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To think it's actually OK to recline your seat on a long haul flight?

407 replies

winterwonder1 · 04/07/2025 19:21

I always thought it was just one of those things, but this poll seems to make out it's anti-social behaviour. And that hack is just batshit.

Best life hack to stop air passengers reclining their seat | Chester and District Standard

Flier shares 'best life hack' to stop passengers in front reclining their seat

Traveller shares her 'best life hack', involving a tub of Pringles, but is branded 'pathetic' and 'a horrible person'.

https://www.chesterstandard.co.uk/news/national/uk-today/25287018.best-life-hack-stop-air-passengers-reclining-seat/

OP posts:
caffelattetogo · 05/07/2025 10:05

I’ve also been on several flights where (possibly faulty) seats have reclined way further than expected when the occupant is heavier.

onehorserace · 05/07/2025 10:05

British Airways economy recline is 6 inches .

caffelattetogo · 05/07/2025 10:08

PrincessHoneysuckle · 05/07/2025 10:03

Next flight im on..passport ✅️ boarding pass✅️ full-sized tube of Pringles ✅️

Do you think it would be strong enough? I do like pringles, so even if not, I’d gladly eat them!

onehorserace · 05/07/2025 10:17

PrincessHoneysuckle · 05/07/2025 10:03

Next flight im on..passport ✅️ boarding pass✅️ full-sized tube of Pringles ✅️

Just expect to be called out on it if a passenger complains.

Hulabalu · 05/07/2025 10:22

PrincessHoneysuckle · 05/07/2025 10:03

Next flight im on..passport ✅️ boarding pass✅️ full-sized tube of Pringles ✅️

If my seat won’t recline I’ll check if someone is using the Pringles trick, empty the tube & crush the carton. Problem solved 😃

YourGreyCat · 05/07/2025 10:29

If it's a night flight, why not recline? Seems reasonable considering it's time for sleep.

Also I would be inclined to direct my hate towards the money grabbing companies who pack everyone in so tightly rather than the individual.

At the end of the day, we are all different and have different levels of comfort and different needs and preferences. Your lucky if you get sat next to someone with the same view on it as you but I don't think people reclining their seats are bad.

notimagain · 05/07/2025 10:38

Ibelievetheworldisburningtotheground · 05/07/2025 09:19

I think it's really only acceptable to fully recline on overnight flights in economy/smaller legroom sections tbh

Those sort of hard and fast suggested rules might be all very well and good, perhaps, maybe, if we're talking about Long Haul Leisure flights..sort of thing BA do out of Gatwick to the Caribbean, the likes of TUI Virgin do to.e.g. Florida..

Reason? Mainly UK customer base, morning departures ex -Uk, passengers body clocks nicely on UK time and quite possibly well rested due to night before flight spent at an airport hotel. For those passengers, perhaps, a no recline because it's a daytime flight rule won't be a major issue

Those rules would be an absolute none-starter on, say, a morning flight out of Heathrow to say JFK or Washington where probably a hundred plus passengers have connected on overnight flights from other countries even other continents, whose body clocks are half way to the Moon and who really need sleep

If the airlines primarily serving the leisure market want to get authoritarian with regard to recline, so be it, but don't expect it to become universal.

youreactinglikeafunmum · 05/07/2025 10:39

Morgenrot25 · 05/07/2025 08:00

Please don't.

😬

youreactinglikeafunmum · 05/07/2025 10:40

LemondrizzleShark · 05/07/2025 08:39

Ethically fine, but you will get cold feet! I’d keep your socks on at least.

I hate the feeling of socks on my feet 😭, just dont want to end up a meme.

Will wear crocs for popping to the loo though

Absentmindedsmile · 05/07/2025 10:42

Of course it’s ok on a long haul flight. Short haul we can do without.

MissMoneyFairy · 05/07/2025 10:42

Laserwho · 04/07/2025 19:43

Someone did this to me when I had a toddler on my knee..they didn't like it when my toddler kept knocking into the seat due to lack of room everything he moved. Think before you recline, if there's a toddler on a knee there will not be enough room to do it.

Not the problem for the seat paying customer in front though really. You can't expect someone to be uncomfortable because your toddler hasn't got their own seat.

Absentmindedsmile · 05/07/2025 10:43

Absentmindedsmile · 05/07/2025 10:42

Of course it’s ok on a long haul flight. Short haul we can do without.

Pathetic of a flyer to think otherwise tbh. I guess it’s those that don’t fly much.

Absentmindedsmile · 05/07/2025 10:43

MissMoneyFairy · 05/07/2025 10:42

Not the problem for the seat paying customer in front though really. You can't expect someone to be uncomfortable because your toddler hasn't got their own seat.

Quite

Pinepeak2434 · 05/07/2025 10:43

I only recline if the person in front reclines. It drives me mad when people recline their seat the minute they get on the flight or just after takeoff. I once had the chair at the back by the loos which don’t recline, and it was hell as the person in front reclined, I felt like I couldn’t breath!

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 05/07/2025 10:54

I don’t understand why so many people are claiming that reclining « takes space from the people behind », they can just recline as well and re-gain exactly the same amount of space!

I recline all the time except during meal times, most passengers seem to be doing the same.

A lot do it because the upright seats are quickly painful for the back.

Just a minority who seem to become enraged about it / insult / make threats of violence - even though they could very simply regain the space by reclining themselves.

JassyRadlett · 05/07/2025 11:04

GRex · 05/07/2025 06:17

It just depends on direction of travel. Most people will sleep east to avoid jetlag, so flying to Asia or from US to UK it's reasonable to recline immediately to sleep. Flying west, no, stay sitting up to watch films, eat or whatever. Up/ down you don't recline as it's the same time zone.

Nope. Veteran of enough flights leaving Singapore to LHR at midnight to know that sleeping on that flight is non-negotiable and entirely normal. 6 hours or so of sleep on the plane (best case scenario), land at LHR at 1540, push through to bedtime and jet lag is minimal.

Similarly, if I'm taking off in SIN late at night for Sydney, having done 14 or so hours from
Heathrow and a layover at Changi, I am definitely aiming to have a nap on that flight despite the north/south orientation.

CustardySergeant · 05/07/2025 11:09

I never recline my seat for the simple reason that I don't like it if the person in front of me reclines theirs. I treat other people as I would like to be treated.

TakeMe2Insanity · 05/07/2025 11:14

I have good eye sight so had my kindle in my lap while I was reading and holding a drink. The person in front reclined to level that some I couldn’t reach my kindle anymore.

Another example, my DH is 6ft 2, and his knees were stuck above the recline level, the woman in front kept reclining despite him saying it was hurting him.

All these examples would be solved if airlines gave a little more space to allow for recline without taking space from the person behind you. Airlines need to create seats for comfort and for the benefit of the person in the seat and the people around them.

TakeMe2Insanity · 05/07/2025 11:15

Oh God, the people that recline when they’ve decided that they don’t want to eat but the person behind does!

notimagain · 05/07/2025 11:19

Airlines need to create seats for comfort and for the benefit of the person in the seat and the people around them

There are several companies (engineering type companies not airlines) whose only job is to try and do exactly that..but there are physical and engineering limits as to what can be done on any given budget....and despite the griping when choosing flights and airlines most folks.start by looking at ticket price.

You can get plenty of comfort and room on Long Haul flights...in the premium cabins.

onehorserace · 05/07/2025 11:28

Pinepeak2434 · 05/07/2025 10:43

I only recline if the person in front reclines. It drives me mad when people recline their seat the minute they get on the flight or just after takeoff. I once had the chair at the back by the loos which don’t recline, and it was hell as the person in front reclined, I felt like I couldn’t breath!

Use Seat Guru in future to get a better idea of seats.

Bitzee · 05/07/2025 11:29

TakeMe2Insanity · 05/07/2025 11:14

I have good eye sight so had my kindle in my lap while I was reading and holding a drink. The person in front reclined to level that some I couldn’t reach my kindle anymore.

Another example, my DH is 6ft 2, and his knees were stuck above the recline level, the woman in front kept reclining despite him saying it was hurting him.

All these examples would be solved if airlines gave a little more space to allow for recline without taking space from the person behind you. Airlines need to create seats for comfort and for the benefit of the person in the seat and the people around them.

Wouldn’t that be premium economy? It’s for those would like a little more space but don’t want to pay for all the trimmings of business class. More room between seats pushes prices up though even if not to business class levels. And you have to acknowledge that others don’t care and are happy to suck up a bit of discomfort for the cheapest possible fare. So overall it’s good to have the choice I think!

Fundayout2025 · 05/07/2025 11:48

notimagain · 05/07/2025 07:36

It's not that weird, it depends on the aircraft/cabin configuration.

On a lot of long haul aircraft at least some if not all of the back row seats recline.

I didn't realize that. Mind you I'd never be at the back of the plane

Fundayout2025 · 05/07/2025 11:51

PetiteBlondeDuBoulevardBrune · 05/07/2025 10:54

I don’t understand why so many people are claiming that reclining « takes space from the people behind », they can just recline as well and re-gain exactly the same amount of space!

I recline all the time except during meal times, most passengers seem to be doing the same.

A lot do it because the upright seats are quickly painful for the back.

Just a minority who seem to become enraged about it / insult / make threats of violence - even though they could very simply regain the space by reclining themselves.

I find reclinng my own seat hurts my back. So one size doesn't fit all

Fundayout2025 · 05/07/2025 11:57

SumUp · 05/07/2025 09:47

Yes, fundamentally, someone will a toddler on their lap is fitting two people into a seat designed for one, and whatever your views on it, reclining is allowed. If it bothers you, I would advise to book seats with more legroom or buy your child their own seat.

Often extra legroom seats are at the emergency exits and kiss are forbidden to be there so that's easier said than done. And it's perfectly allowed to have an under 2 on your lap. Even if you had a 6 month old they are often on your lap when awake even if you have bought them a seat and fitted the appropriate car seat to it