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New councillor wants to stop 'free mixing' between men and women

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SeaSwim5 · 04/05/2025 10:14

Independent candidate Maheen Kamran has been elected in Burnley.

As well as support for Gaza, her manifesto included a pledge to encourage public spaces to end free mixing of men and women.

"Muslim women aren't really comfortable being involved with Muslim men. I'm sure we can have segregated areas, segregated gyms."

Is this a sensible approach and important for inclusivity? It's notable that many anti-Trans activists advocate the importance of single-sex spaces.

However, some have raised concerns about the growing sectarian nature of UK politics.

Should we be looking to reduce 'free mixing' between men and women and create more single sex spaces?

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cardibach · 04/05/2025 18:55

SeaSwim5 · 04/05/2025 18:37

@AccidentallyWesAnderson

Interestingly Manchester City goalkeeper Katie Startup has come out in today's Observer wanting trans women to be able to compete in women's sport.

“Trans women, like all women, should have the right and opportunity to access and feel safe in football.”

observer.co.uk/news/sport/article/footballs-ban-on-transgender-women-draws-strong-reaction

Trans women aren’t banned from accessing football. Just from taking a place on a women’s team. They have every right to continue to play - but they’ll have to do it with men.

Lostcat · 04/05/2025 18:56

cardibach · 04/05/2025 18:55

Trans women aren’t banned from accessing football. Just from taking a place on a women’s team. They have every right to continue to play - but they’ll have to do it with men.

It’s absolutely disgraceful. 20 amateur althletes in a team sport. This is what this country has become. Disgusting.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 04/05/2025 18:56

I think woman-only (female-only) sessions are a good thing because they allow women to relax and hear female voices in a way that we usually don't. I'd never really thought about libraries, cafes etc but I certainly don't think having one or two woman-only sessions a week if there is demand for them is a bad thing.

And franky, I'd rather that women from cultures that don't allow or encourage them to mix with men have lots of opportunities to get out of the house and mixing and making friends with a diverse range of people from other cultures even if those people are all women, than getting stuck at home or socialising only within a very limited social group.

Ponderingwindow · 04/05/2025 19:01

I as a private person should be able to form a group that is only for the people I want to join that group.

We shouldn’t be able to say that men walk on the north side of the street and women walk on the south side of the street.

The devil is in the details in the middle. At what point does something switch from allowing people to freely associate to becoming discrimination. We know men’s clubs effectively shut women out of the higher levels of business for years. We know that places of public accommodation like restaurants and hotels have discriminated against people because of race or religion.

I want to live in a world where it is true that women or men can have private spaces, but women or men can’t be arbitrarily prevented from full participation in society. It’s a very tricky law to write.

TonTonMacoute · 04/05/2025 19:04

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/05/2025 18:54

So would you be happy to get changed in front of your male colleagues?

Or go to a mixed sex prison?

You are being deliberately obtuse.

There is a whole world of difference between having separate changing rooms and prisons, to protect the more vulnerable members of society, and segregation in every public space to keep men and women apart.

We have seen segregation in action in several countries in living memory and it usually ends up with the weaker party not being allowed to anywhere freely.

Letstheriveranswer · 04/05/2025 19:05

The need for single sex spaces is in private places like toilets and changing rooms. Not public places like this suggestion.

If women in the Muslim community want to group together at a shopping mall or café or wherever, without Muslim men, surely the women just group together and the men understand they need to group together and not insert themselves in a group of women?

And certainly not to impose gender division in public British spaces.

DdraigGoch · 04/05/2025 19:08

People should be able to choose whether they access an amenity in a single-sex environment or a mixed-sex environment. For this reason things like women-only swim sessions and single-sex dorms in hostels exist, but the option to choose mixed exists too.

This councillor seems to want to remove the mixed-sex options. This is a loss of freedom of choice.

Some TRAs want to remove the single-sex option by admitting males into a supposedly all-female environment. This too is removing freedom of choice.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 04/05/2025 19:10

TonTonMacoute · 04/05/2025 19:04

You are being deliberately obtuse.

There is a whole world of difference between having separate changing rooms and prisons, to protect the more vulnerable members of society, and segregation in every public space to keep men and women apart.

We have seen segregation in action in several countries in living memory and it usually ends up with the weaker party not being allowed to anywhere freely.

OK, so when you say the default is that we are not sex segregated, what you mean is the default is that only some spaces are sex segregated.

Odras · 04/05/2025 19:21

i think I’d need to know the details. Women only gym session - yes. Women only streets - no.

This story seems to have been picked up by right wing news sources (including Fox News) with heavy bias so it’s difficult to know what she actually said.

Her statement on this website says nothing of this; https://whocanivotefor.co.uk/person/121022/maheen-kamran

Neither does it say anything on her website. https://maheenkamran.com

So clearly whatever it was she said about this topic isn’t even one of her main priorities. It seems like she is being picked on.

Maheen Kamran for Burnley Central East in the Lancashire local election

Maheen Kamran was an independent candidate in Burnley Central East in the Lancashire local election. They were elected with 1,357 votes.Get the latest information on this candidate at Who Can I Vote For?

https://whocanivotefor.co.uk/person/121022/maheen-kamran

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 04/05/2025 19:21

Letstheriveranswer · 04/05/2025 19:05

The need for single sex spaces is in private places like toilets and changing rooms. Not public places like this suggestion.

If women in the Muslim community want to group together at a shopping mall or café or wherever, without Muslim men, surely the women just group together and the men understand they need to group together and not insert themselves in a group of women?

And certainly not to impose gender division in public British spaces.

What about hospital wards, breastfeeding support groups, rape support groups , women only swimming/gym sessions etc?

JustSawJohnny · 04/05/2025 19:21

Livelovebehappy · 04/05/2025 13:42

But at Centre Parcs, families will want to swim together. Hardly fair that dad and brothers can’t swim with the females in the family to accommodate needs of a minority.

I didn't suggest it be done at Center Parcs 😂

I said I usually SEE Muslim women swimming at CP.

I'm sure many more would use a local pool if they didn't have to be covered from head to toe, is my point.

Letstheriveranswer · 04/05/2025 19:25

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 04/05/2025 19:21

What about hospital wards, breastfeeding support groups, rape support groups , women only swimming/gym sessions etc?

All of those examples are already single sex, or should be. And the recent high court ruling should ensure that.

sanluca · 04/05/2025 19:33

Butchyrestingface · 04/05/2025 18:42

Well, trans women are biological males, so it follows they shouldn't be competing in women's sports.

You mean the boxer that even his own team admitted has a 'chromosome issue'?

I still can't believe this thread, is the OP implying that segregation for fairness, privacy and dignity of women (you know, those human rights everyone is supposed to have) in areas where biological sex matters, means we should also segregate women and men in all areas of public life? Really? That eager to oppress women are you?

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 04/05/2025 19:38

sanluca · 04/05/2025 19:33

You mean the boxer that even his own team admitted has a 'chromosome issue'?

I still can't believe this thread, is the OP implying that segregation for fairness, privacy and dignity of women (you know, those human rights everyone is supposed to have) in areas where biological sex matters, means we should also segregate women and men in all areas of public life? Really? That eager to oppress women are you?

Eager to complete writing their article.

Butchyrestingface · 04/05/2025 19:56

sanluca · 04/05/2025 19:33

You mean the boxer that even his own team admitted has a 'chromosome issue'?

I still can't believe this thread, is the OP implying that segregation for fairness, privacy and dignity of women (you know, those human rights everyone is supposed to have) in areas where biological sex matters, means we should also segregate women and men in all areas of public life? Really? That eager to oppress women are you?

You talking to me?

Where in my post did I say or imply women and men should be segregated in all areas of public life?

OchonAgusOchonOh · 04/05/2025 20:08

SeaSwim5 · 04/05/2025 18:37

@AccidentallyWesAnderson

Interestingly Manchester City goalkeeper Katie Startup has come out in today's Observer wanting trans women to be able to compete in women's sport.

“Trans women, like all women, should have the right and opportunity to access and feel safe in football.”

observer.co.uk/news/sport/article/footballs-ban-on-transgender-women-draws-strong-reaction

Except by allowing transwomen into women's sports, particularly those that involve contact, women will not only feel unsafe but will actually be unsafe due to the physiological advantages conferred by male puberty.

Those very same advantages also confer a competitive advantage, meaning transwomen aka males will take places on teams away from women.

And before any tra who doesn't understand the concept of a categorical advantage starts pointing out that transwomen don't always win or aren't always the best, no, that does not mean every transwoman is better than every woman.

Iwanttoliveonamountain · 04/05/2025 20:08

Lostcat · 04/05/2025 18:39

“gender critical” logic. The logic of “gender critical” ideology

Sex is a scientific fact. ideology is a philosophy. Confusion is created by completing two different things.

WaryCrow · 04/05/2025 20:11

StMarie4me · 04/05/2025 10:26

Let’s segregate the sexes. Then decide that women should be at home. Then decide women cannot leave that home without a man. Then decide they cannot be educated. Then decide they should not speak.

Going great in Afghanistan.

This is the thing isn’t it. It’s not coming from women’s groups for the benefit of women. It’s coming from a misogynistic religion that has far too much influence in Britain already.

Iwanttoliveonamountain · 04/05/2025 20:12

Only read the first sentence of the observer article there wasn’t any point in reading anymore. It’s a grave injustice that people were told you could change your sex and spent money and time and pain in endeavouring to achieve that.

EasternStandard · 04/05/2025 20:43

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 04/05/2025 18:41

Actually, you are entirely incorrect. You obviously have no experience in understanding case law which is interpretating legislation.

You need to go through the steps in order:

  1. what does the relevant legislation say? In this case the Equality Act says, by default every place, service, facility is open to both sexes. However in certain circumstances it is possible for a space, facility,service for one sex to exclude members of the other sex without it contravening the Equality Act. However, it must be proportionate to do so. So a single space for women can exclude men, where it is proportionate to do so. If it is not proportionate to do so it defaults back to being a mixed sex space. Considerations to take into account include whether the separation of the sexes is proportionate to protect one sex’s (as a class) dignity, privacy, safety etc. This is the legislation. If a space etc is used by both sexes, it clearly is not proportionate to exclude some and not all members of the opposite sex, it is by default mixed sex.
  2. Where it is considered to be a grey area what terms in legislation mean (usually because they aren’t specifically defined in the legislation) the Courts have the power to interpret legislation. At its simplest, the word will be deemed to have its ordinary (dictionary) meaning, if this is still unclear the court will apply its power to work through the rules on statutory interpretation- these are set out incredibly clearly in the Judgement - and I suspect this will be used in many law courses going forward as such an excellent example of the procesS. What the court has the power to do in this case is decide what a woman is for the purpose of the Equality Act. It has made it clear that sexes are binary, ie there are men and women, these are defined biologically and a persons sex is that which is observed at birth.
  3. The judgement doesn’t need to say transwomen are not allowed in womens only spaces. It just needed to define what woman was for the purposes of the EA.
  4. The next step then is to go back to the Equality Act and read it with the definition of woman (and man) the the court has given. Eg is it proportionate to exclude men form women’s spaces for the privacy, dignity, spaces etc of women (defined as biological women). If you allow biological men into that space (and this would include transwomen as they are biological men) then it would be impossible to argue it is proportionate to exclude men as men are already using that space.

The guidance correctly has gone through those steps and brought the overall conclusion together. Your mistake is, I think, simply relying on the case and assuming it makes the totality of the law rather than confirming the definition within the Act. This is why this is not a change in law it is simply clarifying what the EA has always been. Transwomen aren’t women.

Edited

@Lostcatdid you read this? @MyHeartyCoralSnailhelpfully sets out the legal position.

HollyGolightly4 · 04/05/2025 20:48

KimberleyClark · 04/05/2025 10:26

There are women only gyms already, just not council run ones.

Not necessarily true, my council ran gym has a women's only gym. It's rather pleasant!

Yazzi · 04/05/2025 21:26

Whooowhooohoo · 04/05/2025 12:12

What she really said was not wanting to be around “Muslim men”

“There’s a big aspect of free mixing,” she said ahead of the election. “Muslim women aren’t really comfortable with being involved with Muslim men. I’m sure we can have segregated areas, segregated gyms, where Muslim women don’t have to sacrifice their health.”

not ALL men, just Muslim men. Unless. Maybe her constituency is 100% Muslim …. And she does not consider that there are non-Muslim men in UK.

Yeah but I think she means that doing activities like exercise at a gym is not encouraged/ avoided in Muslim communities. Her wording is sloppy because she's 18.

I could be wrong- but having looked it up, all the reporting comes from that one single quote, without any clarification.

sashh · 05/05/2025 03:48

Booboobagins · 04/05/2025 12:41

This is dangerous territory. We should not shape our environments to fit a specific immigrant culture.

If Muslim women want to be away from Muslim men, then they can sort that out themselves - in all honestly, I dont want to mix with lots of Muslim men either!

We need to nip this in the bud now!

Er you are contradicting yourself there. This is exactly what she is proposing, that the Muslim community can have spaces where women can go without the male gaze.

For Muslim women a female only gym, or gym session, means they can take of the hijab (if they wear one) and wear the leggings / shorts / tops other women wear to exercise.

Annoyedone · 05/05/2025 05:56

SeaSwim5 · 04/05/2025 10:44

@HotCrossBunplease

Because rightly or wrongly they are anti trans rights.

Oooh are they? What rights do they want to remove from trans people? I mean, the SC gave transmen confirmation that they would be protected if they needed maternity or abortion services and confirmed transpeople would be protected under the gender reassignment PC.

Annoyedone · 05/05/2025 06:14

ScholesPanda · 04/05/2025 12:58

Everyone assume the default would be women-only and mixed sex.

If a woman is precluded from mixing with men by her faith, and that is supported so she can have a women's only session; why would a man who is precluded from mixing with women by his religious faith not be offered the same?

I think a lot of mumsnetters support women only sessions, but they'd be pretty horrified if men's only sessions appeared too.

Nope. I’d totally support men only sessions. I support Andy’s man club as I do think men also need spaces to express themselves in ways they may not feel free to do in a mixed sex spaces