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I swore I’d never become this person…..

171 replies

findmeaunicorn · 29/06/2025 15:11

I’m addicted to wearing leggings 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣
Next it will be the crocs 😱

OP posts:
AngelinaFibres · 29/06/2025 17:33

Matching rain ponchos for you and your husband. In case of sudden rain storms

Sevenamcoffee · 29/06/2025 17:38

MsOvary · 29/06/2025 17:06

My daughter who is very trendy ‘London’ tells me crocs are cool.

Teenage dd has recently stolen my crocs to take on holiday with her.

Fannyannie · 29/06/2025 17:41

I just can’t do Crocs for the feel of the plastic on my feet - uuurgh

Phoebesparrow · 29/06/2025 17:44

annzen · 29/06/2025 17:17

@Phoebesparrow I cheat a bit and use a backpack with wheels. Out I go like I'm going to climb Snowdon, backpack on my back, home with the pack following me around like a puppy, full of all the shopping. You know, the stuff you think you could carry in a shopping bag/tote, but ends up weighing a ton. I've learned my lesson now lol. I'm 68 and full of beans and want to keep my back in semi ok order!

If I were pressed to say what I would not wear it would have to be the hotter brand shoes designed for older feet, bunions, corns and so on, with velcro straps. That's something I hope not to need...

Hotter shoes
My (lovely) mil wears them and they look bloody comfy but I'm not there yet!
I didn't know they made backpacks with wheels-when it gets too much to carry,can you just wheel it like my trolley?
If so,you've just cost me a chunk of my wages...

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 29/06/2025 17:44

I live in leggings.

I despise Crocs, but, between us, I’m now tempted to get a pair.

But, I’ve decided, as long as I don’t give in to Uggs, I’m good.

IainTorontoNSW · 29/06/2025 17:45

outerspacepotato · 29/06/2025 15:17

Pajamas in public!😂

I live by a coastal lake in eastern Australia in amongst a group of five interconnected suburbs well-known for almost half the population being over 50 years of age.

Our main waterfront town swells about 10%-15% from Thursday night until Sunday afternoons but MOST of the locals do not change their ways or "scrub up" to look like they care what they look like.

My then European son-in-law (and family) was staying with us. He and I were the only ones up on a sleepy winter morning so I asked him if he wanted to go have coffee and toast by the waterfront before all the others woke up. He agreed.

We arrived at the cafe and sat outside enjoying the lake views and consecutive coffees when suddenly he asked, "Iain, is there a sports event or a fun run about to happen?"

"Why do you ask, Johan?" I replied.

"Well, almost everyone that waves to you and calls out 'GOOD MORNING' is wearing a track suit and brand name sports shoes," he explained.

"Normal day plumage in Toronto, Johan. Some of them even have it on 24-7."

"Ohhhhh?" he said, most surprised.

"Most people have zero concern what they look like to others in this pace. What you consider exercise-wear or fitness-wear, most of these folk consider as all day wear." I further elaborated.

Later on in the day, we had a family 4-star seafood restaurant lunch inside the sailing club where he almost fell off his chair having noticed that more than 20% of diners were in track-suits and sports shoes at 1:15pm on a sunny winter's day.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 29/06/2025 17:50

No, not crocs or the big long quilty ridiculous looking jackets. Noooooo😱😂

Barney16 · 29/06/2025 17:51

My mother wears Hotter shoes. She buys them from the garden.centre. My daughter has strict instructions to wrestle any, I ever, in the future, express a preference for, from my weak and aged hands.

annzen · 29/06/2025 17:57

Phoebesparrow · 29/06/2025 17:44

Hotter shoes
My (lovely) mil wears them and they look bloody comfy but I'm not there yet!
I didn't know they made backpacks with wheels-when it gets too much to carry,can you just wheel it like my trolley?
If so,you've just cost me a chunk of my wages...

Yes, it is an ordinary (fair size) backpack and the wheels (when not in use) are concealed and cushioned. Then when the backpack gets heavy, down it goes, wheel cover undone and up comes the handle! So handy and versatile, I can keep it as a backpack if I don't have to carry too much, but can convert to a wheelie if needed. Best. Buy. Ever. (for me anyway).

I have the cabin max metz hybrid, very roomy. It cost about 45 quid on the River in South America 😊

OhMyOhMyx2 · 29/06/2025 18:01

Tunic tops from White stuff and Seasalt .

@AngelinaFibres.

Two years older than gina, I’ll fess up to buckle-fastening Hotter sandals (not crocs), backpacks (not a shopper) and that each day I’m becoming more like Wilma Flintstone with the up-do and tone of voice!

IainTorontoNSW · 29/06/2025 18:01

@RampantIvy

You: "I have always talked to cats 😁"

Ditto. I have shared my home(s)/house(s)/flats with one or two cats 1956-1973 and 1981-2023 ... and almost always accompanied by a dog too.

Cats are great sounding boards.

When my last cat (16yo) died in 2023, I chose to not replace her as, having reached my late 60s and the world bouncing back from COVID19, I realised there were fewer people who could/would mind my animal(s) for two or three weeks while I travelled.

Visiting morning magpies, kookaburras and rosellas sing nice songs but they fall short of patient cat listening skills.

UnNiddeRides · 29/06/2025 18:02

Skechers Slip-Ins. My days of spike-heeled stilettos are long gone, but now I won’t wear an outfit if it doesn’t go with my no-effort Skechers… I’d have been appalled 20 years ago to factor my comfy shoes into what I wear.

MaySea · 29/06/2025 18:04

My friend started out like this and by then end of the year she was totally dependant. Now she needs to wear 3 or even 4 pairs a day to get the same hit.

Asunciondeflata · 29/06/2025 18:05

findmeaunicorn · 29/06/2025 15:11

I’m addicted to wearing leggings 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣
Next it will be the crocs 😱

Go for it 😁 😁

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2025 18:06

findmeaunicorn · 29/06/2025 15:11

I’m addicted to wearing leggings 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣
Next it will be the crocs 😱

I've lost weight, but not enough to go down a size all over. The only solution appears to be a pair of leggings.

Goldleafcat · 29/06/2025 18:08

Melancholyflower · 29/06/2025 15:57

Crocs are cool though.
Leggings are ok if they are the Sweaty Betty/Lululemon exercise type, but not if they're the stretchy jersey type worn with tunics, or even worse instead of tights with dresses.

Haha I’m guilty of wearing the jersey ones with floaty tops, tunics and dresses 😂

Though I am doing it less now, now I’ve lost quite a bit of weight. It was my ‘safe’ uniform.

Like @winnieanddaisy I’ve been on mounjaro and honestly I’ve started to like clothes again. Previously they were function rather than fun.

Asunciondeflata · 29/06/2025 18:10

Sevenamcoffee · 29/06/2025 17:38

Teenage dd has recently stolen my crocs to take on holiday with her.

All the teens are wearing them, with big socks.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/06/2025 18:11

@Melancholyflower mentions SweatyBetty. Are they really worth the money?

I'm currently using Markie's and Landsend. (I do wear them to the gym.)

IVbumble · 29/06/2025 18:11

I have crocs & leggings & also eat my dinner/tea with a spoon because it's easier. I'm 64. 😬

Asunciondeflata · 29/06/2025 18:11

Mummylovesmonkeys · 29/06/2025 17:15

As a 67 year old, size 22 grandma, if you had come round to ours earlier in the week you would have found me in my yellow and black striped bumblebee Temu leggings, green crocs and a baggy t-shirt. Not a look to celebrate, but perfect for dragging stuff out of the shed and getting covered in dust, muck and cobwebs (that's my excuse and I am sticking to it!) I'm not going to traumatise everyone by posting a picture.

😂😂😂

haveyouopenedyourbowelstoday · 29/06/2025 18:12

I go to the gym, watch what I eat and spend far too much time trying to look half decent. Who have I become? I used to mock people like me.

OhMyOhMyx2 · 29/06/2025 18:13

Floaty tops and tunics 😁
As @AngelinaFibres notes, Seasalt and White Stuff.

JollyBoysOuting2025 · 29/06/2025 18:22

findmeaunicorn · 29/06/2025 16:15

Haha! Yes maybe I was against them because I too was that 90’s child dressed in leggings…… and I had a shell suit 🤪 and my mum had these ski pants leggings 🤦🏻‍♀️ but my lord are leggings handy and comfy ❤️🤣

Ski pants!!! OMG! You’ve just taken me back to when DS was a new baby… I had a black pair and a navy pair. I wore the elastic straps out on the black ones. So comfy and quick to wash and dry if DS had brought his milk back up😄

Ohtobemycat · 29/06/2025 18:30

I have always worn leggings 😂

Sonolanona · 29/06/2025 18:37

Crocs and shorts right here right now 😆
Even worse, when it cools down enough I'll take the dog for a walk...in my crocs, shorts and pj top with no bra (I'm pretty flat chested to be fair). 57 years old and comfort rules!