to think it is polite to ask first?

[Brownthosebrownonionsbrown]

Fuming

BF (few months relationship) invited me over to his for a meal, home made thai curry, so far so good. He plated it up in the kitchen and brought the food to me with all of the curry and sauce on top of the rice, when I like to have them side by side and have some clean rice as a palate cleanser.

Its just good manners and basic rice etiquette to ask first. I cannot believe I was dating such a neanderthal. He even tried to gas light me, saying that it doesn't make any difference and basically trying to invalidate my feelings and lived experience.

Eugh men

It’s a joke thread.

Oh 😂I thought we had reached new levels of insanity.

How do you cope in restaurants?

Totally agree @Brownthosebrownonionsbrown apart from anything else the curry and rice were touching on the same plate. I think you need to LTB.

Palate cleanser?

wtf, are you Hyacinth Bucket??😂

You need to get a life.

😁

You sound like an overfussy entitled pain in the neck. If a man complained about how his food was served he would be rightly lambasted.

Some clean rice as a palate cleanser?! That sounds deeply bizarre to me. And surely some of the rice didn't have sauce on it?
I bet he'll think twice before cooking for you again!
I wouldn't care tbh.

LTB

I would be ecstatic if someone had made me Thai curry and wouldn't care where the rice was on the plate!

Sorry, but when I read “Fuming,” I was… not expecting this 😂😂😂

Gaslight over a curry… 🤣🤣🤣

I always plate my homemade curry and rice side by side, just neatly touching…

As soon as DH is presented with it he gets his fork and mixes it all together like a cement mixer! Unbelievable! 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

The only food my husband ever "cooked" was a microwave curry which he mixed completely together. When I was surprised, he denied mixing it and said it came like that. I later looked at the box and found he lied.

You sound like someone with no sense of humour 😘

LTB

I would always check! DH hates his curry on top of the rice, prefers them side by side however I like it all mixed up together!

It's one of those things you learn about each other as you go along 🙂

This can’t be real. You sound insane.

Surely this is a joke/ for attention post?

Don't noodle the poor guy over it

He should use a sausage as a breakwater.

Why does the man need a chaperone? Is OP going to do something untoward in her rice etiquette fuelled rage?

I don't like my curry covering my rice either OP.
YANBU. Your post made me laugh.
You forgot that you have to put LIGHTHEARTED!!! on posts now for the posters who think all posts must be serious and worthy/have no reading comprehension 🥱🙄

I think this counts an emotional abuse. Have you tried the Freedom programme?