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To think voting for assisted dying legalisation could be a huge mistake???

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MyLimeGuide · 14/05/2025 07:41

In Scotland they are voting to legalise assisted dying. Looking likely to pass. I am worried this will come to England now. Kier is already proving he doesn't care about old and disabled people so this scares me.
Obviously there are 2 sides but how can people be so ignorant? If passed this could be one of the biggest opportunity for corrupt evil behaviour of saving money on the NHS, care, people literally getting away murder, playing god! No not good. It's so scary.

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:14

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:04

Exactly and if they arent suffering that's not comparable to the assisted dying bill which is for people in immense suffering with months to live.

You are coming across as being deliberately obtuse. The report demonstrated that abusers took the lives of their victims and passed it off as mercy killings ie to alleviate their suffering.

Therefore it is likely that abusers will use the bill to kill their partners.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:16

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:07

One report by one organisation is not homework. Listen to people from countries in Europe who already have this in place. And by listen I dont mean simply seeking out the odd case that fits your narrative.

Yes, people have looked at what's happened in other countries hence the fear over the bill. In some countries they want to kill children, they kill dementia patients and people with mental illnesses.

DrPrunesqualer · 17/05/2025 20:20

Pigglingbland · 17/05/2025 20:13

Surely the whole point is for an individual to have a choice if confronted with a terminal illness & the likelihood of a traumatic, painful death. End of life care is severely underfunded & the reality is that for many illness, pain relief is not a given. Allowing assisted dying shouldn’t be made into a binary decision of it versus improving social, EOL & palliative care. Legalising assisted dying does not & shoukd not prevent the latter from being invested in and improving.

As for its misuse, why would any health professional ever offer it as a choice? It’s not a treatment option. It’s an individual & personal choice. Surely the belief that health professionals would suggest it is a complete misunderstanding of the whole concept. Offering it is a form of coercion. It’s not a treatment option. It would only come from the individual. And yes if their thinking includes not wishing to be a burden on others, then that’s their choice.
And the simplistic naivety that mental health conditions can be cured with antidepressants is additionally really unhelpful for the debate. If they worked why are so many people still on them? If they worked why is Treatment Resistant Depression so prevalent? The slow & painful erosion of the self, independence, ability to contribute & function in society, be reliant on benefits that nobody believes you are entitled to, along with the ensuing social difficulties that follow & that person cannot be allowed to end unrelieved misery & suffering humanely & legally is just wrong. Yes of course depression can be reactive to the diagnosis of a terminal illness. Surely the person should be given the legal right to have a dignified death at a time of their choosing rather than suffer not only the hell of the illness itself, but the additional pain of suffering mentally with that on top. Yes allow that person a chance to trial psychiatric treatment. But if that fails allow the person the choice to end their suffering in a humane & dignified way. And for their families be spared the trauma of suicide or criminal proceedings facilitating them to go to Dignitas etc.

It will be offered as a choice though
That’s part of the proposal.

ie you can have this or that medication for pain etc etc or go for assisted dying.
Thats quite literally what will be happening

Talk about making people feel unwanted. I’d feel like my life was worthless if I was given a limited time to live and a professional suggested killing myself as an option.
If doctors were not allowed to offer it as an option ( like in pregnancies) then I think less people may feel coerced but that’s not the case atm.
Which is one of the reasons why I do not agree with it in its current form and in the current climate.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:20

DrPrunesqualer · 17/05/2025 20:13

You told the pp to stick to the feminist threads as that’s what you perceived to be their concern
Then queried the report they sent about women
Then asked what about the men

You were suggesting pp only cares about women when in fact pp was discussing vulnerable people. Which they noted. The report pp posted is about one section of society that are vulnerable.

If you’re interested in reports and facts there’s masses out there.

You can’t control what people post here, you aren’t actually in charge !

I am aware of our conversations, I dont need a commentary of what myself and the other poster have said to each other.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:22

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:14

You are coming across as being deliberately obtuse. The report demonstrated that abusers took the lives of their victims and passed it off as mercy killings ie to alleviate their suffering.

Therefore it is likely that abusers will use the bill to kill their partners.

So how are they going to convince a medical professional their relative only has 6 months to live and is in immense suffering if that's not the case???

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:24

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:16

Yes, people have looked at what's happened in other countries hence the fear over the bill. In some countries they want to kill children, they kill dementia patients and people with mental illnesses.

Lock your doors they are coming after your children! These killing machines with no mercy.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:27

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:22

So how are they going to convince a medical professional their relative only has 6 months to live and is in immense suffering if that's not the case???

I wasn't aware that Drs were psychic and could predict an end with accuracy. Look at what happened to Esther Ranzen, she was given medication which prolonged her life. There are plenty of stories of people given a few months to live who lived long after.

It should be consensual which is the point. We also don't know if the criteria will be expanded. As you can see on this thread, some want it to apply to dementia patients, people with mental illnesses or even anyone who wants it.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:29

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:24

Lock your doors they are coming after your children! These killing machines with no mercy.

Again with the facetiousness. You're very amusing.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:35

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:27

I wasn't aware that Drs were psychic and could predict an end with accuracy. Look at what happened to Esther Ranzen, she was given medication which prolonged her life. There are plenty of stories of people given a few months to live who lived long after.

It should be consensual which is the point. We also don't know if the criteria will be expanded. As you can see on this thread, some want it to apply to dementia patients, people with mental illnesses or even anyone who wants it.

You were trying to say people could abuse the system and use it to kill off their relatives because they wanted them dead. So how would they be able to do that if their relative didnt fit the requirements?? A medical professional will know the health of the person better than an abusive relative who doesnt care about them.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:38

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:29

Again with the facetiousness. You're very amusing.

But that's how you sound! Are you one of these people that whenever new advancement comes along you will just try and find any negativity and scare stories about it.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:42

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:35

You were trying to say people could abuse the system and use it to kill off their relatives because they wanted them dead. So how would they be able to do that if their relative didnt fit the requirements?? A medical professional will know the health of the person better than an abusive relative who doesnt care about them.

A Dr can't predict a death with real accuracy - therefore someone coerced into taking their life could have a lot longer to live. In the case of Ranzen, new medication helped prolong her life. People can be misdiagnosed or live a lot longer than predicted.

Therefore the person could qualify and be coerced into taking their life prematurely.

There's also the question of the slippery slope.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:44

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:38

But that's how you sound! Are you one of these people that whenever new advancement comes along you will just try and find any negativity and scare stories about it.

I'm not mocking people being coerced into suicide. We're talking about the state taking your life, there are very real safeguarding concerns.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:46

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:44

I'm not mocking people being coerced into suicide. We're talking about the state taking your life, there are very real safeguarding concerns.

The state is not taking your life!

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:48

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:46

The state is not taking your life!

Who is?

Pigglingbland · 17/05/2025 20:49

@DrPrunesqualer ok that is a concern if that is the case.

How does this bill compare to those looking likeky in Jersey & Scotland I wonder? And especially in this regard.

I don’t agree with it being offered by anyone. I agree with it being a rightful choice by the individual.

Compkex obvs.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:51

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:48

Who is?

You

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:54

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:48

Who is?

Oh and not forgetting those abusive relatives who will brutally murder you in your own home and somehow pass it off as assisted dying.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:56

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:51

You

I'm taking people's lives? How so?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:56

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:54

Oh and not forgetting those abusive relatives who will brutally murder you in your own home and somehow pass it off as assisted dying.

You're not making any sense again.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:57

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:56

I'm taking people's lives? How so?

🤦‍♀️ I meant you as in the individual with the choice. You will not be killed by the state, you will be killed by you, your choice.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:59

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:57

🤦‍♀️ I meant you as in the individual with the choice. You will not be killed by the state, you will be killed by you, your choice.

That's called suicide. If the state sanctions assisted suicide, the state is taking your life.

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 21:01

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 20:59

That's called suicide. If the state sanctions assisted suicide, the state is taking your life.

Here we go again. It's your choice! It is not forced upon you. It's not murder.

WhereIsMyJumper · 17/05/2025 21:01

DrPrunesqualer · 17/05/2025 19:33

When a women gets pregnant and sees her doctor or midwife about it they don’t ask if she’d like an abortion.
Doctors and midwife’s are not required to point out all options

The two instances are completely unrelated

I didn’t realise that’s how the assisted dying bill would work. Surely there is no need to pose it as an option to a dying patient if they already know is is an option.
But I disagree that the instances are completely unrelated

MiloMinderbinder925 · 17/05/2025 21:03

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 21:01

Here we go again. It's your choice! It is not forced upon you. It's not murder.

You're consenting to the state taking your life.

DrPrunesqualer · 17/05/2025 21:04

Tarrybankheidi · 17/05/2025 20:20

I am aware of our conversations, I dont need a commentary of what myself and the other poster have said to each other.

Justifying comments is allowed and part of a conversation.

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