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To ask what you think about Starmer’s plan to stop the boats?

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WhereIsMyJumper · 10/07/2025 22:30

I cannot see how his ‘one in one out’ plan is going to help. I also can’t understand why France is cooperating with us. What’s the incentive?

If you don’t agree with this plan, what would your answer be?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/ckg6x4g6gg6t

Starmer says 'one in, one out' migrant deal with France to begin within weeks

He says small boats migrants will be returned to France, in exchange for asylum seekers who have not tried to enter the UK illegally.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/ckg6x4g6gg6t

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Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:26

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:24

Oh. I'm lost 😅

So was I. He called me a right wing circle jerk but won't tell me what it means. Bit unfair, really. 🙄.

pinkglitter12 · 11/07/2025 23:26

We have high levels of unemployment and a whole bunch of graduates unable to get a job. While its credible that people from other countries are filling job roles its really not necessary.
1 in 1 out does not undo the burden on the nhs, the lack of housing or the social barriers created by complete opposite of societal norms and practices. Unless you are super privileged, then you are not blind to the culture wars that inevitably follow

TopPocketFind · 11/07/2025 23:27

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:21

Show me . I'll wait.

Did you not complain that seeing a doctor was one of the benefits they are getting?

User135644 · 11/07/2025 23:27

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:06

You've hit the nail on the head. I don't wish to reveal how. But I do know a lot of immigrants (legal, professional jobs) and it's heartbreaking to see their anger and frustration at being lumped in one big vomitus with the "boat people". It's. Bloody ignorant too. Show me a Dr/dentist/nurse/lawyer/teacher/IT expert/ etc that's coming off those boats? No.thought not. Just freeloaders and drug dealers. All whilst the "good" "educated" ones are waving their placards at Dover, just so they don't look "racist" like us bigots 🙄. meanwhile, the rest of us are moaning In the staff room with our fellow hard working black African, brown Muslim, white eastern European professional colleagues. Believe me, we all think the same.

If they had skills to offer they'd be coming here legally like millions of others have.

EasternStandard · 11/07/2025 23:29

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:15

Will it be sudden or will I get a warning of this right wing circle jerk? Is it like being on a BMX and doing a sudden turn? That's what I'm picturing.

Ha at this.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 23:32

User135644 · 11/07/2025 23:27

If they had skills to offer they'd be coming here legally like millions of others have.

Asylum seekers? They can't claim asylum without being in the country.

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:35

TopPocketFind · 11/07/2025 23:27

Did you not complain that seeing a doctor was one of the benefits they are getting?

No I didn't. I'll wait for you to show me evidence of me saying that.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:35

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 23:32

Asylum seekers? They can't claim asylum without being in the country.

Asylum from what? They come from France though.

BIossomtoes · 11/07/2025 23:37

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:35

Asylum from what? They come from France though.

Well they don’t start from there, do they? We haven’t got hundreds of French citizens crossing the Channel in small boats.

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:39

User135644 · 11/07/2025 23:27

If they had skills to offer they'd be coming here legally like millions of others have.

Exactly. But middle class Sarah wearing her dungarees and messy bun with her solicitor neighbours in her leafy neighborhood and kids at private school, all totally detached from reality, likes to wave her placard at the Dover shores, believing in total ignorance that these "boat people" are just trying to come here to flee terror and contribute wholly to our society. It's just everyone else that's the problem, according to ivory towers "Sarah" , we're all just brown and black hating monsters 🙄. But she's not the naive one. We are, apparently......

TopPocketFind · 11/07/2025 23:39

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:35

No I didn't. I'll wait for you to show me evidence of me saying that.

Then I have you mixed up with one of the many other posters complaining about the benefits they receive incl. health care.

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:40

BIossomtoes · 11/07/2025 23:37

Well they don’t start from there, do they? We haven’t got hundreds of French citizens crossing the Channel in small boats.

So.... You're fleeing war and terror. You stop at France (as well as many other safe European countries) you choose to head through death risking waters on a glorified lilo , why ? Come on. Why ?

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:41

TopPocketFind · 11/07/2025 23:39

Then I have you mixed up with one of the many other posters complaining about the benefits they receive incl. health care.

Well respect to you for admitting that. Thankyou.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 23:42

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:35

Asylum from what? They come from France though.

Were you under the impression they're French? I believe the top countries are Afghanistan, Iran, Syria, Eritrea which have severe human rights abuses, which is why they're claiming asylum.

pinkglitter12 · 11/07/2025 23:46

Multi culturism doesn't work, if you think it does go to Iran in a bikini

TopPocketFind · 11/07/2025 23:47

They are risking their lives because they can only claim asylum on British soil.

There are no safe routes for the majority of refugees.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:49

BIossomtoes · 11/07/2025 23:37

Well they don’t start from there, do they? We haven’t got hundreds of French citizens crossing the Channel in small boats.

Well how do we know for a start? They rip up their passports..

But facetiousness aside, what you are saying is that someone from say Iraq wants to leave there to.earn more money. Probably a young man. So they travel illegally into the EU and then travel illegally through the EU,.entering and exiting various safe countries. All the while not claiming asylum. And then they pay the people smugglers to illegally cross the Channel to illegally enter the UK. There's no urgency. They've been travelling across Europe and no one is chasing them. So they are not in fear for their life. They then get told by some human rights lawyer in the UK that they have to pretend to be gay or a Christian that is in danger of persecution. Because then they are no longer illegals but "asylum seekers". So they can stay for processing. At tax payers expense. And we didn't invite them. And they have no fear of persecution as they travelled across Europe going through lots of countries with less generous benefits systems than ours.

southerngirl10 · 11/07/2025 23:50

Comparatively, we are money rich and land poor. I've never understood why we can't pay money towards the asylum seekers, but they live in a safe country that has more available land.

The money would build the infrastructure, we'd have less burden on our resources.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:51

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 23:42

Were you under the impression they're French? I believe the top countries are Afghanistan, Iran, Syria, Eritrea which have severe human rights abuses, which is why they're claiming asylum.

Yes..But they come from France when they come into the UK. They aren't in fear of their lives.

Pinkfluffypencilcase · 11/07/2025 23:52

southerngirl10 · 11/07/2025 23:50

Comparatively, we are money rich and land poor. I've never understood why we can't pay money towards the asylum seekers, but they live in a safe country that has more available land.

The money would build the infrastructure, we'd have less burden on our resources.

Countries like Pakistan and Turkey have asked for Cuba coal aid to help with all the displaced people they have. It’s a global problem requiring global solutions.

SquishedMallow · 11/07/2025 23:57

pinkglitter12 · 11/07/2025 23:46

Multi culturism doesn't work, if you think it does go to Iran in a bikini

Oh no but that's allowed . were you not aware? If they're brown/black/culturally "diverse" (stupid word. We're all "diverse") they can do as they please. Middle class Laura with her dungarees and 'Gull' kayak will naturally cover up in Afghanistan on her Gap yaaaaaar. Because she 'totally respects the culture '. But it doesn't work the other way round you know ? If you're a Brit (particularly English Brit) you bend with the wind. We also slag ourselves off. Nobody has to adhere to our norms. Sorry you weren't informed 😒

SquishedMallow · 12/07/2025 00:00

TopPocketFind · 11/07/2025 23:47

They are risking their lives because they can only claim asylum on British soil.

There are no safe routes for the majority of refugees.

Yeh. They left France love. They're like us, just er french. Quite safe. (No less safe for an Eritrean than the UK )

nam3c4ang3 · 12/07/2025 00:01

Of course it’s a dumb deal - it’s KS after all - what did you expect. But you know, let’s give him/it a go - how much worse can it get (really?) - it’s so so bad already.

Pinkfluffypencilcase · 12/07/2025 00:02

So the U.K. wouldn’t accept any asylum seekers? It’s the rest of the world problem?

SquishedMallow · 12/07/2025 00:02

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 23:49

Well how do we know for a start? They rip up their passports..

But facetiousness aside, what you are saying is that someone from say Iraq wants to leave there to.earn more money. Probably a young man. So they travel illegally into the EU and then travel illegally through the EU,.entering and exiting various safe countries. All the while not claiming asylum. And then they pay the people smugglers to illegally cross the Channel to illegally enter the UK. There's no urgency. They've been travelling across Europe and no one is chasing them. So they are not in fear for their life. They then get told by some human rights lawyer in the UK that they have to pretend to be gay or a Christian that is in danger of persecution. Because then they are no longer illegals but "asylum seekers". So they can stay for processing. At tax payers expense. And we didn't invite them. And they have no fear of persecution as they travelled across Europe going through lots of countries with less generous benefits systems than ours.

Yup.

It's why our decent people start emigrating to Australia, new Zealand and such like.

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