raynor isn't a shortening of Sally or even what you'd call a "pet" name. It also doesn't account for why he now has Winn as a surname.

User14March · 14/07/2025 13:06

AldoGordo · 14/07/2025 10:49

I find this similar to the Rick Stein episode. When RW retold the story of house loss etc, she's her usual breathless, animated self, much like how someone might read a book out loud. But Rick's face is a picture. He looks sympathetic but it also looks like he's thinking "why is she retelling this awful personal incident in such a jovial way?".

The 2018 clip with odd look between them at end feels to me ‘I told you to stick to the script/well done for not elaborating as I told you’. Could we be looking in the wrong direction here? Other parts of interview too. Moth very composed.

placemats · 14/07/2025 13:07

hoopyvest · 14/07/2025 12:55

What does 'friends and family called her Sally/Ray interchangeably' actually mean?

I've known some people who have used a different name at work to the one they were born with and which family call them, but I've never come across anybody who is called completely different names by the same people.

Both my uncles were called different names but both left Northern Ireland to live in England. Their work colleagues and friends called them different monikers - derivative from their actual names of Jack (John on birth certificate but it was always Jack from birth) and Michael.

AldoGordo · 14/07/2025 13:08

LostSunglasses · 14/07/2025 12:57

Isn't it more that they had other options/safety nets (including nearby family they never mention), but, for the purposes of dramatic tension in the memoir, remove the safety nets and instead present it as a stark choice between the 'safe, boring' choice of 'going into emergency council housing and getting jobs' and the 'free-spirited' one of walking the SWCP and living on small change and fresh air?

The decision to walk never makes a huge amount of sense, anyway, even as presented in the memoir -- hiding under the stairs while the bailiffs pound on the door, and happening to see an old guidebook to the coastal path which gives RW a brainwave? I mean, would they have walked a different path if a different book had been on top of the box? Started holding up petrol stations on a road trip if it had been the CD case of Thelma and Louise? Started a little teashop in the Cotswolds if it had been a Joanna Trollope?

The 'hook' for the book becomes a lot less compelling if it was presented as what I tend to suspect it really was. 'We'd had our home repossessed as a consequence of our own behaviour, so we decided to do something we used to do a lot before we had children and wild camp while walking a long-distance path.'

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Agreed. In the book I was struck by how many bases she covers for why they choose the walk over other options. There's a couple of paragraphs in 3rd chapter I think which essentially goes through excuse after excuse to arrive at walking as the only way to go. E.g. "we could try to get a council house but there's a waiting list and Moth can't show he's ill enough as a priority...and I can't imagine living in one so close to the home we lost; we didn't want to impose on other people; I could get a job but I have no qualifications, I'm 50 and unemployable, and I can't possibly leave Moth on his own while I worked 9-5; we could sell our remaining furniture but I couldn't part with the memories of our kitchen table; but but but...." RW had the foresight to include all of these (questionable) excuses to justify to the reader that the walk made rational sense.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 14/07/2025 13:09

Rallentanda · 14/07/2025 12:34

I think a couple of them have been on these threads!

Haha true!

maudelovesharold · 14/07/2025 13:12

crackofdoom · 14/07/2025 13:01

Dyed sugar water. The way they suck at it makes patterns. Different species make different patterns!

Really? That’s amazing! They ought to try selling them. I’d buy Ant Art!

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 14/07/2025 13:16

crackofdoom · 14/07/2025 12:02

Yeah, bit of a digression but I'm not terribly keen on framing hiking on a shoe string as "middle class". Why should the middle class get all the nice things?

The mass trespass of Kinder Scout was by factory and mill workers who wanted to walk in the hills on their day off.

I've met various people who came across as long term homeless while walking on the SWCP- presumably because they preferred doing that rather than being stuck in a hostel or temporary accommodation.

Are "proper" WC people supposed to sit inside drooling slack jawed at the footie on their wide screen TVs while necking lager? 🙄

When I said they were middle class I was meaning that I don't know any working class people, myself included who manage to have a second home in France, not even a shell of a one.

Rather than anything about the walk itself. Walking is one of my greatest joys and I am far from middle class (but I don't like larger either).

SpiceRoad · 14/07/2025 13:17

I've come across this odd piece written by Raynor/Sally during lockdown. It describes how during the first lockdown her daughter was living in the city above a fried chicken shop and insisted on staying there rather than joining her parents in the countryside on the cider farm.

She rang her parents from isolation every day but then for 3 days, nothing. Raynor/Sally says that, while going out to sunbathe on the flat roof, her daughter had fallen through into the closed up chicken shop and was trapped for 3 days banging on the windows while passers by just laughed.

No details about injuries or how she was finally rescued. Or who footed the bill for the property damage. Just the inevitable fact that her daughter was vegan and so had an additional moral dilemma to deal with in her crisis.

I mean, you couldn't make it up. Oh hang on ...

https://www.penguin.co.uk/discover/articles/raynor-winn-lockdown-hope

Raynor Winn: What being a lockdown mother taught me about family

As Covid struck, the author of The Wild Silence found her brood scattered across both country and the city. Then a single phone call changed it all.

https://www.penguin.co.uk/discover/articles/raynor-winn-lockdown-hope

Bruisername · 14/07/2025 13:19

The funniest thing about that was that she at a bit of cheese and that totally killed off her veganism and she became a vegetarian instead!

DisappointedReader · 14/07/2025 13:20

I am wondering if one of the little artists goes by the name of Adam?

For all the lovers of nature and wildlife on these threads, here is a brief and uplifting comfort break away from The Salty Path:

Red kite filmed mid-flight by drone over Norfolk countryside - BBC News

A red kite glides over fields, looking straight on at the camera.

Red kite filmed mid-flight by drone over Norfolk countryside

The bird of prey, filmed from a safe distance, is seen gliding effortlessly over the fields.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/videos/cly1gen58w1o

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PrettyDamnCosmic · 14/07/2025 13:21

placemats · 14/07/2025 13:07

Both my uncles were called different names but both left Northern Ireland to live in England. Their work colleagues and friends called them different monikers - derivative from their actual names of Jack (John on birth certificate but it was always Jack from birth) and Michael.

My father was born on 17th March (St Patrick's day) so he was known as Pat from the day he was born even though two other names were on his birth certificate. During his final illness when he was in hospital the nursing staff were addressing him by his official name & I had to let them know that he was really known as Pat.

AldoGordo · 14/07/2025 13:23

In light of all that has been revealed, I still wonder how the idea of walking came about. Did they think of it after they fled the house in the night? Or was it something they had planned for a couple of years knowing that the debt was due and the house was at risk? Or was it just a walking holiday they had been planning to do at the time anyway, but was re-imagined to form the basis of TSP? It feels like such an odd thing to do as people who clearly didn't have much experience of long distance walking or camping, irrespective of Tim's health, and they both had a living parent.

mauvishagain · 14/07/2025 13:23

Oh well if we're up to red kites, here's one I did earlier!! And taken in Leicestershire, to maintain the SW link!

Thread 6: To feel disappointed after reading this in The Observer about the author and her husband from The Salt Path book and film?
Crikeyalmighty · 14/07/2025 13:23

@AldoGordo and a lot easier to avoid the debt collectors national or local trades being blunt

User14March · 14/07/2025 13:25

AldoGordo · 14/07/2025 13:23

In light of all that has been revealed, I still wonder how the idea of walking came about. Did they think of it after they fled the house in the night? Or was it something they had planned for a couple of years knowing that the debt was due and the house was at risk? Or was it just a walking holiday they had been planning to do at the time anyway, but was re-imagined to form the basis of TSP? It feels like such an odd thing to do as people who clearly didn't have much experience of long distance walking or camping, irrespective of Tim's health, and they both had a living parent.

They’d long experience pre kids.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 14/07/2025 13:25

User14March · 14/07/2025 13:06

The 2018 clip with odd look between them at end feels to me ‘I told you to stick to the script/well done for not elaborating as I told you’. Could we be looking in the wrong direction here? Other parts of interview too. Moth very composed.

I've missed the link for the Rick Stein clip, could someone re post it please?

Lunde · 14/07/2025 13:26

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 14/07/2025 10:50

Friends.
Family.
Acquaintances.
Fellow authors.
Actors who played them.

The silence from them all is deafening.

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I used to know someone like this. She was also a pathological liar and there was always a complete turnover of her friendship every 1-2 years as her lies were found out and she moved on, reinvented herself, even changing her beliefs and politics, and blanked people from her previous life.

Like SW she was always the victim and always had sob stories to manipulate people into helping her with housing, money and storage for her stuff when she was "homeless". She could also be vicious and dangerous when confronted with her lies and tried to get someone I know arrested who had taken her in when she was "homeless".

SW's constant reinvention into different occupations and careers also mirrors the person I knew and she frequently adopted the careers of people she was jealous of. She tried teacher training (when she was trying to attract a guy who was a teacher) but failed her teaching practice when she spent more time attempting to sabotage the other student placed in the school than she did on her own teaching. She then set her sights on academia - but it was short lived when she failed her Masters when she plagiarised her dissertation (unfortunate for her that the author of the very niche book was invited to be an examiner). Currently it is a political career .... from what I've seen in the local paper, she's currently on her 4th political party!

AldoGordo · 14/07/2025 13:28

User14March · 14/07/2025 13:25

They’d long experience pre kids.

Really? They come across as total amateurs at wild camping in the book...

crackofdoom · 14/07/2025 13:30

AldoGordo · 14/07/2025 13:23

In light of all that has been revealed, I still wonder how the idea of walking came about. Did they think of it after they fled the house in the night? Or was it something they had planned for a couple of years knowing that the debt was due and the house was at risk? Or was it just a walking holiday they had been planning to do at the time anyway, but was re-imagined to form the basis of TSP? It feels like such an odd thing to do as people who clearly didn't have much experience of long distance walking or camping, irrespective of Tim's health, and they both had a living parent.

They did though. TSP touches on it, and then it's expanded on in TWS. Pre kids they used to undertake long walks, climb and wild camp- mostly in Scotland.

I thought it was really weird that the film has Jason Isaacs remarking that they'd never done anything like this before, contradicting the books.

It made me wonder if we are more forgiving of inaccuracies on the screen than we are in books somehow.

Notreallyawaitress · 14/07/2025 13:30

Where can I watch the Rick Stein episode? Its not available on iPlayer I don’t think? Thank you

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 14/07/2025 13:34

hoopyvest · 14/07/2025 12:55

What does 'friends and family called her Sally/Ray interchangeably' actually mean?

I've known some people who have used a different name at work to the one they were born with and which family call them, but I've never come across anybody who is called completely different names by the same people.

It was actually on her statement 'rebutting' (trying to) the Observer article:

'Our friends and neighbours use Sal and Tim interchangeably with Ray and Moth.'

It does seem odd.

Redheadedstepchild · 14/07/2025 13:35

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 14/07/2025 10:50

Friends.
Family.
Acquaintances.
Fellow authors.
Actors who played them.

The silence from them all is deafening.

Edited

This damn scam only works if there are no friends, family, co-workers or any other outside influence.

It's just them, locked into their folie à deux (I'm becoming more and serious about calling it that in more than just a pop culture sense) and their targets. Other people just exist as their marks, as it were.

Every time a third party gets involved it goes wrong.

Like Richard, Bill's mate, who seemed to have only needed to suffer one surreal evening in their company, as it were, to rumble them, or Bill's wife, who had them sussed from the start, or Ros Hemmings...

I'm quite surprised that in all the dealings with neurologists over the years, there has been no mention of seeing any kind of mental health person. Maybe there has. I don't think they'd be keen on that kind of thing though.

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