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To think Starmer is utterly reprehensible

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Thegreyhound · 12/05/2025 20:31

I know everyone will disagree, that’s ok- But I just have to say that Starmer today seems to have sunk lower than I ever believed he would with his incendiary ‘island of strangers’ and ‘incalculable damage’ rhetoric.
I find it particularly shocking because he has calculated this and decided it’s worth it to throw immigrants under the bus and essentially give all the ground in the debate to Farage, Tommy Robinson and Enoch Powell types.
Policy can be altered without making statements that are designed to impact race relations and make life even more difficult for people who are just trying to get along and make a living here.
Starmer is vile. This country does indeed feel like an island of strangers these days but the strangers are not the immigrants :(

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Ottersmith · 13/05/2025 00:21

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He paid into it for years when we were part of the EU. I get free healthcare in his country as it is reciprocal. What are you even talking about? He would of course have a job but we wouldn't earn the prohibitively expensive amounts they want us to. Imagine if your partner and the father of your children was removed from your family because you personally were looking after your new baby so weren't earning 30k that year? Would you think that's fair. Idiot.

twilightermummy · 13/05/2025 00:22

Cleo65 · 12/05/2025 21:35

Basically - he's going to shaft the ones wanting to come to this country legally & carry on rolling out the red carpet for those coming in illegally....
Or did I miss something??

Exactly what I thought.

He clearly can't control the borders so is going for people that we actually need, like care workers. I'm astounded.

Dangermoo · 13/05/2025 00:22

CocoChaneI · 12/05/2025 23:37

Some parts of Brum are bad enough! Our British Pakistani security guard gets shit from the local residents for speaking English and working with 'goras'. The kids throw stuff at him and I'm guessing they got this from their parents.

Brum is now an absolute shithole. As for the PP asking what the problem was with white people being in the minority there, words fail me. Walk a mile in the shoes of people who are intimidated and outnumbered in their home born city. Experience the manipulative and threatening behaviour because you dare to question cultural misogyny.

DonkeyDumpling · 13/05/2025 00:22

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:18

Is the penalty for being uncovered in Iran “being stoned to death” which was the claim?

Thank you for at least providing the name of a country. Many just seem to want to respond based on stereotypes they have heard but without knowing much beyond that. And yes Iran permits child marriages with parental consent. But it is not only Islamic or Poor countries which don’t have a minimum age for marriage.

Ahh you’re right, my bad. It’s only alleged adultery where women are stoned to death, not covering up is usually just a few lashings. Silly me.

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:23

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:02

If you are against importing people from
Misogynist cultures then why make an exception for women? Women can be misogynists too.

Because women from these cultures have no power and no standing in their communities when there are no men.

So just to clarify - are you a misogynist? Because you’re denying that there are dangers men and saying women are the problem. Sounds like a misogynist to me.

Sunnyevenings · 13/05/2025 00:23

I live in a suburb where more than half the population has a low the socio economic background.

There is a very affluent village five miles away. Lots of green space, very good facilities, excellent schools, many amenities.

Can you guess where the immigrants have been housed?

TheWombatleague · 13/05/2025 00:24

I thought voting for Labour under Starmer would be a mistake. He was never going to deliver the change of direction this country needs & his failure would end the chance of us having one in my lifetime.

We just had people go out and vote Reform, so voting to make their services, working conditions and future worse. A crackpot company backed by billionaires have convinced people that our problems aren't because all the wealth and power is in the hands of those billionaires but that it's immigrants.

Smallsalt · 13/05/2025 00:24

DonkeyDumpling · 12/05/2025 20:36

This country does indeed feel like an island of strangers these days but the strangers are not the immigrants :(

I take it you don’t live in an area with a lots of immigrants who don’t speak English and make no attempt to integrate?

Starmer’s a prick but not for the reasons you’ve stated.

Because British immigrants are famed for always integrating and learning the lingo .
Not.

Anon2536474 · 13/05/2025 00:26

Sunnyevenings · 13/05/2025 00:23

I live in a suburb where more than half the population has a low the socio economic background.

There is a very affluent village five miles away. Lots of green space, very good facilities, excellent schools, many amenities.

Can you guess where the immigrants have been housed?

I guess the poor side. We had that too. Then they ran out of space that side. So now the wealthy villages have the hotels too. Equality 😭

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:28

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:14

@JandamiHash
This Iraq law?

https://www.walkfree.org/news/2025/iraqs-new-law-allowing-children-as-young-as-9-to-marry-undermines-women-and-girls-rights/

Under Iraq’s new law, girls can legally marry from the age of 9 in certain circumstances, depending on religious interpretations. The legal marriage age for boys has also been reduced from 18 to 15.
The law gives religious authorities the power to decide on family matters, including marriage, divorce, and child custody, and abolishes a longstanding ban on child marriage under the age of 18, which had been in place since the 1950s.
This change significantly reduces protections for women and children, exposing them to greater risks of exploitation and abuse.

A law that contravenes Iraq’s own national laws? Why are you assuming the existance of extremists forcing their will tells you anything about the broader views among the Iraqi populace.

The same country that passed this law also:

The new legislation not only contradicts Iraq’s existing legal framework but also breaches international agreements.
Iraq has previously criminalised forced marriage and endorsed treaties such as the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW) and the Convention on the Rights of the Child, both of which prohibit child marriage.

Is it worth the risk letting anyone in from a country where raping children is accepted?

If you genuinely care about child brides, and aren’t just being a wide eyed “Oooh I never knew, I’m sure not everyone agreed with it”, find out about what Girls Not Brides do to help, and how you can help (if you’re not too busy saying women are the problem)

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:28

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:15

So because you “got out unscathed” other people who have experience of the serious oppression that religions bring, must be..lying? Exaggerating? Hysterical (your word BTW)? Misunderstood?

Just trying to figure out how your experience is relevant on a population level?

Why are you adding random words?

The “hysterical” comment was aimed at the men worried about their wives being shot or stabbed walking around London with newborns. That’s is hysterical.

A completely separate post and point.

My post you quoted was about somebody taking issue with ethnic minority “majority” areas in parts of Brum. To which I say: “so what?” And also note being of an ethnic minority and being an immigrant are completely different things.

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:29

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:15

If you cannot answer a question just say that.

I don’t believe for a minute you’ve never in your life heard of child beides. I’m not entertaining obtuseness

But like I say look at Girls not Brides - or maybe contact them to say they’re wrong because you’ve never heard of this? Go on, I dare you.

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:30

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:18

Is the penalty for being uncovered in Iran “being stoned to death” which was the claim?

Thank you for at least providing the name of a country. Many just seem to want to respond based on stereotypes they have heard but without knowing much beyond that. And yes Iran permits child marriages with parental consent. But it is not only Islamic or Poor countries which don’t have a minimum age for marriage.

Sure Jan GIF

So now you’ve not only never heard of child brides but yore also not aware that stoning is a legal practice in certain countries?

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:31

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:18

Is the penalty for being uncovered in Iran “being stoned to death” which was the claim?

Thank you for at least providing the name of a country. Many just seem to want to respond based on stereotypes they have heard but without knowing much beyond that. And yes Iran permits child marriages with parental consent. But it is not only Islamic or Poor countries which don’t have a minimum age for marriage.

But it is not only Islamic or Poor countries which don’t have a minimum age for marriage

Maybe take a look at the Girls not Brides interactive Atlas for countries with no or a low marriage age and tell me what you think the common denominator is. Have a guess

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:32

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:23

Because women from these cultures have no power and no standing in their communities when there are no men.

So just to clarify - are you a misogynist? Because you’re denying that there are dangers men and saying women are the problem. Sounds like a misogynist to me.

I am saying if the culture and cultural attitudes are the issue then why do you think that
women will be immune to cultural beliefs that influence men?

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:33

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:30

So now you’ve not only never heard of child brides but yore also not aware that stoning is a legal practice in certain countries?

Read the post again.

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:33

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:31

But it is not only Islamic or Poor countries which don’t have a minimum age for marriage

Maybe take a look at the Girls not Brides interactive Atlas for countries with no or a low marriage age and tell me what you think the common denominator is. Have a guess

There is no one common denominator that unites them all.

seasonspuzzling · 13/05/2025 00:33

woodlandcalm · 12/05/2025 22:34

DWP also pay millions on an interpreter contract, giving advice on claiming to non-English speaking benefit claimants.

Can someone explain to me why this is done in the UK?

I can’t think of another country that translates into non-official languages

France I am pretty sure doesn’t, does Germany provide free translators for the healthcare system? Japan?

Anyone got any examples?

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:33

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:19

What is a “woke” platitude?

I’m not entertaining your stupidity any more

Totallymessed · 13/05/2025 00:35

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:58

Where did you read that? Interestingly I lived years in a part of Birmingham with a very high muslim population (literally one of a handful of families on the street that were non-muslim)
and managed to come through unscathed which according to MN is a miracle.

I just don’t see the issue with parts of Brum
having ethnic minority majorities not even with your example (Muslims are still a teeny minority in the UK.) Parts of Brum have been like that since I was at school decades ago

I grew up near the Saddam Hussein mosque, if you know where that is (I imagine it might have had a name change!). Anyway, I think a problem with people who are very pro immigration is behaving as though immigrants are some kind of monolithic group. Which ironically seems quite racist.

TempestTost · 13/05/2025 00:35

Smallsalt · 13/05/2025 00:24

Because British immigrants are famed for always integrating and learning the lingo .
Not.

Edited

Well some do, some groups notably don't. But the countries they go to don't like it much, do they? They are really there just to spend money, not integrate, have jobs, etc.

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:36

I’m not sure you realise @JHound that people like you are why people are inching towards the likes of Reform. People are sick of those so eager to be woke and not offend, all the while turning a blind eye to actual problems in favour of appearing tolerant.

Anon2536474 · 13/05/2025 00:37

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:33

There is no one common denominator that unites them all.

Yes there is. Not British

JHound · 13/05/2025 00:37

JandamiHash · 13/05/2025 00:28

Is it worth the risk letting anyone in from a country where raping children is accepted?

If you genuinely care about child brides, and aren’t just being a wide eyed “Oooh I never knew, I’m sure not everyone agreed with it”, find out about what Girls Not Brides do to help, and how you can help (if you’re not too busy saying women are the problem)

I would like to assess would be migrants the exact same way I was assessed each time I have moved overseas.

As an individual.

(Although I am not really going to go an lobby for any man for any reason so am not going to protest if any group of men is banned from
entering the UK.
it’s just weird the generalisations that abound here. I assume people here prefer to live in bubbles so it is easier for them to stereotype people.)

Neededa · 13/05/2025 00:39

I really need to ask again. Why is Starmer reprehensible? Is it because he is pro or anti immigration?
no faux naïveté here, I really want to know why the OP thinks he is reprehensible?

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