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To ask what you think of Meghan and Harry's "bump dance" video?

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comeandhaveteawithme · 05/06/2025 11:18

To mark Lilibet's 4th birthday, they've uploaded this video. I think it's cute and fun but the usual haters are out in force.

She clearly has a monitor on under her dress but people are claiming it's a pillow, and people are also claiming it's not possible to dance like that while heavily pregnant (it totally is, if you're in good shape)

Also the horrible comments from men saying she must have got a lot of practice in, giving lap dances on yachts

Don't really know what people's problem is with these two tbh.

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AcquadiP · 06/06/2025 23:25

It set my teeth on edge. It was utterly cringe.

I felt embarrassed for her. I felt embarrassed for both of them. It's difficult to imagine why they would release that spectacle for public consumption other than the usual motive:
"Look at me. Look at me. Look at me."

I pity their kids.

CoffeeCantata · 07/06/2025 07:48

AcquadiP · 06/06/2025 23:25

It set my teeth on edge. It was utterly cringe.

I felt embarrassed for her. I felt embarrassed for both of them. It's difficult to imagine why they would release that spectacle for public consumption other than the usual motive:
"Look at me. Look at me. Look at me."

I pity their kids.

So do I! They have no thought for the future of those poor children.

CoffeeCantata · 07/06/2025 07:50

HevenlyMeS · 06/06/2025 20:53

Completely Concur With You
My Thoughts Exactly
They're Not Hurting Anyone
God Bless You&Yours
Live & Let Live I Say
💚🌼💚

Ooh - but they've hurt a lot of people in the past few years!

And speak for yourself - the few seconds of that video that I saw definitely hurt my eyes and my sense of aesthetics. I wish I could un-see it...

CoffeeCantata · 07/06/2025 07:54

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 20:22

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 10:25
Ooh dear - someone got out of bed on the wrong side...
I hope the day gets better for you!
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Lol unlikely, 10 kids how the hell do you have time to rant on mumsnet!!!

Not guilty, Your Honour!

I think you must be mixing me up with someone else - I've only got 2 children. Just the thought of giving birth 10 times makes me faint away...

And I think I speak for a lot of us - it's always worth making time to rant on MN. Where would MN be without our rants?😂

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 07/06/2025 08:24

There’s so much out in the world at the moment to hate, wars, inequality, poverty, dangerous orange men in power to name but a few. Some of you should direct all this anger towards these things and not a couple sharing an innocuous video of some dancing.

Janiie · 07/06/2025 08:43

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 07/06/2025 08:24

There’s so much out in the world at the moment to hate, wars, inequality, poverty, dangerous orange men in power to name but a few. Some of you should direct all this anger towards these things and not a couple sharing an innocuous video of some dancing.

We can be concerned about hate, wars, inequality, poverty and 'orange men' while still saying this clip is utterly cringeworthy. I'm able to multi task it isn't one thought a day.

DipsyDee · 07/06/2025 08:59

Janiie · 07/06/2025 08:43

We can be concerned about hate, wars, inequality, poverty and 'orange men' while still saying this clip is utterly cringeworthy. I'm able to multi task it isn't one thought a day.

Isn’t this what women do multitask mentally and physically

HWDDHOH · 07/06/2025 09:16

comeandhaveteawithme · 05/06/2025 11:18

To mark Lilibet's 4th birthday, they've uploaded this video. I think it's cute and fun but the usual haters are out in force.

She clearly has a monitor on under her dress but people are claiming it's a pillow, and people are also claiming it's not possible to dance like that while heavily pregnant (it totally is, if you're in good shape)

Also the horrible comments from men saying she must have got a lot of practice in, giving lap dances on yachts

Don't really know what people's problem is with these two tbh.

seriously who gives a flying fuck about an over privileged man and his wife funded almost entirely by the tax uk citizens have paid - whether he inherited or not. Bin.

Bluedenimdoglover · 07/06/2025 10:09

Far more important things going on on the world to think about. Can't be bothered to look at it or anything else they put on line. He seems happy enough with his little family.

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 07/06/2025 10:29

Why do people give a shit about this video? Sad empty lives.

And yes I am posting on this thread in amazement at the pitifuls on here bitching about it.

CurlewKate · 07/06/2025 10:48

One of the joys of thinking they are all universally awful is that you can enjoy all the shenanigans as a spectator sport. The Cambridges have much better clothes to look at but are much duller. The Sussexes generally wear much duller clothes but do more bizarre things to look at. Both generate andmiration and opprobrium out of proportion to their behaviour. It all adds to the gaiety of nations.

Minervano1 · 07/06/2025 11:55

Genuinely, this is a horrible thread. Created for the best reasons and I wholeheartedly support the OP for doing so.
I met Harry in Afghanistan and he was a brilliant person. Kind, honest, funny, clever and although I out-ranked him, he clearly behaved in a similar fashion to all of the people he had under his command.
This bitter cruelty is disappointing.

Janiie · 07/06/2025 11:55

Bluedenimdoglover · 07/06/2025 10:09

Far more important things going on on the world to think about. Can't be bothered to look at it or anything else they put on line. He seems happy enough with his little family.

'Far more important things going on in the world' yet here you are commenting on a thread a about them Grin.

DipsyDee · 07/06/2025 11:57

Minervano1 · 07/06/2025 11:55

Genuinely, this is a horrible thread. Created for the best reasons and I wholeheartedly support the OP for doing so.
I met Harry in Afghanistan and he was a brilliant person. Kind, honest, funny, clever and although I out-ranked him, he clearly behaved in a similar fashion to all of the people he had under his command.
This bitter cruelty is disappointing.

But what happened afterwards to make him change so?

Janiie · 07/06/2025 11:59

CurlewKate · 07/06/2025 10:48

One of the joys of thinking they are all universally awful is that you can enjoy all the shenanigans as a spectator sport. The Cambridges have much better clothes to look at but are much duller. The Sussexes generally wear much duller clothes but do more bizarre things to look at. Both generate andmiration and opprobrium out of proportion to their behaviour. It all adds to the gaiety of nations.

I don't think the Wales' blab to anyone who'll pay that the RF is awful do they? I don't think they complain about intrusion then write books revealing other people's personal experiences without their consent do they?

It has nothing to do with clothes. Harold wanted to do as he liked, have a Sussex Royal USA! and was told no.

He has been sulking and attention seeking ever since

Janiie · 07/06/2025 12:00

DipsyDee · 07/06/2025 11:57

But what happened afterwards to make him change so?

He was told no. Probably for the first time in his pampered life.

CurlewKate · 07/06/2025 12:11

Janiie · 07/06/2025 11:59

I don't think the Wales' blab to anyone who'll pay that the RF is awful do they? I don't think they complain about intrusion then write books revealing other people's personal experiences without their consent do they?

It has nothing to do with clothes. Harold wanted to do as he liked, have a Sussex Royal USA! and was told no.

He has been sulking and attention seeking ever since

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@JaniieI was saying why I like following these threads. Not why anyone else might.

SerafinasGoose · 07/06/2025 12:14

Witness the: 'They are constantly in our faces!' 'They just won't go away!' bleating on this thread.

This couple are not constantly in my face, for one. As far as I know nobody's still talking about them and I'd be hard-pushed to find an outlet in which to read about them. They are long gone. Quite easy to ignore topics that don't interest you: they just disappear into the cyber-ether. It doesn't require effort.

The only time I ever see mention of this couple is when people persist in posting it on AIBU instead of its tedious designated MN board. Bullying is an ugly look. I have no desire to witness it.

CurlewKate · 07/06/2025 12:49

SerafinasGoose · 07/06/2025 12:14

Witness the: 'They are constantly in our faces!' 'They just won't go away!' bleating on this thread.

This couple are not constantly in my face, for one. As far as I know nobody's still talking about them and I'd be hard-pushed to find an outlet in which to read about them. They are long gone. Quite easy to ignore topics that don't interest you: they just disappear into the cyber-ether. It doesn't require effort.

The only time I ever see mention of this couple is when people persist in posting it on AIBU instead of its tedious designated MN board. Bullying is an ugly look. I have no desire to witness it.

Yep, me too. As I said earlier, I used to get some stuff about them on X, but now I’ve ditched Elon, the only place I hear anything about them is when I click on a thread on here. Which I often do because I am a a glutton for gossip!

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 07/06/2025 13:22

Janiie · 07/06/2025 08:43

We can be concerned about hate, wars, inequality, poverty and 'orange men' while still saying this clip is utterly cringeworthy. I'm able to multi task it isn't one thought a day.

can you? I’m surprised. You seem so full of disgust for them both it feels like there is not enough room for anything else.

MyLimeGuide · 07/06/2025 13:33

CoffeeCantata · 07/06/2025 07:54

MyLimeGuide · Yesterday 20:22

CoffeeCantata · Yesterday 10:25
Ooh dear - someone got out of bed on the wrong side...
I hope the day gets better for you!
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Lol unlikely, 10 kids how the hell do you have time to rant on mumsnet!!!

Not guilty, Your Honour!

I think you must be mixing me up with someone else - I've only got 2 children. Just the thought of giving birth 10 times makes me faint away...

And I think I speak for a lot of us - it's always worth making time to rant on MN. Where would MN be without our rants?😂

Apologies if I got you muddled up with another poster 😣xx

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 07/06/2025 13:35

The people who love the royals (whichever ones) are as weird as the people who hate them. I'd ditch of the lot of them, partly because they're anachronism, but also because they can't even seem to get being an anachronism right any more. If we must have royalty, they could at least show a little dignity by largely shutting up, looking a bit stately and waving, instead of courting tabloid gossip and bitching about each other. And twerking, apparently.

x2boys · 07/06/2025 13:38

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 07/06/2025 13:35

The people who love the royals (whichever ones) are as weird as the people who hate them. I'd ditch of the lot of them, partly because they're anachronism, but also because they can't even seem to get being an anachronism right any more. If we must have royalty, they could at least show a little dignity by largely shutting up, looking a bit stately and waving, instead of courting tabloid gossip and bitching about each other. And twerking, apparently.

I would happily do away with the royal family too but H&M are not working Royals anymore so they can do what they want.

DipsyDee · 07/06/2025 13:43

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 07/06/2025 13:22

can you? I’m surprised. You seem so full of disgust for them both it feels like there is not enough room for anything else.

Opinions are not disgust and everyone is entitled to one whether you agree or not

Janiie · 07/06/2025 13:44

Missohnoyoubetterdont · 07/06/2025 13:22

can you? I’m surprised. You seem so full of disgust for them both it feels like there is not enough room for anything else.

I'm not full of disgust for them at all, I just find them ridiculous and a mass of contradictions. Entertaining for all the wrong reasons.