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Inside out clothes in the washing basket

204 replies

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 21:55

Why? Why can’t my family do this? It’s so simple, You put your clothes in the basket. Please turn them the right side out so I can wash them without having to do this. So annoying.

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Comefromaway · 12/05/2025 22:31

I voted yabu because you are supposed to wash most clothes inside out.

the exception is knickers & socks. They need to be right side.

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:32

PrincessASDaisy · 12/05/2025 21:58

Another day of women falling victim to their own oppression. I wash my clothes inside out, I’m alive.

What? Why on earth is this a male/female thing?

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DorothyStorm · 12/05/2025 22:32

MereNoelle · 12/05/2025 22:21

I do all the laundry in our house, but my DH does all the meal planning, shopping and cooking 🤷🏻‍♀️

Same as my house. Im washing, ironing and clothes shopping. he is food shop, cooking and kitchen cleaning.

uncomfortablydumb60 · 12/05/2025 22:33

I wash everything inside out to save wear and tear on my clothes. I’m sure it makes a difference

Delphiniumandlupins · 12/05/2025 22:33

You don't have to do this. Just wash things as they're put in the basket. When dry, return to owner the same way round. They will sort it when getting dressed.

(Although, I prefer to wash things inside out as I believe you get less bobbling?)

andtheworldrollson · 12/05/2025 22:34

Just wash them whatever way round they are ?
and don’t put them away either
stop making work for yourself

Tophelleborine · 12/05/2025 22:35

I wash things exactly as I find them. Including my husband's socks when they're still in nasty tight little balls. And I dry them like that too - it's his problem, not mine.

Friendtotheanimals · 12/05/2025 22:35

Are your kids old enough to wash their own clothes?

steff13 · 12/05/2025 22:36

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:29

I get you, but I find it annoying to turn their clothes the right way round

Then don't do it.

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:36

Screamingabdabz · 12/05/2025 22:01

Love a thread where some washer woman goes mental over the triviality of inside out clothes instead of the oppressive patriarchal system she’s both victim of, and perpetrating, by poor role modelling to her children.

I’m a man, just trying to figure this out. Perhaps this isn’t the best place to find out this out for me. I’m fed up asking in other places that are sexist and tell me get my wife to do it or crack on if she won’t do it😩

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2chocolateoranges · 12/05/2025 22:37

I wash and hang up clothes whatever way they are in the washing basket, some are inside out others are not. It really doesn’t make much difference.

BlueMum16 · 12/05/2025 22:39

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:29

I get you, but I find it annoying to turn their clothes the right way round

So don't turn them

Clothes can be washed inside out. They can be ironed inside out. They can be hung up inside out.

It's not bothering them don't let it bother you.

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:39

yeesh · 12/05/2025 22:02

I couldn’t give a fuck tbh. Why are you making more work for yourself

I’m not, they are

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/05/2025 22:40

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 12/05/2025 22:07

I deliberately turn everything inside out (except socks/underwear) before washing.

So do I.

It's better for knitwear to be washed inside out.

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:40

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 12/05/2025 22:04

So true!!

Wow, does it matter who is doing the washing?

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Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:42

Kibble29 · 12/05/2025 22:08

What about pants still attached to trousers? I’d return the clothes to their owner to be separated. No chance I’m standing doing it for them.

That is so annoying

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Friendtotheanimals · 12/05/2025 22:43

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:36

I’m a man, just trying to figure this out. Perhaps this isn’t the best place to find out this out for me. I’m fed up asking in other places that are sexist and tell me get my wife to do it or crack on if she won’t do it😩

It's nothing to do with you being a man. Anyone can wash clothes. There's nothing to figure out.
Sometimes I wash my husband's clothes. Sometimes he washes mine. We wash them however they are, inside out or right way out. Then when they're dry the owner of the clothes puts them the right way out for themselves. Simple.
(My children wash their own clothes but yours might be very young? If they are teens they can certainly be washing their own.)

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:43

namechangeGOT · 12/05/2025 22:08

Who the fuck has got the time or inclination to be worried about whether their clothes are inside out or not when they‘re in the washing machine?

Me

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Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:45

Friendtotheanimals · 12/05/2025 22:35

Are your kids old enough to wash their own clothes?

Edited

yes

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CasperGutman · 12/05/2025 22:46

My other half is a health professional and wears scrubs for work. They're ingeniously designed so there is no inside out: both ways are identical. E.g., the trousers fasten with a drawstring that comes right out of the top edge of the waistband, and there's a pocket on both inside and outside. Presumably this is to make life easier for hospital laundries.

Unfortunately, hers are washed at home (she works in primary care) and she manages to put them in the laundry basket with one leg in and one leg out, almost every time!!! 😫

NattyTurtle59 · 12/05/2025 22:47

Screamingabdabz · 12/05/2025 22:16

Laundry should be a shared domestic role. Children growing up around a woman who gives significance to this sort of mundane shit are learning that this mundane shit is purely women’s work. A poor example for both sons and daughters.

Oh do bore off!! I quite enjoy doing laundry and ironing and did all of ours, even though my DH had done his own ironing when he lived with his parents. I had no desire to mow the lawn or do any of the DIY tasks my DH did. He also did all of the cooking while I did the dishes. Are we not allowed to chose our tasks these days?

Some of you might just find you enjoy life a bit more if you stop obsessing about this nonsense.

OneDeftBiscuit · 12/05/2025 22:48

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:45

yes

Well get them to do their own laundry then.

PersonalBest · 12/05/2025 22:48

gannett · 12/05/2025 21:59

Clothes get washed the same inside out as right way round? Why does this matter?

Exactly this. Unimportant.

TinyTempest · 12/05/2025 22:48

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:29

I get you, but I find it annoying to turn their clothes the right way round

I have the opposite problem.

I wash everything inside out to cut down on bobbling and so it stands half a chance if I were to drop it while hanging it to dry.

I keep asking mine to turn them inside bloody out to save me having to do it!

JoyousEagle · 12/05/2025 22:49

Ishoulddomore · 12/05/2025 22:31

I didn’t know that, I’m not sure my wife and offspring do it for that reason though!

Who cares why they do it? Just wash it as they leave it.