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Nigel Farage on abortions- slippery slope?

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Ph2028 · 28/05/2025 01:13

Following the speech, Farage was also asked about his view on abortion limits. He replied that he was pro-choice but that it was "utterly ludicrous" for abortion to be allowed up to 24 weeks, when a hospital would "move heaven and earth" to help a baby born at 22 weeks survive.

Aibu to think it may be a slippery slope to reducing the number of weeks until it is effectively banned...

Anyway it's a bit of a non issue on Nigel's part given nearly 94% of reported abortions happen before two and a half months of pregnancy.so very few abortions happen at 24 weeks.

Now i remember why I requested a tubal ligation when I was pregnant with first baby as I didn't want anymore in any circumstances. It was predictably denied so dh got a vasectomy instead.

OP posts:
MattCauthon · 28/05/2025 11:30

scatterolight · 28/05/2025 08:59

We don't have the death penalty in this country because of the outlier possibility that someone innocent might be executed. Even in an age of DNA, copious CCTV and digital footprints it's still thought not worth the risk that one life might be unjustly taken.

Yet the majority on here think it perfectly fine to allow abortion up to birth because no mother would EVER chose this due to less than scrupulous reasons. There would never be a mother with a chaotic life, addictions, domestic issues, mental health problems, or any other problem that would mean she'd choose to "abort" a perfectly healthy baby at 40 weeks. When it comes to abortion the whole "all life is sacred / one innocent is too many", shtick goes out the window.

As people have pointed out you can have a late term abortion for medical reasons ANYWAY. And just because YOU personally would never abort a 40 week old healthy baby doesn't mean there wouldn't be someone who would given the chance. A horrific evil.

Women seem to have a real issue with clear moral thinking around abortion. It is enormously depressing.

Actually, the argument against the death penalty is way more complex than that.

Issues include:

1 The possibility that someone innocent might be executed (has happened)
2 The absolute knowledge that death penalty sentences are NEVER carried out consistently. The age, sex, race of both victim and perpetrator play a huge role in the liklihood of the death penalty being given. Ditto the perceived motive.
3 the lack of consistency applies equally to the legal system: the skill, personality, age, race, sex of the lawyers and judges and juries involved

Then there's also the fact that for many people the moral imperative that we don't murder sentient, self aware humans. I personally, am fine with the death penalty in theory but I get that a lot o fpeople aren't comfortale with it. But I will never support the death penalty because of the three points above.

WombForTwo · 28/05/2025 11:33

beAsensible1 · 28/05/2025 11:29

Well no because pregnancy/baby is a punishment for wayward harlots.

they should be left to struggle in penury as a consequence of their unmarried sex. And if they’re married the punishment for being poor.

im sure they argue against universal free school dinners as other peoples children aren’t their problem.

it would be more believable if they were all bleeding hearts who adopted 5 children with complex needs. but they’re just run of the mill judgement merchants mired in the Madonna/whore concept of womanhood

They’re pro birth, not pro life then. Or anti-woman. Whichever way you want to spin it to be honest

Riaanna · 28/05/2025 11:35

As usual these threads are full of people who know nothing.

Abortion over 24 weeks is exceptionally rare and always involves a threat to the life of the mother or fetus. Once you have that 20 week scan where an issue is detected it will take months to confirm and no one is making that choice without being certain. It’s a terrifying horrific situation for any woman and anyone judging or thinking they have even a tiny right to express an opinion should get in the sea.

Nominative · 28/05/2025 11:38

jljlj · 28/05/2025 11:09

I didn't vote Reform, but Farage is right on this. Aborting a non-ill baby at almost 24 weeks is actually hideous and really does constitute murder of a formed human being capable of surviving, which you will have to give birth to anyway - live or dead. Our abortion limits are the longest in Europe and we should consider whether we have it wrong.

I do support the right of women to get an abortion, for sure. I don't know what the limit should be, but more qualified people need to decide this - something in the region of 14-18 weeks perhaps, in the absence of serious medical issues for mum/baby. I would also support exceptions for abortions after that time for any kind of reason - but think that a panel of suitably qualified people ought to arbitrate on that.

Farage isn't wrong though.

What about the "non-ill" babies of mothers who will be made seriously ill or even die by having to continue the pregnancy? How about rape victims, particularly children? It's certainly not murder on any count, given that you can only murder someone who is a legal person, and a foetus is not.

The reality is that the number of abortions that happen after 18/20 weeks is tiny, and the vast majority relate to babies with severe problems that have only just been detected. What actual evidence do you have that this is an issue which we need to fix?

CurlewKate · 28/05/2025 11:43

It’s also important to remember that you can’t ban abortion. You can only ban safe abortion.

DontTouchRoach · 28/05/2025 11:46

Vaxtable · 28/05/2025 01:42

It’s his thoughts on the matter, he’s allowed them, and actually he’s not wrong is he? They do look to save babies earlier now, they can survive at less than 24 weeks.

Personally I think that with medical advances it should be reduced to 20 weeks, but it is what it is at the moment and that’s my personal opinion, which I am allowed as is Farage.

I don’t see it as a slippery slope to stopping terminations at all

It’s his thoughts on the matter, he’s allowed them

Nobody's saying he isn't allowed to have thoughts on things, but he is the leader of a political party so clearly any views he expresses are relevant to that party's policy direction, and to voters.

Therefore they can, and should, be discussed and criticised and debated.

If Keir Starmer or Kemi Badenoch said 'You know, my personal view on abortion is that we should perform far more abortions than we currently do, and we should do them at any time in a pregnancy right up until the due date' I'm fairly sure you wouldn't be saying 'Well, he's allowed to hold that view, it's just his personal opinion'. You would be wondering about the potential influence of that view on party policy and you would probably be concerned that it might be the slippery slope to changes you're vehemently opposed to.

EasternStandard · 28/05/2025 11:52

minnienono · 28/05/2025 11:20

For medical reasons the later cut off is essential and separate

I’d keep that separate too and look at timing for non medical.

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 11:55

CurlewKate · 28/05/2025 11:43

It’s also important to remember that you can’t ban abortion. You can only ban safe abortion.

This.

TheSwarm · 28/05/2025 11:59

EasternStandard · 28/05/2025 11:52

I’d keep that separate too and look at timing for non medical.

If you think that you should have lower limits for "non-medical" abortion than what does that achieve? Do you think you then turn all these women into happy, capable mothers?

What you are actually advocating for is forcing women to give birth against their consent.

Can you imagine how horrific that is, and can you understand that laws like that don't actually stop abortions, they just stop legal and - crucially - safe abortions?

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 12:01

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 11:01

@OutandAboutMum1821 telling that you haven't given an answer.

EasternStandard · 28/05/2025 12:10

TheSwarm · 28/05/2025 11:59

If you think that you should have lower limits for "non-medical" abortion than what does that achieve? Do you think you then turn all these women into happy, capable mothers?

What you are actually advocating for is forcing women to give birth against their consent.

Can you imagine how horrific that is, and can you understand that laws like that don't actually stop abortions, they just stop legal and - crucially - safe abortions?

Edited

Why is the current timing outside of that to you?

jljlj · 28/05/2025 12:13

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 11:22

No it’s not murder, don’t be so ridiculous. Is there any evidence whatsoever of women choosing to wait until 23 weeks to have a termination just for the hell of it? Or trying to get a termination later than that?

Before abortion was lawful women still had them and doctors performed them (for rich women who could afford it). Just not legally or officially. That will still happen if you ban abortions. It will just mean that those who can’t afford to pay will resort to unsafe methods to rid themselves of the pregnancy. It won’t mean an influx of healthy newborn babies ready to be adopted by infertile couples (a total fantasy that’s very out of touch with the realities of adoption).

No it’s not murder, don’t be so ridiculous - yes it is - killing a human being that's capable of living alone is murder. And I'm referring to near 24 weeks clearly.

Is there any evidence whatsoever of women choosing to wait until 23 weeks to have a termination just for the hell of it? Or trying to get a termination later than that? - I don't know, but if that's the case, then there will be no problem if the limit drops to 20 weeks (or similar).

Before abortion was lawful women still had them and doctors performed them (for rich women who could afford it). Just not legally or officially. That will still happen if you ban abortions. It will just mean that those who can’t afford to pay will resort to unsafe methods to rid themselves of the pregnancy. It won’t mean an influx of healthy newborn babies ready to be adopted by infertile couples (a total fantasy that’s very out of touch with the realities of adoption). I've clearly stated that I support abortion. I made no mention of banning it at all. I've made no mention of adoption. I am fully aware of the horrific realities of some adoptions.

KingJanie · 28/05/2025 12:20

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Youbutterbelieve · 28/05/2025 12:21

I sadly think given the state of women's rights in the US any discussion on abortion needs to be viewed with caution.

Dangermoo · 28/05/2025 12:23

Youbutterbelieve · 28/05/2025 12:21

I sadly think given the state of women's rights in the US any discussion on abortion needs to be viewed with caution.

Relevance to the UK is....?

placemats · 28/05/2025 12:27

vivainsomnia · 28/05/2025 10:46

It seems many posters are confused.

At the moment, it's possible to get an abortion up to 24 weeks without any reasons other than the woman doesn't want to give birth.

24 weeks was about the stage a baby could survive and therefore their right to life was considered above that of the woman's choice.

Now babies can survive at an early stage but women can still decide to end the pregnancy because she doesn't want to be pregnant.

Medical reasons is another matter. In instances where a baby's life outside the womb is impossible even with the help of medical technology, or doing so would come with pain or e tremely severe disability, the option to end the pregnancy is and would remain up to the point of delivery.

I personally do have an issue with the idea that a human life that could survive and live a healthy life is deemed less important than the wishes of a woman who doesn't want to be a mother or carry the baby for another few weeks.

Thank God the numbers are low but any number is one too many.

ETA Wrong post for comment. Apologies.

MattCauthon · 28/05/2025 12:31

@jljlj the thing is though: "killing a human being that's capable of living alone is murder"

A pre-term foetus is not a human being that's capable of living alone.

KingJanie · 28/05/2025 12:33

The arguments on this are so circular:

No women is aborting a healthy baby after 24 weeks...
Ok then clarifying that in law won't impact anyone.
But women must be protected!!
From what?
Doing something no one is doing??

If we all agreed aborting healthy babies after 24 weeks was horrific then we could discuss where the line is drawn, is this the right cut off for healthy babies and what about babies and mothers with life threatening conditions post 24 weeks. I'm sure there would be broad consensus in the population on this with the no limits at all people and the no abortion at all people being the fringe.

I always think the adoption is worse than death arguments are deeply weird and stupid.

So a newborn about to be adopted would be better off being killed than adopted then? Or does living become preferable to adoption only at that point?

Rainiac · 28/05/2025 12:33

For all those in the "but foetal abnormalities" crowd, there is a Bill currently on its 2nd reading in parliament to include things like cleft lip, cleft palate and clubfoot as reasons for termination up to 40 weeks. I know people with cleft lip/palate who live normal, happy, productive lives. That is killing a baby because of a non-life limiting disfigurement.

Farage is right & the limit should be reduced to viability or lower. Most happen in the first 9 weeks anyway, and we should endeavour to reduce that number by being stricter with teaching young women & girls the meaning and value of sex for them and only to have sex with men they'd like to have kids with.

I remember our sex ed at school in the 2000s was a cartoon video of a couple running around a bedroom naked tickling each other. It was perverted and not at all educational, including being mixed-sex and not giving enough space to discuss the unequal risk of sex for both men and women. Boys watching pornography on the playground from 12/13.

Evidently more access to contraception hasn't reduced the number of unwanted pregnancies. Men nowadays get what would have been marriage "benefits" without the commitment or responsibility. All liberalism/lax abortion & sex attitudes have done is removed the burden of responsibility from men and placed it on to women.

Reading the case against the sexual revolution by Louise Perry & reactionary feminism by Mary Harrington really changed my mind on this issue, and I am youngish (28) and not religious.

jljlj · 28/05/2025 12:35

MattCauthon · 28/05/2025 12:31

@jljlj the thing is though: "killing a human being that's capable of living alone is murder"

A pre-term foetus is not a human being that's capable of living alone.

Some babies do survive from 22-24 weeks. So I would consider it murder to terminate a foetus at that point. Excepting tfmr.

MattCauthon · 28/05/2025 12:35

"living alone" is the bit I'm disputing.

they need extensive medical intervention.

they also need, you know, a parent to care for them.

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 12:36

jljlj · 28/05/2025 12:35

Some babies do survive from 22-24 weeks. So I would consider it murder to terminate a foetus at that point. Excepting tfmr.

So it’s murder to kill a healthy 22 week fetus but not one with Down’s syndrome? Why is that the case precisely?

KingJanie · 28/05/2025 12:37

Rainiac · 28/05/2025 12:33

For all those in the "but foetal abnormalities" crowd, there is a Bill currently on its 2nd reading in parliament to include things like cleft lip, cleft palate and clubfoot as reasons for termination up to 40 weeks. I know people with cleft lip/palate who live normal, happy, productive lives. That is killing a baby because of a non-life limiting disfigurement.

Farage is right & the limit should be reduced to viability or lower. Most happen in the first 9 weeks anyway, and we should endeavour to reduce that number by being stricter with teaching young women & girls the meaning and value of sex for them and only to have sex with men they'd like to have kids with.

I remember our sex ed at school in the 2000s was a cartoon video of a couple running around a bedroom naked tickling each other. It was perverted and not at all educational, including being mixed-sex and not giving enough space to discuss the unequal risk of sex for both men and women. Boys watching pornography on the playground from 12/13.

Evidently more access to contraception hasn't reduced the number of unwanted pregnancies. Men nowadays get what would have been marriage "benefits" without the commitment or responsibility. All liberalism/lax abortion & sex attitudes have done is removed the burden of responsibility from men and placed it on to women.

Reading the case against the sexual revolution by Louise Perry & reactionary feminism by Mary Harrington really changed my mind on this issue, and I am youngish (28) and not religious.

Yep, the idea that the high rates of abortion are a huge win for women instead of a huge win for men is just blind insanity.

TheSwarm · 28/05/2025 12:38

jljlj · 28/05/2025 12:35

Some babies do survive from 22-24 weeks. So I would consider it murder to terminate a foetus at that point. Excepting tfmr.

Murder is the unlawful killing of another human being.

Legal abortion is not murder, no matter what you think. Using the word murder to describe legal abortion is just deliberately placing a term loaded with emotion and baggage on something which it should not be applied to.

thepariscrimefiles · 28/05/2025 12:39

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:44

Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes? Horrendous, not somebody I’d consider a role model. I’d rather be penniless with my baby than be her with her inanimate object she’s so proud of.

What inanimate object?

She wasn't proud of her abortion, she was grateful that she had the right to choose whether to continue a pregnancy to term. This was in 2020 when the US thankfully avoided a second Trump term which would have meant rolling back abortion rights.

Obviously, Trump is now back and the Supreme Court struck down Roe V Wade so individual states have the right to limit abortion rights as they wish. This is bad news for women and Nigel is a Trump acolyte.

Thankfully, abortion has never been a hot-button issue in the UK like it is in the US. With Farage and Reform in the ascendant, that may very well change.

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