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That hand washed dishes should be rinsed with clean water?

269 replies

Drew79 · 24/06/2025 21:42

When hand washing, interested in how many people either -

Wash dishes then rinse with clean water, then put on the drainer to dry

Or
Wash dishes and put on the drainer with soap suds and dirty water still on them?

I don't like the idea of eating and drinking from something that's got some cleaning chemicals left on it, but my partner says I'm being fussy!

OP posts:
JennyShaw · 25/06/2025 22:36

vodkaredbullgirl · 25/06/2025 22:32

What's the point having a bath then to shower after.

If you have a bath with lots of soap suds you might want to quickly wash them away with a shower attachment before you get out the bath. It's not like you would use soap in the bath then shower gel with with a shower.

If you weren't using soap but an essential oil just for relaxation then you wouldn't want to wash it away but leave it.

heatherwithapee · 25/06/2025 22:54

I don’t rinse but change the dishwater often so there’s no greasy residue on the dishes.

Flossflower · 25/06/2025 23:14

OntheBorder1 · 25/06/2025 22:09

I got it wrong - apparently they have a bath followed by a shower to rinse themselves 😅

You just empty the bath. While it is emptying you stand up, pick up the shower attachment and take 1 minute to rinse yourself with the shower attachment. Not much water and not much time and you get a clean soap free body.

OneCalmFish · 25/06/2025 23:14

MargoLivebetter · 25/06/2025 09:11

I always rinse. TBH most people's washing up habits appall me. If I am washing up, it is always glasses first, then mugs, then plates and then pots & pans etc all properly rinsed. How can anyone consider taking an item out of dirty water and putting it on a draining rack to be properly clean. I get that no one is likely to die from it, but it definitely isn't properly clean.

My wider family let the bloody dogs do a pre-wash, which I find disgusting (even as a dog lover). We all know what dogs get up to! I don't let dogs lick my face, so why in the name of all that is vaguely hygienic would I be letting them lick a plate that I'm just going to wash in warm water?! Gah!

Oh yes I found a dish friend lol I have to wash in the same order and yes agree OP absolutely rinsing every time! You know what I can’t stand, tea towels on dishes all them fibres coming off so once rinsed left to dry.

JennyShaw · 25/06/2025 23:23

Didn't Old Man Steptoe wash his dishes in the bath while he was in it? I'm sure some people on this thread would approve as it saves water and keeps our reservoirs topped up.

raspberrieswithchocolate · 25/06/2025 23:27

CoubousAndTourmalet · 24/06/2025 22:23

We have no dishwasher. We wash everything in warm soapy water then rinse under the cold tap before placing in the draining rack.
Our items are washed in the washing-up bowl, but pet dishes are done in the stainless steel sink.

We have the exact same routine, everything is washed the same way in our house, right down to the pet dishes.

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 26/06/2025 00:55

I'm disgusted to hear so many people saying they don't rinse their plates, and that it would somehow be a 'waste of water' to do so. Even when I lived in places with no running water (where every litre of water used had to be carried in) or cooked outdoors (sometimes with just an open fire to cook/ heat water) I have always rinsed, usually with hot water! There are lots of ways to wash up and be extremely frugal with water, but still rinse the soap suds (and bacteria) off the dishes! Reading threads like these makes me think that maybe washing up should be on the curriculum in every primary school in the UK...

MuckFusk · 26/06/2025 04:06

Flossflower · 25/06/2025 23:14

You just empty the bath. While it is emptying you stand up, pick up the shower attachment and take 1 minute to rinse yourself with the shower attachment. Not much water and not much time and you get a clean soap free body.

That's the way I do it too. I don't get why people think that's strange.

UndermyShoeJoe · 26/06/2025 08:12

OntheBorder1 · 25/06/2025 22:08

If people are so ridiculous about baths then why not just have a shower instead? What an absolute waste of water! I have never heard of anyone having a bath followed by a shower btw.

MN is a seriously weird place.

I don’t use the bath for exactly that reason I see it as pointless. Can’t wait to redo the bathroom and rip the stupid thing out.

limescale · 26/06/2025 08:29

MuckFusk · 25/06/2025 21:43

Glasses might break. Not your dishes and cutlery, surely. Not every kettle gets scale either. Depends on what minerals are in your water source. I have well water, so I use a softener. There's no scale. So I don't think it's a bad idea.

Yes, I said loads of stuff, not all of it.
You said you pour boiling water over everything.
We do have very hard water….but softener being fitted in Aug. Yay!

LeopardStripes · 26/06/2025 08:36

vodkaredbullgirl · 24/06/2025 23:07

Too many precious poster on here 😆

If precious means wanting more than a dog licking my plates and then a wash in soapy water with no rinsing, then I own that!

Nagginthenag · 26/06/2025 08:36

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts no-one in the UK appears to have died through not rinsing dishes. It maybe possible to rinse dishes using very little water but most on this thread who rinse dishes aren't doing that, they're rinsing under a running tap. And will probably be the first to complain when water restrictions are announced.

LeopardStripes · 26/06/2025 08:38

I was born and brought up in the UK, but my parents were from a different culture. They rinsed everything in water after handwashing in soap, and could not get their heads around people washing in soapy water and then just letting the suds drip off. I do it my parents’ way and now my English husband does too, though he was raised with the tub of soapy water and no rinsing.

LeopardStripes · 26/06/2025 08:43

Drew79 · 25/06/2025 09:11

I can't stand plastic bowls in sinks, they're horrible! They're in the way, look shit, end up with grease/muck stuck underneath the bowl, who has the energy for cleaning a plastic bowl as well.

If I stay at a holiday rental, that damn bowl is getting shoved in a cupboard somewhere!

I think the plastic bowl situation is why Brits have a reputation for being dirty!

LeopardStripes · 26/06/2025 08:45

AmelieSummer25 · 25/06/2025 13:36

Apparently that makes us 'odd' 🤣🤣I'd have said 'clean' myself!

I am the same. We are not alone!

limescale · 26/06/2025 09:21

LeopardStripes · 26/06/2025 08:43

I think the plastic bowl situation is why Brits have a reputation for being dirty!

Do we?
I have a plastic bowl. I have not been shunned by society or chased out of my home by the village elders.

It prevents my glasses being broken in the stone sink. I tip dregs etc down the sink keeping the water in the bowl cleaner. I use the soapy water to wash down the bowl after I've finished washing up.

limescale · 26/06/2025 09:24

Nagginthenag · 26/06/2025 08:36

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts no-one in the UK appears to have died through not rinsing dishes. It maybe possible to rinse dishes using very little water but most on this thread who rinse dishes aren't doing that, they're rinsing under a running tap. And will probably be the first to complain when water restrictions are announced.

I turn my tap on and off for each item I rinse.
Water restrictions don't impact me as I don't water my garden, don't wash my car with the hose or use a pressure washer. I think my tap usage is quite reasonable. I think someone keeping the tap running low for 10 mins probably uses 1/10th of what someone using a garden sprinkler would use.

Drew79 · 26/06/2025 09:33

LeopardStripes · 26/06/2025 08:43

I think the plastic bowl situation is why Brits have a reputation for being dirty!

Says who?
It's a bit ridiculous to label a whole nation in that way, there are 'clean' and 'dirty' folks in all countries around the world.

OP posts:
theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 26/06/2025 09:36

Of course you need to rinse them. Otherwise it’s like stepping out of the shower with soap on.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 26/06/2025 09:37

LeopardStripes · 26/06/2025 08:43

I think the plastic bowl situation is why Brits have a reputation for being dirty!

It isn’t and they don’t.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 26/06/2025 09:40

UnctuousUnicorns · 25/06/2025 17:18

@OntheBorder1

"When you have a bath do you empty it then refill it with clean water to rinse yourself?"

FFS don't give them ideas!

Most people do rinse off before getting out of the bath, either with a shower attachment or a jug, same as for rinsing hair after you wash it.

Otherwise you are just taking dirty water and soap residue with you.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 26/06/2025 09:43

Poynsettia · 25/06/2025 07:50

when I was young 60 odd years ago hot water was precious and dishes didn’t get rinsed -rinsing in icy cold water (Scotland with no central heating) would have prolonged the drying process. Washing in v hot water meant plates dried off in the rack. It’s annoying when things in the past are seen as dirty and lazy when a coal fire heated the water for a family of 5 meant it was used sparingly and dish and pan washing was a tedious job. Get it done quickly and no one was ill.

That wouldn’t be seen as dirty or lazy, it’s just a different era, same as only bathing once or twice a week.

But it’s not optimal - so it’s odd not to rinse soap off dishes or not wash yourself daily in this era.

Drew79 · 26/06/2025 09:45

Nagginthenag · 26/06/2025 08:36

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts no-one in the UK appears to have died through not rinsing dishes. It maybe possible to rinse dishes using very little water but most on this thread who rinse dishes aren't doing that, they're rinsing under a running tap. And will probably be the first to complain when water restrictions are announced.

I don't want to take risks with my health, or shorten my life by ingesting cleaning chemicals unnecessarily, when it's as easy as a simple water rinse.

OP posts:
SuburbanSprawl · 26/06/2025 10:37

Oh, gosh - no idea.

I'll ask the staff.

AmelieSummer25 · 26/06/2025 10:39

Drew79 · 26/06/2025 09:45

I don't want to take risks with my health, or shorten my life by ingesting cleaning chemicals unnecessarily, when it's as easy as a simple water rinse.

Exactly 'no one died'. Who knows? As an example: They're not going to be able to attribute a particular persons cancer & early death solely to one thing are they. But they can say formaldehyde should not be injested, hence washing dishwater soap (and the dirt.fat.fiid/bacteria etc if holds) off the dishes is common sense! Which is sadly lacking apparently!

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