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Nigel Farage on abortions- slippery slope?

571 replies

Ph2028 · 28/05/2025 01:13

Following the speech, Farage was also asked about his view on abortion limits. He replied that he was pro-choice but that it was "utterly ludicrous" for abortion to be allowed up to 24 weeks, when a hospital would "move heaven and earth" to help a baby born at 22 weeks survive.

Aibu to think it may be a slippery slope to reducing the number of weeks until it is effectively banned...

Anyway it's a bit of a non issue on Nigel's part given nearly 94% of reported abortions happen before two and a half months of pregnancy.so very few abortions happen at 24 weeks.

Now i remember why I requested a tubal ligation when I was pregnant with first baby as I didn't want anymore in any circumstances. It was predictably denied so dh got a vasectomy instead.

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Riaanna · 28/05/2025 10:36

Vaxtable · 28/05/2025 01:42

It’s his thoughts on the matter, he’s allowed them, and actually he’s not wrong is he? They do look to save babies earlier now, they can survive at less than 24 weeks.

Personally I think that with medical advances it should be reduced to 20 weeks, but it is what it is at the moment and that’s my personal opinion, which I am allowed as is Farage.

I don’t see it as a slippery slope to stopping terminations at all

What happens if an anomaly incompatible with life is identified at 20 weeks? Because that is the optimal gestation for things like the heart to be scanned.

CurlewKate · 28/05/2025 10:36

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:30

But minimising and trivialising abortion is I think making some lump it into the same category as contraception, which it absolutely isn’t.

In terms of ‘policing’ women, then why on earth have any laws or limits on anything as a society? Why ‘police’ anybody about anything, just remove the lot? Is that a wise move?

Ah. Backtracking from the “openly boasting” I see!

Riaanna · 28/05/2025 10:38

DurinsBane · 28/05/2025 06:11

just under 40 weeks ok?

Yes because it’s exceptional and always medical.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:39

CurlewKate · 28/05/2025 10:36

Ah. Backtracking from the “openly boasting” I see!

Nope, I’ve heard the lot. I do know what I’ve heard you know 😂

Dangermoo · 28/05/2025 10:40

Digdongdoo · 28/05/2025 10:36

Tell that to America...

I will when it happens, but it won't.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:44

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 10:27

Which celebrities have "boasted" about having abortions?

Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes? Horrendous, not somebody I’d consider a role model. I’d rather be penniless with my baby than be her with her inanimate object she’s so proud of.

Snickersnack1 · 28/05/2025 10:45

Why is he choosing this medical issue to comment on?

Plenty of other medical issues ripe for debate.The treatment of obesity on the NHS. The IVF postcode lottery. Electroconvulsive therapy. The frequency and selection criteria for cancer screening. Social prescriptions.

Why is he picking on this one issue? tWhen there are so many others he could be running with? So many other areas that we could disagree on? Why choose the one area that has the potentially huge impact on women’s rights and freedoms?

I’ll say it again. He’s a dangerous man.

vivainsomnia · 28/05/2025 10:46

It seems many posters are confused.

At the moment, it's possible to get an abortion up to 24 weeks without any reasons other than the woman doesn't want to give birth.

24 weeks was about the stage a baby could survive and therefore their right to life was considered above that of the woman's choice.

Now babies can survive at an early stage but women can still decide to end the pregnancy because she doesn't want to be pregnant.

Medical reasons is another matter. In instances where a baby's life outside the womb is impossible even with the help of medical technology, or doing so would come with pain or e tremely severe disability, the option to end the pregnancy is and would remain up to the point of delivery.

I personally do have an issue with the idea that a human life that could survive and live a healthy life is deemed less important than the wishes of a woman who doesn't want to be a mother or carry the baby for another few weeks.

Thank God the numbers are low but any number is one too many.

Digdongdoo · 28/05/2025 10:46

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:44

Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes? Horrendous, not somebody I’d consider a role model. I’d rather be penniless with my baby than be her with her inanimate object she’s so proud of.

She didn't boast about an abortion. She expressed gratitude for the right to choose.

Dangermoo · 28/05/2025 10:49

Dangermoo · 28/05/2025 10:40

I will when it happens, but it won't.

Just to be clear..why is the USA's stance on abortion relevant to what Farage is saying? There are several hyperbolic posts on here, already slamming Farage's opinion, just because it's him. Now these are posters who no doubt talk about Reform voters lacking in critical thinking skills (arrogant). How about finding one's own critical thinking and applying it to this debate. Attack the point not the proponent.

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 10:50

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:44

Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes? Horrendous, not somebody I’d consider a role model. I’d rather be penniless with my baby than be her with her inanimate object she’s so proud of.

What inanimate object? You do realise that MW lives in a country where access to abortion is not guaranteed and the experience of that is very different to living in the UK. She said it to raise awareness and she was also pregnant when she said it - she has two children. You’re projecting your own feelings about your own children onto this issue which is one of basic human rights for women. And it’s very easy to say that you’d rather have your baby and be penniless when you don’t have to live that reality yourself. Bringing a child into abject poverty isn’t always the best choice anyway.

Cherrytree86 · 28/05/2025 10:54

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:44

Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes? Horrendous, not somebody I’d consider a role model. I’d rather be penniless with my baby than be her with her inanimate object she’s so proud of.

@OutandAboutMum1821

that’s you. Plenty of other women would rather be in the position she’s in now. She’s obviously pleased with her decision…can’t you just be happy for her?

RaininSummer · 28/05/2025 10:55

I agree that 24 weeks is too late outside of fire medical prognoses for baby or mother. Don't like to agree with Mr F though.

DomPom47 · 28/05/2025 10:55

When these politicians talk sadly some people just take them at face value. Most abortions do not happen at 22-24 weeks and when they do it is due to complications. Wish they would support their views with statistics. I think it’s not even 0.01% of abortions that take place at this mark. I have a friend who works with women who have high risk pregnancies.

ThejoyofNC · 28/05/2025 10:56

Riaanna · 28/05/2025 10:38

Yes because it’s exceptional and always medical.

Can you give a medical (or in fact any at all) reason to "terminate" a baby at 40 weeks?

Digdongdoo · 28/05/2025 10:57

DomPom47 · 28/05/2025 10:55

When these politicians talk sadly some people just take them at face value. Most abortions do not happen at 22-24 weeks and when they do it is due to complications. Wish they would support their views with statistics. I think it’s not even 0.01% of abortions that take place at this mark. I have a friend who works with women who have high risk pregnancies.

Exactly. 98% happen by the 17th week. Staggeringly few abortions are happening anywhere near 24 weeks. It's an imagined problem.

MattCauthon · 28/05/2025 10:57

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 10:27

Which celebrities have "boasted" about having abortions?

Yeah, it's more lack of understanding. Acknowledging an abortion. Expressing gratitude it was possible, as well as relief. Celebrating the life you live as a result... thse are not "boasts".

The ridiculously overhyped language people use to describe women who choose to have abortions is so ridiculous.

Thegreyhound · 28/05/2025 10:57

I don’t think male politicians should be allowed to air their views on this subject full stop.

The law is fine as it is. The fact there is an effort to ‘start a debate’ is very worrying. There is nothing to debate.

Abortions are nothing to be ashamed of. Michelle Williams can say what she wants.

beAsensible1 · 28/05/2025 10:57

Glowingup · 28/05/2025 09:04

Adoption these days is always open meaning that the child knows they are adopted and have access to details about their birth family. The idea that it’s a simple solution to just have your baby adopted if you don’t want it is ludicrous. First, you have to go through the pregnancy. As well as the physical trauma of that (if it’s unwanted) you will also have your family, friends, neighbours, colleagues, strangers on the street knowing you are pregnant, probably congratulating you, awkward conversations if you say you’re not keeping it, extreme social stigma (“what sort of a woman gives up her baby”), attempts at changing your mind (“I will buy you a house if you keep the baby, it’s my grandchild”), other members of the family wanting to keep in touch with the baby post-adoption (and likely succeeding). Oh and then when the child is older, contact from the child and questions about how you could give them up etc.

It’s the shittest idea ever and only worked in the past because young girls concealed their pregnancy, were sent away to give birth and the child was not told they were adopted. It just doesn’t work in today’s society.

It’s such a nonsense to even present it as an option with the dearth of foster carers and the number of children languishing in care.

let alone the attitude towards adoption on here on a normal day. Just a bunch of lies with no basis in day to day realities.

MattCauthon · 28/05/2025 10:59

ThejoyofNC · 28/05/2025 10:56

Can you give a medical (or in fact any at all) reason to "terminate" a baby at 40 weeks?

oh ffs. At 40 weeks, a baby is born. If it's very unwell, it dies and does not receive medical care - you can consider that an abortion if you want but most people just think it's a tragedy. No one swans into a hospital and asks for an abortion at their due date because they've changed their mind. Be realistic.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 11:00

Digdongdoo · 28/05/2025 10:35

It is in the same category. It is all essential women's healthcare.
You do what you want, campaign for better provisions of the bits you prefer by all means, but don't take rights away from other women.

It shouldn’t be. I disagree that optional abortion are ‘essential healthcare’. That’s just a nice, polite, sanitary term for glossing over murdering foetuses. True healthcare is about preserving and saving life, which is far from this (unless Mum/baby would definitely die without one).

Final thoughts- if this goes to a national vote, I will be voting to lower the limit from 24 weeks. I would also vote to back any doctor/other medical professional who morally objects to performing this so-called healthcare, they should have every right to refuse. Same with assisted dying. I’d love to know how many people who are so pro- abortions or assisted dying would actually be prepared to perform them themselves?

Sofiewoo · 28/05/2025 11:00

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:44

Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes? Horrendous, not somebody I’d consider a role model. I’d rather be penniless with my baby than be her with her inanimate object she’s so proud of.

What is wrong with you? You’re such a nasty person.

For everyone else, these are the disgusting and apparently boastful worlds.

"I wouldn't have been able to do this without employing a woman's right to choose," she said. "To choose when to have my children, and with whom."

"I am grateful to live in a moment in our society where choice exists, because as girls and women, things can happen to our bodies that are not our choice,"

PlutoCat · 28/05/2025 11:01

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 10:44

Michelle Williams at the Golden Globes? Horrendous, not somebody I’d consider a role model. I’d rather be penniless with my baby than be her with her inanimate object she’s so proud of.

Can you point out to me where she boasted?

www.cnn.com/2020/01/05/entertainment/michelle-williams-golden-globes-2020-speech

Digdongdoo · 28/05/2025 11:01

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/05/2025 11:00

It shouldn’t be. I disagree that optional abortion are ‘essential healthcare’. That’s just a nice, polite, sanitary term for glossing over murdering foetuses. True healthcare is about preserving and saving life, which is far from this (unless Mum/baby would definitely die without one).

Final thoughts- if this goes to a national vote, I will be voting to lower the limit from 24 weeks. I would also vote to back any doctor/other medical professional who morally objects to performing this so-called healthcare, they should have every right to refuse. Same with assisted dying. I’d love to know how many people who are so pro- abortions or assisted dying would actually be prepared to perform them themselves?

It isn't possible to murder a foetus.

MrsSkylerWhite · 28/05/2025 11:01

ThejoyofNC · 28/05/2025 10:56

Can you give a medical (or in fact any at all) reason to "terminate" a baby at 40 weeks?

This.

Surely (assuming the mother has received basic medical care during pregnancy) any medical conditions would be identified long before 40 weeks.

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