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To want to know why Imogen Poots broke up with James Norton

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ThatNimblePeer · 27/05/2025 19:52

Obviously absolutely none of my business, but I don’t think anyone in my real life knows who these people are, so I’m sharing it here in case anyone shares my mini obsession.

Imogen Poots is a gorgeous 35 year old British actress who was engaged to James Norton (I’m guessing I don’t need to explain here who he is), they broke up in the last year or so and he’s indicated in interviews that it wasn’t his choice.

She’s suggested in past interviews that she wants children (which JN has also said he does). Definitely none of my business - but honestly if you were a 35 year old woman who wants kids and you were engaged to JAMES NORTON, would you break up with him?

I know AIBU.

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70isaLimitNotaTarget · 20/06/2025 10:27

He could end up having Keith Allen as a FIL ...
Win Win there James Wink

Iloveacuppatea · 22/06/2025 08:44

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Thanks for the thoughtful response. I’m curious, what does ‘those pics were black grid’ mean?

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LouH1981 · 22/06/2025 20:20

I’m going to be honest, if those the photos of JN with LA were an accurate portrayal of how the night went, neither looked particularly happy.
They could, of course, just been a bit hacked off that their first date was being papped.

Back to IP, maybe she just got the ick. As hot as he is, we all know there is no going back after the ick.

Iloveacuppatea · 22/06/2025 22:19

Black grid means they are staged as they are set up by the actual celebrity!
i am not sure if it’s done for a bit of publicity if they have something coming out or to make it seem like they are dating. I don’t understand the celebrity world at all! Regardless, fancying someone from afar is never the same as being with them in reality as we can never imagine any flaws x

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Katflapkit · 01/08/2025 03:04

I fancied him like mad in McMaffia K

ThatNimblePeer · 09/08/2025 16:29

YesTonightJosephine · 09/08/2025 16:00

Edited

Thanks for posting! That’s an interesting interview. Interesting that he’s now saying he doesn’t feel the stress of doing ‘A Little Life’ was a factor in the split, previously he’d seemed to imply that it was, but maybe that was just how the interviewer presented the quote.

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YesTonightJosephine · 09/08/2025 16:00

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Thank you. I really enjoyed reading that.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 09/08/2025 18:37

My DD really has the hots for James Norton but seeing those photos of him in pleather shiney trousers/ pink cardigan/ flouncy pink shirt/ earring / has made her re-evaluate
The "All my penis work is my own" quote nearly saved him but nope , he;s Off Her List now .

(Terribly shallow young woman my daughter Wink )

ThatNimblePeer · 09/08/2025 19:15

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 09/08/2025 18:37

My DD really has the hots for James Norton but seeing those photos of him in pleather shiney trousers/ pink cardigan/ flouncy pink shirt/ earring / has made her re-evaluate
The "All my penis work is my own" quote nearly saved him but nope , he;s Off Her List now .

(Terribly shallow young woman my daughter Wink )

Personal taste I guess. Personally I’m more put off by men who think their masculinity hinges on what they wear, being sheeplike conventional isn’t masculine to me, and I find men who are anxious about anything they perceive as ‘gay’ particularly tiresome.

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LittleBitofBread · 09/08/2025 19:23

I think the pics of him in pink and holding flowers are interesting. Are they trying to semaphore that he’s gay/bi (as has been raised on here)?
or maybe just deliberately playing against his tortured and/or violent roles like Tommy Lee Royce or his Little Life role.

ThatNimblePeer · 09/08/2025 19:29

LittleBitofBread · 09/08/2025 19:23

I think the pics of him in pink and holding flowers are interesting. Are they trying to semaphore that he’s gay/bi (as has been raised on here)?
or maybe just deliberately playing against his tortured and/or violent roles like Tommy Lee Royce or his Little Life role.

I think photoshoots like this are pretty standard for youngish male celebs at the moment. His Little Life/Bridgerton co-star Luke Thompson did a similar one wearing pink and holding flowers (scroll right) www.alexingramphoto.com/luke-thompson#0 I think it’s coming off the whole Harry Styles/Timothee Chalamet wave of male stars who find it cool to flirt with androgyny, not that there’s anything new about that. Ultimately he’s an actor/celebrity living in north London. If you want a North Sea oil rigger, you need to look elsewhere.

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User450877 · 09/08/2025 20:44

Oh wow - the Buddhism and the it’s all about the self and the journey of the self…argh! He sounds like he’s probably fairly dull IRL and that’s ok if that’s your cup of tea.

the pink cardie I could live with - I’m sure actors get put in so much stuff it’s all a costume to them.

otoh nice self awareness that at 40 he can still do kids unlike many women that age.

can’t wait for the conquest!!

PollyIndia · 09/08/2025 21:02

I’ve met him a few times and he’s absolutely lovely. So open and warm. I
mean I don’t know what he’s like as a boyfriend but he’s a genuinely lovely man based on what I know…

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 09/08/2025 22:29

ThatNimblePeer · 09/08/2025 19:15

Personal taste I guess. Personally I’m more put off by men who think their masculinity hinges on what they wear, being sheeplike conventional isn’t masculine to me, and I find men who are anxious about anything they perceive as ‘gay’ particularly tiresome.

My DD does not believe for one nanosecond that JN is gay but his choice of clothing ( I think the shiney pleather trousers did it ) !

The watch and cardigan are designer .
Maybe his agent is telling him "OK we've had TLR , lets see a softer side "

I think my DD would marry him tomorrrow if she got a chance Grin

YesTonightJosephine · 10/08/2025 20:42
james norton dancing GIF by MASTERPIECE | PBS

He did a talk at Glastonbury where he discussed the split with Imogen at length ... will see if I can find the link ...

Right, off to watch more GRANTCHESTER!

DataColour · 10/08/2025 23:14

He's been spotted on the set of Grantchester last week. Will he be reprising Sidney Chambers for the last series?!

LittleBitofBread · 11/08/2025 09:52

DataColour · 10/08/2025 23:14

He's been spotted on the set of Grantchester last week. Will he be reprising Sidney Chambers for the last series?!

Oh, I hope so! I used to love Grantchester, but it just wasn't the same after he left.

ThatNimblePeer · 11/08/2025 17:52

YesTonightJosephine · 11/08/2025 10:32

Here you go!

Some of the comments on the REDDIT post are quite interesting too ...

Link 1. James Norton @ Glastonbury '25 (Reddit Post)

Link 2. James Norton @ Glastonbury '25 / Evening Standard Article

HTH

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Thanks! Wow the Reddit comments are so unnecessarily bitchy in response to someone being unguarded and vulnerable… but I guess that’s Reddit lol (and the internet in general).

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BigfootSmallButtons · 11/08/2025 19:18

Fauxmoi is a cesspit.

SwedishEdith · 11/08/2025 20:01

His two upcoming projects sound great - the Guinness saga and the William the Conqueror one. Look forward to watching 🤓 James them.