I think that the mistake is to assume that those claiming disability payments need them.
I know two families claiming a disability allowance.
The first has two teenage children supposedly with Long Covid. They are too tired to get up to go to school most mornings, but not too tired to stay up late doing hobbies or enjoying busy active holidays away. The mother has a job that entails working from home with flexible hours. As the money that she receives can be spent as she wishes, they go away most school holidays or some weekends now. Furthermore she has no incentive for her children to improve and hasn't been following any of the medical advice re Long Covid and pacing. Aside from that, what do her children actually need the money for? The family hasn't been financially impacted by their illness.
My other friend has 3 children with ADHD. They also qualify for some sort of payment or she receives some sort of carers allowance. Again, they are in school full time. My friend works. No financial hardship as a result. Her husband has been unable to work for the last 6 years due to anxiety. Instead he spends all day sleeping and all night smoking weed and gaming. He gets some sort of allowance. I feel as though he is actually getting worse as is completely stuck in a rut. The family now all rely on the extra money and are planning a holiday to Disneyland in Florida this year.
Meanwhile I have a friend with 2 severely autistic sons who cannot access a school within an hour of their house and whom is only able to work limited hours. Both require additional private speech and language support etc. One is also physically disabled. Yet she receives the same amount in terms of payments for her children and has been hit very hard financially and with the removal of day centres due to funding cuts.
The whole system is rotten. Why on earth should people be given money to spend as they wish on whatever they want for their children when they have suffered no financial set back or incurred additional costs?
It really makes me cross at the sense of entitlement and waste.