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To avoid Muslim friend

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cumbriaisbest · 30/06/2025 17:48

I can't stand listenting to it any more.Tatbir, Gaza and so on. Unrelenting pain.
In addition.....
Where do I go when I die ( as a non believer?)
Where will my gay son go?

I say this as somebody who has worked in community projects and is passionately against racism.

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cumbriaisbest · 03/07/2025 18:05

Xcfsacs · 03/07/2025 15:30

Fair enough. Probably because the truthful answer as per Islamic theology is genuinely "hellfire for eternity"

OK, best left alone then.

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Neetra30 · 05/07/2025 14:09

@cumbriaisbest I think it's best if you try to avoid your Islamic friend.
Maybe your friend has been raised with other like minded individuals who also follow the same faith so perhaps she doesnt know she is overstepping your boundaries?
It says more about her than you. That shes not as open minded as she thinks.
Avoid relegious people overall. They generally have strong opinions and will challenge you if you try to question it

ManyBooksLittleTime · 05/07/2025 18:07

I struggle with the Muslim belief that only Muslims will go to heaven and no one else will.

Xcfsacs · 05/07/2025 18:52

ManyBooksLittleTime · 05/07/2025 18:07

I struggle with the Muslim belief that only Muslims will go to heaven and no one else will.

I mean same thing with Christianity.

ManyBooksLittleTime · 05/07/2025 19:20

Xcfsacs, Not really. The Surah Kahf literally ends with how they can all piss about laughing at all the other poor souls not getting into heaven

Xcfsacs · 05/07/2025 19:30

ManyBooksLittleTime · 05/07/2025 19:20

Xcfsacs, Not really. The Surah Kahf literally ends with how they can all piss about laughing at all the other poor souls not getting into heaven

Christianity also says that only those who believe jesus is their lord and saviour are destined to eternal glory.

cumbriaisbest · 06/07/2025 10:16

Xcfsacs · 05/07/2025 19:30

Christianity also says that only those who believe jesus is their lord and saviour are destined to eternal glory.

I get the feeling the " rest" just fade away in Christianity. I asked my local rector and she said it was like The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe. So I'm none the wiser!

I suppose all religion is about earning brownie points and the afterlife.

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Xcfsacs · 06/07/2025 11:17

cumbriaisbest · 06/07/2025 10:16

I get the feeling the " rest" just fade away in Christianity. I asked my local rector and she said it was like The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe. So I'm none the wiser!

I suppose all religion is about earning brownie points and the afterlife.

Fair enough. What I understand is the rest yes fade away and aren't with god. In Islam it's quite scary eternal punishment.

ToWhitToWhoo · 07/11/2025 12:37

Xcfsacs · 06/07/2025 11:17

Fair enough. What I understand is the rest yes fade away and aren't with god. In Islam it's quite scary eternal punishment.

Traditionally at least, most branches of Christianity hold/ have held this point of view.

SriouslyWhutNow · 07/11/2025 12:40

ToWhitToWhoo · 07/11/2025 12:37

Traditionally at least, most branches of Christianity hold/ have held this point of view.

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TheLivelyRose · 07/11/2025 12:40

Foreverm0re · 30/06/2025 18:04

Which part is Islamophobic exactly?

Quite. I dont think it is a phobia to be wary of a doctrine that suggests gay people go to hell when they die.

ToWhitToWhoo · 07/11/2025 12:53

SriouslyWhutNow · 07/11/2025 12:40

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Because it was being shown as one of the trending threads, that's why! Maybe I should have checked the dates, but usually old threads are not shown in this way. And there's no need to be so rude!

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