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To want to know why Imogen Poots broke up with James Norton

328 replies

ThatNimblePeer · 27/05/2025 19:52

Obviously absolutely none of my business, but I don’t think anyone in my real life knows who these people are, so I’m sharing it here in case anyone shares my mini obsession.

Imogen Poots is a gorgeous 35 year old British actress who was engaged to James Norton (I’m guessing I don’t need to explain here who he is), they broke up in the last year or so and he’s indicated in interviews that it wasn’t his choice.

She’s suggested in past interviews that she wants children (which JN has also said he does). Definitely none of my business - but honestly if you were a 35 year old woman who wants kids and you were engaged to JAMES NORTON, would you break up with him?

I know AIBU.

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:18
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I've finally read through the thread after dropping off last night

Some of you are ruining the vibe 😄 - god forbid a woman indulge in some light gossip, judgement and lust of an evening

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:25

itiswhatitishey · 27/05/2025 23:00

I get the feeling he’s a bit vanilla in bed

This is what I think

Very lazy - a bottom for sure

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:27

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 27/05/2025 21:59

Also I remember seeing Jamie Dornan on Celebrity Gogglebox once and he didn't watch strictly and had no idea who Dave Arch and his orchestra is. Whoever was with him had to explain it all.

We certainly wouldn't be comparable on Saturday nights between September and Christmas.

Now this...

I feel like he'd be a great summer fling then - good to travel with!

Then you'd have to dump him to fully enjoy cozy season - you'd just get sick of him trying to take you places every five mins

Hasnt watched strictly, eww

life is about balance - maybe a James & Jamie hybrid is what we need girl

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:30

Springtime43 · 27/05/2025 22:14

I still can’t understand why Louise left Jamie Redknapp!

He cheated and started a new family girl 😬

But she looks amazing - saw her on this morning, she's got a new song out

She'd give kris Jenner a run for her money, the way she's working!

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 28/05/2025 12:35
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@mumofoneAlonebutokay life is about balance - maybe a James & Jamie hybrid is what we need girl.

I like your thinking. But don't forget the cardi 😆

wizzbitt · 28/05/2025 12:35

I used to see him circa 2016 in Peckham Rye/East Dulwich where I assumed he lived when I was on mat leave. I was clearly looking my best 😪 so knew it was only a matter of time before he took me (and my then baby) away from it all. Unfortunately it never happened. And NOW look where he is! Your loss James, your loss 💅🏿

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:38

KimberleyClark · 28/05/2025 09:40

Leg crossing is preferable to man spreading imo.

This is true 😄

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:39

Cherrytree86 · 28/05/2025 11:55

@fumfuddle

long toenails and long fingernails on a man are so ick

Disgusted Nick Miller GIF by New Girl

I knew a guy who used to grow out the nail on his pinky fingers

CaptainMyCaptain · 28/05/2025 12:41

Tulipsontoast · 27/05/2025 20:12

Irl he crosses his legs and speaks well, and probably cycles in Islington and raves about his sourdough starter

My ideal man. Swoon.

Yrs. I'd be OK with that although I wouldn't want to live in Islington.

TomatoSandwiches · 28/05/2025 12:45

I've not seen him in anything but he reminds me of a hairer Jamie Oliver.

Springtime43 · 28/05/2025 12:45

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:30

He cheated and started a new family girl 😬

But she looks amazing - saw her on this morning, she's got a new song out

She'd give kris Jenner a run for her money, the way she's working!

Ah, I thought she left him, and THEN he met someone new and started a family?

Americano75 · 28/05/2025 12:48

I've just finished The Trial of Christine Keeler and he's a cracking looking man. Their babies would have been gorgeous.

To want to know why Imogen Poots broke up with James Norton
mumofoneAlonebutokay · 28/05/2025 12:49

Springtime43 · 28/05/2025 12:45

Ah, I thought she left him, and THEN he met someone new and started a family?

Yeah, I should've made that clearer! It wasn't a Kyle walker situation 😅

Dangermoo · 28/05/2025 12:51

Hoolihan · 27/05/2025 20:10

My god he was so SO hot as Tommy Lee Royce. So hot. That's all I have to add.

He did that accent so well as well.

BIossomtoes · 28/05/2025 12:51

long toenails and long fingernails on a man are so ick

And sorted in about ten minutes.

Oldglasses · 28/05/2025 14:22

Hoolihan · 27/05/2025 20:10

My god he was so SO hot as Tommy Lee Royce. So hot. That's all I have to add.

Yup. He really was! Felt so wrong, but so right!

Notsosure1 · 28/05/2025 14:54

He looked pretty much exactly like he does every other day when he played Tommy Lee Royce. If you fancied him more bc he played a ‘bad boy’ the bad boy he played was a woman-hating rapist who tried to murder his own child. And ran over and beat up female police officers. (Among other things.)

How does that make him sexier to you?

viques · 28/05/2025 15:02

fumfuddle · 28/05/2025 10:20

wait until the shower scene and his disgusting long toenail! uurrgggh😁

Thanks for the warning. I will put my hands over my eyes! Gross toenails are my turn off, don’t care who they belong to.

mondaytosunday · 28/05/2025 15:04

For the same reason any 35 year old breaks up with their partner. They’ve fallen out of love.

HRTQueen · 28/05/2025 15:12

Notsosure1 · 28/05/2025 14:54

He looked pretty much exactly like he does every other day when he played Tommy Lee Royce. If you fancied him more bc he played a ‘bad boy’ the bad boy he played was a woman-hating rapist who tried to murder his own child. And ran over and beat up female police officers. (Among other things.)

How does that make him sexier to you?

I really cba to look at the psychology behind it

He is just hot as Tommy Lee Royce. Him saying 'ow do' made me swoon

fumfuddle · 28/05/2025 15:19

women do love a bad boy😁

ThatNimblePeer · 28/05/2025 15:32

fumfuddle · 28/05/2025 15:19

women do love a bad boy😁

Some women do, yeah. Personally, a murderous rapist does nothing for me.

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HRTQueen · 28/05/2025 15:34

ThatNimblePeer · 28/05/2025 15:32

Some women do, yeah. Personally, a murderous rapist does nothing for me.

Its an act ...

I am quite sure James Norton isn't really a murderous rapist

Notsosure1 · 28/05/2025 15:40

HRTQueen · 28/05/2025 15:12

I really cba to look at the psychology behind it

He is just hot as Tommy Lee Royce. Him saying 'ow do' made me swoon

But this is the point. This is a view taken by women and accepted by other women. I’m not on a crusade but it’s just interesting this is a thing - particularly now when there is so much physical, verbal and sexual violence aimed at women and portrayed against them in the media.

I’m not denying he’s sexually attractive - but it’s my point that his character spends most of the time being despicable to women and it seems to be a mainstream view that this makes him sexy to a lot of women. Women who no doubt would be calling the police and helplines if their daughters got mixed up with anyone remotely similar to him and would stand up and shout how vile his behaviour and general attitude to women is - and yet they freely admit they find him sexually attractive - so why is that?

And why no embarrassment at admitting they find him gorgeous as this deviant pervert? He isn’t wearing prosthetics or outlandishly different hair or anything as Tommy - it’s just the character he’s playing that makes him more attractive to these women, in this specific role.

Women liking a bit of rough or a bad boy is not new and is definitely a thing. But he’s so hideous to women - characters that we like in the series and feel great sympathy for - so again why do women find him dreamy without worrying about how that makes them look?

Anyone?

fumfuddle · 28/05/2025 15:44

I have no clue, prob just wanna shag him, nothing more long lasting than that, probably hormones😁