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To ask what you think about Starmer’s plan to stop the boats?

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WhereIsMyJumper · 10/07/2025 22:30

I cannot see how his ‘one in one out’ plan is going to help. I also can’t understand why France is cooperating with us. What’s the incentive?

If you don’t agree with this plan, what would your answer be?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/ckg6x4g6gg6t

Starmer says 'one in, one out' migrant deal with France to begin within weeks

He says small boats migrants will be returned to France, in exchange for asylum seekers who have not tried to enter the UK illegally.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/live/ckg6x4g6gg6t

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Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:38

Alexandra2001 · 11/07/2025 09:35

UK is about on the EU average for the numbers going to Uni or don't you want a skilled workforce?

Skilled in what? AI is going to decimate the nascent careers of a large number of graduates.

Busybeemumm · 11/07/2025 09:38

MermaidMummy06 · 11/07/2025 08:09

Here in Aus, we had a horrific boat problem. People would travel half way around the world to pay tens of thousands to get in a rickety, overcrowded boat to cross the open sea, to claim asylum. It was appealing because of government and charity supports are generous, and ability to bring the whole, extended family over legally once their residency was confirmed. Mostly economic refugees. These took spaces from genuine asylum seekers sitting in camps for years because caps were reached by illegal arrivals.

A lot of deterrents, and, shamefully, human rights violations were tried. In the end, the only thing that stopped the boats was a decree that no one coming by boat would be allow to settle in Australia. Our less fortunate neighbours got aid money to settle them. The numbers reduced to a trickle. There's no appeal anymore.

Here in Aus, we had a horrific boat problem.

Yes it started on the 26th Jan 1788.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 09:38

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:32

Ok that's your opinion. But it's not what the polls are showing. And 2029 is a long way away.
Democracy means one person one vote and my personal view is that you don't criticise others for how they decide to exercise their vote. You may obviously think they are wrong. But in my view it is wrong to insult them. Or at least not publicly! And self defeating if you are trying to persuade others of your point of view. Unfortunately politics is like that at the moment which is depressing. That's why we have rubbish MPs.

Please don't lecture me on what I can or can't say. Like you say the next GE is a long way away and Reform aren't showing any viability as being up to the job. In fact Farage has done nothing for his constituents in a year and he's made millions from the position. He's in favour of Trump style leadership or authoritarianism and admires Putin. If you can't see that and are blinded by rhetoric on "illegals", you're part of the problem.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:39

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 09:21

Many thanks. Asylum shopping means they've tried to claim asylum in other countries which you can't do in the EU.

They come from France though.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:40

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 09:38

Please don't lecture me on what I can or can't say. Like you say the next GE is a long way away and Reform aren't showing any viability as being up to the job. In fact Farage has done nothing for his constituents in a year and he's made millions from the position. He's in favour of Trump style leadership or authoritarianism and admires Putin. If you can't see that and are blinded by rhetoric on "illegals", you're part of the problem.

Well, Milo, I did say that it was only in my view. Just a suggestion. If you are trying to persuade anyone on here? Rather than be rude about people?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 09:41

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:39

They come from France though.

They're using people smugglers to get to the UK.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:42

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 09:41

They're using people smugglers to get to the UK.

I've lost you. But don't worry. No need to explain.

Lovesstaggbeetle · 11/07/2025 09:43

Well obviously France is doing a good job at keeping them moving to us ,let's look at what France does and mirror that.

Id card for a start

1457bloom · 11/07/2025 09:44

What is the point of sending millions to France when they let the asylum seekers get on these boats on their shores. They generally leave from the same areas. I saw on the news yesterday journalists were able to film them, yet the French police were doing nothing, they are having a laugh. No wonder our finances are a mess.

Catsandcheese · 11/07/2025 09:45

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 08:58

They are economic migrants.
They are not asylum seekers as they come from France
So there is no way for them to enter legally using the asylum process.

Edited

They are asylum seekers. The economic migrants get the 450k work visas.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 09:46

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:42

I've lost you. But don't worry. No need to explain.

Asylum shopping means going from country to country applying for asylum. The people coming to the UK are using people smugglers to come directly here.

HoppingPavlova · 11/07/2025 09:46

They obviously don’t care as there are solutions. I’m in Australia and we managed it and it’s not ‘different’ for us at all.

There’s a basic formula.

Patrol your border. If we can do it anyone can. Look at a map and check out how much we have to manage. You could basically do it with drones in what is essentially a large puddle between yourselves and possible routes.

Intercept. Do not let them set one foot on your soil. Go back to the 1700/1800’s and hold them in hulks offshore if need be.

Bribe a third world country enough to take them and keep them. Make sure it’s an island so they can’t leave. Plenty would be fine to take your money if you offer enough, which would still be cheaper than paying to accomodate them in UK for life. Places like Guinea-Bissau, Comoros, Kiribati, Tuvalu. Fly them in groups and drop them.

Take a set number through proper application channels with reasonable processing times.

Ignore the minority of do-gooders who will protest. They will protest about the colour of buttercups if you encourage them.

Problem solved and can be done if your government is serious about it. This won a political party an election in Australia a few elections ago, the slogan was ‘Stop The Boats’. This is the sole thing that won it for them. The party has changed since then but the system they set up won’t be dismantled as it’s political suicide for any party to do so, the majority of the population would not tolerate it.

TokyoSushi · 11/07/2025 09:47

It's just another futile thing to be 'seen to be doing something.' The reality is that it's exceptionally difficult, and expensive to Stop The Boats. The sea is massive, the coastline is huge, France have little desire to stop people leaving their shores, and so the people come.

What really needs to happen is that it needs to become wholly unappealing to come here. At the moment, it's very appealing to come here, and so the boats will continue.

Lovesstaggbeetle · 11/07/2025 09:48

@Alexandra2001 ignored or simply overwhelmed ?
Car washes , human slavery was all new to us until Blair dropped the barriers for Europe to work here and we were flooded with crime .

They definitely tried to tackle it I remember all the stores of human slaves being kept in sheds and caravans to work for slave masters and car washes etc.

But when your talking millions and we already had our own crime issues it's not a surprise they struggled to get on top of it.

EasternStandard · 11/07/2025 09:49

HoppingPavlova · 11/07/2025 09:46

They obviously don’t care as there are solutions. I’m in Australia and we managed it and it’s not ‘different’ for us at all.

There’s a basic formula.

Patrol your border. If we can do it anyone can. Look at a map and check out how much we have to manage. You could basically do it with drones in what is essentially a large puddle between yourselves and possible routes.

Intercept. Do not let them set one foot on your soil. Go back to the 1700/1800’s and hold them in hulks offshore if need be.

Bribe a third world country enough to take them and keep them. Make sure it’s an island so they can’t leave. Plenty would be fine to take your money if you offer enough, which would still be cheaper than paying to accomodate them in UK for life. Places like Guinea-Bissau, Comoros, Kiribati, Tuvalu. Fly them in groups and drop them.

Take a set number through proper application channels with reasonable processing times.

Ignore the minority of do-gooders who will protest. They will protest about the colour of buttercups if you encourage them.

Problem solved and can be done if your government is serious about it. This won a political party an election in Australia a few elections ago, the slogan was ‘Stop The Boats’. This is the sole thing that won it for them. The party has changed since then but the system they set up won’t be dismantled as it’s political suicide for any party to do so, the majority of the population would not tolerate it.

Agree. And knowing both countries well it really is the UK struggling to get it together on this. Down to voters of course, but all this we can't when Aus shows how it can happen.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:49

MiloMinderbinder925 · 11/07/2025 09:46

Asylum shopping means going from country to country applying for asylum. The people coming to the UK are using people smugglers to come directly here.

Yes I know. But presumably they don't sail around the coast from Africa. They pass through safe countries.

Anyway let's not engage on this.

Alexandra2001 · 11/07/2025 09:50

HoppingPavlova · 11/07/2025 09:46

They obviously don’t care as there are solutions. I’m in Australia and we managed it and it’s not ‘different’ for us at all.

There’s a basic formula.

Patrol your border. If we can do it anyone can. Look at a map and check out how much we have to manage. You could basically do it with drones in what is essentially a large puddle between yourselves and possible routes.

Intercept. Do not let them set one foot on your soil. Go back to the 1700/1800’s and hold them in hulks offshore if need be.

Bribe a third world country enough to take them and keep them. Make sure it’s an island so they can’t leave. Plenty would be fine to take your money if you offer enough, which would still be cheaper than paying to accomodate them in UK for life. Places like Guinea-Bissau, Comoros, Kiribati, Tuvalu. Fly them in groups and drop them.

Take a set number through proper application channels with reasonable processing times.

Ignore the minority of do-gooders who will protest. They will protest about the colour of buttercups if you encourage them.

Problem solved and can be done if your government is serious about it. This won a political party an election in Australia a few elections ago, the slogan was ‘Stop The Boats’. This is the sole thing that won it for them. The party has changed since then but the system they set up won’t be dismantled as it’s political suicide for any party to do so, the majority of the population would not tolerate it.

Have you asked these Island nations?

Sunak went round the world looking for places to send migrants, he found just Rwanda, who agreed to take just 500 to 1000 per year, up to 5000 in total.

Australia could force PNG into accepting due to the v strong economic ties.

Why not the Falklands? or a Scottish Island?

Lovesstaggbeetle · 11/07/2025 09:50

And if the EU had proper borders of course its not as easy for them to get to us and move freely in Europe.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:50

Catsandcheese · 11/07/2025 09:45

They are asylum seekers. The economic migrants get the 450k work visas.

Well most of them clearly don't need "asylum". Although perhaps we need asylum from some of the incomers. Not all, of course.

Lovesstaggbeetle · 11/07/2025 09:50

What about the Cayman Islands

Julen7 · 11/07/2025 09:51

1457bloom · 11/07/2025 09:44

What is the point of sending millions to France when they let the asylum seekers get on these boats on their shores. They generally leave from the same areas. I saw on the news yesterday journalists were able to film them, yet the French police were doing nothing, they are having a laugh. No wonder our finances are a mess.

Why are we even paying France and I expect this new scheme will mean we will have to fork out even more?

Alexandra2001 · 11/07/2025 09:52

Lovesstaggbeetle · 11/07/2025 09:50

What about the Cayman Islands

Bermuda? they might get lost.

Quirkswork · 11/07/2025 09:52

Lovesstaggbeetle · 11/07/2025 09:50

What about the Cayman Islands

That would prove The Great Replacement Theory right as we all clear out to go there!

RhaenysRocks · 11/07/2025 09:53

safetyfreak · 11/07/2025 09:07

Why do they want to come here over the other wealthy EU countries they cross?

We offer from free slap up meals a day, mobile phones, free English lessons, housing, access to our welfare system, driving lessons/trip out (for some) protection etc. I bet these other countries are not offering them such luxury. Why can’t we stop this? House them in detention centres until they all processed and we know they are safe. They could be from anywhere with terrorists intentions.

They are NOT genuine asylum seekers.

They also know, once they are in...they are in, we cannot deport them as we approve most applications because our courts will let anyone stay for any reason.

Edited

Ah the well known "they". One amorphous mass. No difference from one to another, no nuance and how dare they expect food, shelter, medical care and access to a device that it is almost impossible to function in the modern world without now. How about you listen to a few of the posters who work in the sector and describe the conditions in the "hotels" as overcrowded, unsanitary and anything but desirable.

Mischance · 11/07/2025 09:54

I think that Startmer is doing his best in an impossible situation - it is a conundrum that no-one has come up with a reasonable solution to yet. At least he is not at odds with France - they are communicating which has to be a plus. .

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