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To think Starmer is utterly reprehensible

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Thegreyhound · 12/05/2025 20:31

I know everyone will disagree, that’s ok- But I just have to say that Starmer today seems to have sunk lower than I ever believed he would with his incendiary ‘island of strangers’ and ‘incalculable damage’ rhetoric.
I find it particularly shocking because he has calculated this and decided it’s worth it to throw immigrants under the bus and essentially give all the ground in the debate to Farage, Tommy Robinson and Enoch Powell types.
Policy can be altered without making statements that are designed to impact race relations and make life even more difficult for people who are just trying to get along and make a living here.
Starmer is vile. This country does indeed feel like an island of strangers these days but the strangers are not the immigrants :(

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JHound · 12/05/2025 23:46

JandamiHash · 12/05/2025 23:14

It’s hardly the same as believing women should be murdered over mundane things like having a boyfriend though is it.

In which countries is that accepted and legal?

JandamiHash · 12/05/2025 23:46

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:36

Which countries is it the norm for all people to believe this?

And if it’s the norm then surely women from
those countries should not be allowed either.

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Iraq has lowered its age of consent to 9. I don’t want Iraqi men in this country. They may not agree with it but TBH why take the risk.

All Iraqi women and girls are vulnerable, and given asylum is for those at risk of death or oppression there’s no reason we couldn’t allow them in (but it’s unlikely they’d be able to why away).

Afghanistan is committing the most horrific atrocities against women and girls. Yet it’s the second highest country for asylum seekers in 2024. Most asylum seekers are men. I’m not ok with this. Are you?

User46576 · 12/05/2025 23:48

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:38

Which countries are those?

Iran is one country that allows child brides and forces women to cover up.

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:49

Anon2536474 · 12/05/2025 23:28

I think some people just don’t see it because they haven’t been around the country in recent years. Or more to holiday locations only.

Was chatting a few weeks ago with a group of lovely lads, moved from the country to London and have been there as a young professional for the past 10 years. They were talking about how they need to move to the country as London is becoming increasingly unsafe and how they wouldn’t want their wife walking around with a newborn in case they got shot or stabbed. I thought to myself quite over dramatic. And on the other side of my brain I mused about how my children go to one of the most prestigious schools in the country and it’s right next door to a migrant hotel and how on occasion it crosses my mind that it may house someone damaged and mentally ill from a war torn country who might go rogue one day. And I thought best not to crush his dreams of the safe country. So I nodded and hmm’med.

This country has changed very quickly in the past 10 years or so. I doubt parents 15 years or so ago had these thoughts intruding their minds.

They sound hysterical. I live in London and never once have I worried about being stabbed or shot. And my last neighbourhood had three stabbings pretty much on my doorstep in 2 years.

Although that’s nothing to do with immigration.

TempestTost · 12/05/2025 23:49

dreamingbohemian · 12/05/2025 23:25

It's just so xenophobic and ignorant to assume everyone 'from certain cultures' will behave in criminal ways. Really, every single person from certain countries or religion will murder and rape women?

Not to mention these rules will also affect women trying to leave these cultures you hate so much

No one is saying that.

But you have to realize that not all cultures have the same beliefs about important elements of our society. And they will bring those beliefs here.

Yes, there will be exceptions. But when you are talking about bringing in large numbers of people, most will have the kinds of beliefs that are common in that culture.

My cousin lives in a city where there have recently been outbreaks of street violence between Hindus and Muslims. Guess what - they are not local people. There hasn't been sectarian violence like that for over 100 years there.

CocoChaneI · 12/05/2025 23:49

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:46

In which countries is that accepted and legal?

The countries where they stone young women to death for having a boyfriend from a different religious background.

Neededa · 12/05/2025 23:49

Thegreyhound · 12/05/2025 21:54

It’s not in the transcript on gov uk but IS reported in quote marks in all the papers so maybe he said it in follow up questions?

The ‘island of strangers’ soundbite is the worst part for me. Enoch Powell’s ‘rivers of blood’ was misquoted forever but was true to the essence of what he was saying. Island of strangers will go the same way- and have the same impact. And Starmer is clever enough to know that, which is why it was reprehensible

I’m sorry, I haven’t read the whole thread, just the first couple of pages, and I honestly don’t understand why you think he is reprehensible?
is he too pro immigration or too anti? I’m not taking the piss, I really don’t understand why he has annoyed you so much? I know what I think but I really don’t know what you do?

BrokenDollFoot · 12/05/2025 23:49

DonkeyDumpling · 12/05/2025 23:43

Got to love the faux naivety 😆

Think it's their attempt at 'being clever'. It doesn't work anymore, people see straight through it.

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:52

DonkeyDumpling · 12/05/2025 23:43

Got to love the faux naivety 😆

Do you not know how question marks work?

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:53

BrokenDollFoot · 12/05/2025 23:49

Think it's their attempt at 'being clever'. It doesn't work anymore, people see straight through it.

No it’s my “attempt” at asking a question.

User46576 · 12/05/2025 23:53

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:46

In which countries is that accepted and legal?

Sadly honour based violence is accepted in a number of different countries including places such as Syria, Afghanistan, Pakistan. It might not be technically illegal but in many of these countries the law is often not enforced to protect women.

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:54

Ooooohdear · 12/05/2025 23:44

How old are you?

Middle aged.

Anon2536474 · 12/05/2025 23:55

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:49

They sound hysterical. I live in London and never once have I worried about being stabbed or shot. And my last neighbourhood had three stabbings pretty much on my doorstep in 2 years.

Although that’s nothing to do with immigration.

Well I thought so too. But then I don’t live in London anymore so no idea.

Reading back my post is quite unclear. Unfortunately too late to edit. The boys are in London. I’m in the ‘safe’ country. Which sometimes I worry is not so safe. Not because of gangs. But because we are housing many people from potentially awful backgrounds; some of who will be severely mentally unwell.

There’s literally an ongoing saga currently about a poor man who’s sitting on a bench staring blankly into space clearly having a mental breakdown who only speaks Farsi and as he has no home address and no GP, and is not from the hotel - that no one will section them. That’s been about 2 weeks now of everyone ringing and ferrying them to A&E and he keeps turning up again.

Thankfully he doesn’t seem a risk to anyone else, but he does need help.

JandamiHash · 12/05/2025 23:55

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:38

Which countries are those?

Have you REALLY never heard that some countries have child brides? Have you been living under a rock? Or are you being obtuse?

BrokenDollFoot · 12/05/2025 23:56

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:53

No it’s my “attempt” at asking a question.

I hope you're learning lots, seeing as you ask so many of them.

Ooooohdear · 12/05/2025 23:56

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DonkeyDumpling · 12/05/2025 23:56

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:52

Do you not know how question marks work?

I do but I don’t believe for one second you don't know what countries treat their women worse than dogs, stone them to death for not covering up and think marrying children is fine 🤷‍♀️

Maddy70 · 12/05/2025 23:57

While I do really appreciate how effective he is on the global stage , plus trade deals etc and the improvements he's made to working conditions, the NHS etc over the short time he's been pm. I honestly cannot fathom why it's a good idea to cull the foreign care workers coming to the UK.

TempestTost · 12/05/2025 23:57

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:44

It can’t simultaneously be true that the country is too full but we also need to increase the birthrate.

When you increase the birthrate it's a slow process. Children typically live with their parents for 18 years.

But I think the real issue is that when you add a lot of extra people and therefore suppress wages and raise rents you will suppress the birth rate.

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:58

CocoChaneI · 12/05/2025 23:45

Half of UK Muslims when surveyed stated that being gay should be an imprisonable crime. I don't think that's great. I love Sikhs though and worked for a Sikh business for three years. I was treated like family.

Where did you read that? Interestingly I lived years in a part of Birmingham with a very high muslim population (literally one of a handful of families on the street that were non-muslim)
and managed to come through unscathed which according to MN is a miracle.

I just don’t see the issue with parts of Brum
having ethnic minority majorities not even with your example (Muslims are still a teeny minority in the UK.) Parts of Brum have been like that since I was at school decades ago

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:59

TempestTost · 12/05/2025 23:57

When you increase the birthrate it's a slow process. Children typically live with their parents for 18 years.

But I think the real issue is that when you add a lot of extra people and therefore suppress wages and raise rents you will suppress the birth rate.

But you are still increasing the population who in turn will have more kids each generation.

JandamiHash · 12/05/2025 23:59

dreamingbohemian · 12/05/2025 23:40

So let's say you're talking about Afghanistan

Are you really saying no one from Afghanistsn should be allowed to emigrate here? Even if they're fleeing the Taliban? Even if they helped the British in their invasion of Afghanistan?

Women only. And only if we are economically able to help - which I doubt we are.

So to answer your question - no, not really.

But Afghanistan is 3,500 miles away. Why do we need to accept them? Iraq actually has have rates of welcoming immigrants, shouldn’t they go there before they come here? We are a tiny island and we can’t cope.

Dangermoo · 13/05/2025 00:00

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JHound · 13/05/2025 00:00

DonkeyDumpling · 12/05/2025 23:56

I do but I don’t believe for one second you don't know what countries treat their women worse than dogs, stone them to death for not covering up and think marrying children is fine 🤷‍♀️

I don’t. I wonder if the posters making those claims do - so wanted to know if they can name them.

Can you? Which countries stone women to death for not covering up?

notadrift · 13/05/2025 00:01

JHound · 12/05/2025 23:59

But you are still increasing the population who in turn will have more kids each generation.

They live at home in Europe a hell of a lot longer. 30.

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