All families are trying to do their best - the vat being added wasn’t suddenly announced it was widely flagged as a policy before the election- people had time to plan , move their year 9 and 10 kids to state school. Also what about the schools - they could have absorbed the cost for those approaching GCSE - introduced a longer payment plan, reduced fees for a period?
people are responsible for their own choices and planning - people are going without food, defaulting on mortgages etc no one is expecting the government to bail them out.
the last government allowed Brexit to happen, causes terrible damage to the economy and left the incoming government to sort it out