I got married yesterday and I can't stop crying.

[MoreThanOverwhelmed]

DH has cancer. (Diagnosed Jan 2024)
We were supposed to get married - at simple 2+2 ceremony at the end of the month but his Dr's etc encouraged us to bring the date forwards, so we got married yesterday in the hospital where my DH is being cared for.
I'm a week post major abdominal surgery.
We have 2 primary aged DC
It's our youngest DCs birthday this month.

I don't know what I want from this post but I can't stop crying.
I don't think that I know how break it to the DC that Daddy isn't going to get better and come home.
My head is swimming & I don't know what to do.

I’m so sorry for your loss ♥️

I’m so sorry for your loss xx

I am so very sorry for your loss 💐

Sending you an enormous hug, it is so so sad and unfair. Just get through each minute as it comes and lean on everyone you can.

I’m so very sorry. Condolences to you and the family.

Oh OP I am so sorry. Sending so much strength and good vibes to you xx

@MoreThanOverwhelmed Very sorry for your loss 💐❤️

I’m so very sorry.

Look after yourself and the children, and get all the family/friend support you can.

Just take one day and one night at a time - over time the worst of the pain does lessen gradually.

Best wishes x💐

I'm so very sorry, @MoreThanOverwhelmed ❤
I'm sending you and everyone who loves your husband so much love.🌹xxx

Sending you all my love and strength and hoping you’ve got lots of support around you x

So sorry for your loss OP. Heart goes out to you and your family.

I am so sorry to read your update. Take care of yourself , accept the love and help you are offered and wrap yourself in his love because that will be with you forever in your heart.

I am so sorry for your loss 💐

A terrible experience for you all to have gone through with your dear husband. And now a time of grieving for you all as a family. Lean on each other’s strengths and know that strangers here are thinking of you with love and support. Sending strength and hopes for your future. x

Sending so much love and strength to you and your children, I’m so so sorry xx

I am so sorry OP, I wish I could give you a hug, hold you and give you some strength. ❤️‍🩹

I'm so sorry for your and your family's loss, especially today on what should be a joyous day. May you find comfort at this time.

So sorry for your loss 💐

I am so sad and sorry for your loss
he is at peace now, try and find comfort in that xxx

I’m so so sorry, op. I wish your whole family strength as you confront this tremendous loss. I really am very sorry. Xx

So sorry to read this, OP. Wishing you all the strength you need.

I am so sorry for your loss, condolences and best wishes to you all during this time.

I am so sorry for your loss. 36 is too young for both of you. 😥

With heartfelt condolences to you and yours on the loss of an adored husband, father, son and son in law. ❤️

I am so very sorry for you all sending love