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To want to know why Imogen Poots broke up with James Norton

328 replies

ThatNimblePeer · 27/05/2025 19:52

Obviously absolutely none of my business, but I don’t think anyone in my real life knows who these people are, so I’m sharing it here in case anyone shares my mini obsession.

Imogen Poots is a gorgeous 35 year old British actress who was engaged to James Norton (I’m guessing I don’t need to explain here who he is), they broke up in the last year or so and he’s indicated in interviews that it wasn’t his choice.

She’s suggested in past interviews that she wants children (which JN has also said he does). Definitely none of my business - but honestly if you were a 35 year old woman who wants kids and you were engaged to JAMES NORTON, would you break up with him?

I know AIBU.

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Highfivemum · 27/05/2025 23:20

No idea where the comment “not a nice person” comes from. I have met him on a few occasions and he has comes across as polite friendly and very kind. Such a lovely chap

Discosaurus · 27/05/2025 23:20

Hwi · 27/05/2025 22:31

Religious? I just googled it - says 'catholic'. Very interesting branch of Catholicism, sleeps with women and parts ways with them? But what do I know...

Religion of sinners isn't it?!

He went to Ampleforth which might've been fairly traumatising, even in the early 00s.

SwedishEdith · 27/05/2025 23:20

He went to Ampleforth according to his Wikipedia entry. Is there seminary there for priests? I'm sure I went there on a school trip once as it's a really Catholic place. That would definitely influence you towards picking theology.

Neededa · 27/05/2025 23:41

interestingly (to me) I know EXACTLY who James Norton is but had to look up Imogen Poots.

IchBinPapst · 27/05/2025 23:46

Is Imogen Poots really only 35? I seem to have been watching her in things for absolutely ages. I first saw her in ‘Bouquet of Barbed Wire’ (which is one of the worst dramas I’ve ever seen, btw) and that seems like decades ago.

Considering how beautiful she is and all the things she’s been in since I’m surprised she’s not more of a household name.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 28/05/2025 00:28

He picks his nose and eats it. Disgusting habit.

(I entirely made this up, but it's about as likely to be true as any other answer on the thread.)

DreamTheMoors · 28/05/2025 00:31

MillieMoggie · 27/05/2025 21:00

I read something a while back but can't bloody find it now that he very much wanted to settle down and have kids but she really didn't as her career was going so well and she was working a lot in the USA, whereas he is more UK based. From what I can see she is still very USA based and is working consistently out there. That said the article I read may have been entirely made up and might be total rubbish.

I met him a couple of years back and he really was lovely. We had quite a good chat as we're both from Yorkshire. But that doesn't indicate what he might be like as a partner. I guess unless either of them speaks about it on the record nobody will really know.

I’m American.
If I was based in England and my lover (no matter how hot) was based in the US, and they wanted me to move to the US, that would be a definite deal breaker for me.
I’d never leave England for the US.
Not even for Malibu or Beverly Hills or any other classy US city.
England is far superior.
And I’ve never been to England.
But I live in the US.

IBelieveinSomething · 28/05/2025 00:45

he was very good in that thing about the Profumo affair. He was gay in that as well. But I am not sure he is gay. If he is i hope he is happily gay.

S0j0urn4r · 28/05/2025 00:48

So, he's available?...😉

Devianinc · 28/05/2025 00:53

JaneJeffer · 27/05/2025 20:04

It was the cardigan what done it

Or the poots

Goingawayistricky · 28/05/2025 00:55

S0j0urn4r · 28/05/2025 00:48

So, he's available?...😉

Yeah but the bar is set above beautiful, successful in a difficult field and less than 40.
I mean you could try and point out he needs to change type…

Speakeasy22 · 28/05/2025 01:18

He signed the open letter in support of trans rights (and against J K Rowling) after the Supreme Court ruling. I'm a JKR fan so went off him a bit when I heard that. Maybe his girlfriend did too?

Legend1 · 28/05/2025 01:32

Its good let your ambitions out early in the relationship.

viques · 28/05/2025 02:04

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 27/05/2025 21:46

Jamie dornan has an edge that Norton is missing!

I am currently rewatching The Fall , I had forgotten how twisty the plot is, brilliant stuff. Honestly, Jamie Dorian is phwar. Though of course I am only watching it to admire the twisty plot and to wonder how she got so many outfits into that tiny suitcase.

Tomatotater · 28/05/2025 07:05

Only a wealthy and privileged person would pay money to learn it and get a degree out of it - to evidence achievement and apparently intelligence.
I would imagine theology at Cambridge would be similar to other humanities/ social sciences at Cambridge. Would it be different if he'd studied Philosophy? It's a similar type of subject. Not to mention we're talking about an actor here. Does it matter if he's ' intelligent' or not? Most actors are privileged, because the vast majority go to drama school, and most are public school educated, which costs £££. Not to mention being able to afford to have months of unemployment. He's not unusual.

TheaBrandt1 · 28/05/2025 07:22

He must be intelligent to get into Cambridge full stop irrespective of what he reads there!

Cherrytree86 · 28/05/2025 09:23

IchBinPapst · 27/05/2025 23:46

Is Imogen Poots really only 35? I seem to have been watching her in things for absolutely ages. I first saw her in ‘Bouquet of Barbed Wire’ (which is one of the worst dramas I’ve ever seen, btw) and that seems like decades ago.

Considering how beautiful she is and all the things she’s been in since I’m surprised she’s not more of a household name.

@IchBinPapst

that remake of Bouquet of barbed wire was so bad it was good imo.
the ‘Paula’ storyline was such an unnecessary addition

KimberleyClark · 28/05/2025 09:40

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 27/05/2025 20:29

Its the leg crossing

Leg crossing is preferable to man spreading imo.

Newfigtree · 28/05/2025 10:07

I think the reason is Saleh Bakri.

fumfuddle · 28/05/2025 10:20

viques · 28/05/2025 02:04

I am currently rewatching The Fall , I had forgotten how twisty the plot is, brilliant stuff. Honestly, Jamie Dorian is phwar. Though of course I am only watching it to admire the twisty plot and to wonder how she got so many outfits into that tiny suitcase.

wait until the shower scene and his disgusting long toenail! uurrgggh😁

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 28/05/2025 11:07

Cherrytree86 · 28/05/2025 09:23

@IchBinPapst

that remake of Bouquet of barbed wire was so bad it was good imo.
the ‘Paula’ storyline was such an unnecessary addition

It was hysterical. Even though it wasn't meant to be a comedy it should have been billed as one.

Trevor Eve, who normally I quite like in stuff was hammier than an entire shoulder of gammon.

Cherrytree86 · 28/05/2025 11:53

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 28/05/2025 11:07

It was hysterical. Even though it wasn't meant to be a comedy it should have been billed as one.

Trevor Eve, who normally I quite like in stuff was hammier than an entire shoulder of gammon.

@AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta

yes! He was! There was a crying in the car scene he did which was absolutely unhinged

Cherrytree86 · 28/05/2025 11:55

fumfuddle · 28/05/2025 10:20

wait until the shower scene and his disgusting long toenail! uurrgggh😁

@fumfuddle

long toenails and long fingernails on a man are so ick

Notsosure1 · 28/05/2025 12:12

It’s so weird that ppl on mumsnet of all places are admitting to finding the police-murdering, woman-beating, child-murdering-wannabee rapist character of his so hot and sexually attractive. Not James Norton but James Norton as Tommy-Lee Royce. And there will be many stalwart “LTB!!!!’s” among them for men who don’t pay for meals on first dates, who look at porn, visit strip clubs, shout when they’re frustrated etc…

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