I got married yesterday and I can't stop crying.

[MoreThanOverwhelmed]

DH has cancer. (Diagnosed Jan 2024)
We were supposed to get married - at simple 2+2 ceremony at the end of the month but his Dr's etc encouraged us to bring the date forwards, so we got married yesterday in the hospital where my DH is being cared for.
I'm a week post major abdominal surgery.
We have 2 primary aged DC
It's our youngest DCs birthday this month.

I don't know what I want from this post but I can't stop crying.
I don't think that I know how break it to the DC that Daddy isn't going to get better and come home.
My head is swimming & I don't know what to do.

I’m so very sorry for your loss xx

I’m so sorry, that is heartbreaking. Wishing you and your family every strength.

@MoreThanOverwhelmed sending you heartfelt sympathy and love

Oh OP I'm so very sorry x

I am so, so, very sorry. Thinking of you, your children and your families x

So sorry @MoreThanOverwhelmed to read your news. Thinking of you all.

So sorry Op, love and strength to you and your children

Sending love and sympathy to you and your family, OP. I hope you feel able to accept all the help you can get from friends, relatives and support groups such as widowed and young.org.uk.

Also, don’t neglect your own health and recovery from the hysterectomy. The various hysterectomy support groups you can find online may be able to help. You’ve been through so much. I wish you and DC a much happier future ❤️.

Hi @MoreThanOverwhelmed So sorry to hear your very sad news.
💐💐💐

So sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry @MoreThanOverwhelmed

So very sorry x

So sorry for your loss OP. I wish you all the very best and healing prayers.
One day at a time. Focus on the good moments. Take care and lean on your friends and family for support. Don’t be afraid to ask xx

So very sorry to hear your update, I hope it was a peaceful passing and in time you can look back and remember all your happier times. From a total random stranger in the Internet, I'm sending you and your family lots of love and strength to get through this ❤️

I'm so desperately sorry OP, nobody should have to go through what you are going through, and so young. There are no adequate words for how awful this is. I'm just so very sorry for your loss.

So very sorry for your loss OP, sending love and strength to you and your family as you navigate the future xx

I’m just a stranger but I wanted to reach out and give you a virtual hug and let you know I’m thinking of you and your family. I’m so sorry for your sad loss. Life can be so cruel at times. xxx 💐

I’ve been following your thread OP. So sad to hear your news. Be kind to yourself. I hope you will find support from those around you in real life; but also, I hope you will find support from people in here who have been through this. You have shown us that you have great strength and courage, I know you will be the rock your children need.

Much love to you @MoreThanOverwhelmed i am so sorry for your loss. I wish you strength and peace in the upcoming months to you and your family.

I’m so so sorry.. You will all get through this

My prayers are with your family. Im so glad yo hear you managed to get married. Through your grief hold on to the love you had and lean on your family and friends.

Hes at peace, and much as it hurts I hope that brings you comfort. We're all wishing you healing and peace x

So so sorry 💐

I am very sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband. The love you created as a family will not disappear and I hope it helps you through this time.

So very sorry @MoreThanOverwhelmed. Sending you and yours all the love

So sorry. Love to you and your family.

Oh bless you OP I'm so so sorry 😞 ❤️