She reads tattle and they’ve mentioned this thread - Not hard for her to find out she’s being spoken about on here. She makes accounts to comment on the stories she’s sells to the DM, so I’ve no doubt she’ll be all over here too.
I can’t comprehend anyone who is aware of her behaviour justifying/excusing it regardless of whether her husband had an affair or not. You don’t have to like her ex to feel outraged for what she’s done to her children.
Anyone defending her or writing it off as devastation for being left four years ago needs to give their head a wobble.
She was abusing him, he left.
She has made it her full time job to harass, stalk, disparage, punish and destroy him ever since.
She pretends to be destitute to con hard working people into giving her money that she will no doubt spend on her tweakments or shipping fish on dry ice across the country.
She refuses to work and expects others to fund her life. She has stated that she refuses to get a regular job, yet put in her court filing that Ioan should get a regular job to earn more money to give to her. He gives her $4.5 a month. She must be the only person on the planet who can’t survive on that.
I can’t even imagine what emotional state her kids are in - The few bits we’ve seen are horrific, god only knows what else she’s been doing.
She dragged the divorce and custody cases out and drained all the money they had - She could have settled and bought herself a house, but chose revenge instead. She e-mailed her friend saying she was purposely going to drag it out.
Her choices are not just bad, they are deliberately malicious.
If you’ve read the court documents, please point out where at any point - Just one thing that he’s done to harm or abuse her. If you’ve read the haven’t read them, I suggest you do!