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To think this country’s gone to S***

352 replies

emsjk · 04/05/2025 09:49

Second time now I’ve sat down to have drinks with a friend only to be met with “I don’t agree with Farage, but…”

Cue a rant about Muslims, immigrants, how the country is not what they remember in the good old days.

More and more people are starting to spout this drivel about immigrants. Yesterday it was literally ‘I’m not racist, I have asian family, but’ and then cue racist rant.

I feel like the country I love that used to be fair and tolerant has gone to shit.

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Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 18:25

beautyqueeen · 04/05/2025 18:12

It’s a shame people have to shout down and get personal to others who don’t agree with them, instead of actually debating this in a sensible way. Those who dare mention immigration are called stupid ignorant bully owning racists, rather ironic really!

Yep, I was on the receiving end earlier. Its just hypocrisy.

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 18:30

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 18:25

Yep, I was on the receiving end earlier. Its just hypocrisy.

Takes two to tango.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 18:34

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 18:30

Takes two to tango.

Three actually, when your mate got involved. I prefer to work alone.

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 18:36

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 18:34

Three actually, when your mate got involved. I prefer to work alone.

I seem to recall someone taking your corner as well, but you conveniently forgot that.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 18:38

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 18:36

I seem to recall someone taking your corner as well, but you conveniently forgot that.

Nothing to forget. Except she wasn't being hostile.

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 18:43

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 18:38

Nothing to forget. Except she wasn't being hostile.

OK. You are the victim. You have said nothing to upset or challenge anyone, definitely haven’t been rude at any point and we have all ganged up on you. Better now?

sualipa · 04/05/2025 19:11

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 17:50

Looks like it, even though the Southport killer had been referred to PREVENT on 3 occasions prior to his disgusting attack. The cover up was that the referrals were attributed to mental health (coughs) rather than terrorism. However, it's all down to Farage/Reform/racists, who are more a danger than terrorists.

No, it doesn’t. And let me reiterate: God help us if such heinous crimes occur. The state must use every necessary means to track down, apprehend, and punish anyone who commitsor conspires to commit such acts.

That said, the point I was making is this: if such an event were to happen, it becomes the duty of everyone who cares about this country and wishes it well to stay calm, resist hysteria, and not fuel a febrile atmosphere that could incite civil unrest or worse.

As I’ve made clear in a previous post, Farage has already cost this country hundreds of billions in lost wealth chasing Brexit unicorns—far, far more than any failure in the asylum system, whether real or perceived and that in my mind is the greater crime.

Clavinova · 04/05/2025 19:54

sualipa · 04/05/2025 15:24

It's ChatGPT - so I fed your critique into it and it came up with this - still enormous by any stretch.

🇪🇺 UK Contributions to the EU Budget
You're correct that any comprehensive assessment of Brexit's financial impact should consider the UK's contributions to the EU budget. According to the House of Commons Library, between 2016 and 2019, the UK's average net public sector contribution to the EU was approximately £7–7.5 billion per year. (House of Commons Library)
If we extrapolate this over seven years (2016–2022), the total net contributions would amount to roughly £52.5 billion.
In contrast, some estimates suggest that Brexit has led to an annual economic loss of around £40 billion, totaling approximately £280 billion over the same period.
Subtracting the foregone EU contributions from the estimated economic loss yields a net cost of approximately £227.5 billion.
🧑‍⚖️ Gertjan Vlieghe's Role and Estimates
You're also correct regarding Dr. Gertjan Vlieghe's position. He served as an external member of the Bank of England's Monetary Policy Committee (MPC) from September 2015 to August 2021. While he was affiliated with the Bank, his statements and analyses were his own and not official Bank estimates.(Bank of England, Wikipedia)
Therefore, attributing the £40 billion annual loss estimate directly to the Bank of England would be inaccurate. It's more precise to state that this figure was presented by Dr. Vlieghe in his capacity as an independent economist.
📊 Revised Comparative Summary
Category Estimated Cost Since 2016
Brexit Economic Impact
~£280 billion (based on £40 billion/year over 7 years)
Foregone EU Contributions
~£52.5 billion (based on £7.5 billion/year over 7 years)
Net Economic Impact
~£227.5 billion
Asylum System Costs
~£20 billion (cumulative over 7 years, considering annual increases)
Note: These figures are approximate and based on available estimates.
If you have further questions or need more detailed information, feel free to ask!

Your link says there are different ways of measuring net contributions to the EU budget and the average net contribution calculated by HM Treasury for those years is £9.2 billion. In addition there are 'off-budget contributions' and the question of how the EU will eventually repay the money it borrowed for its Covid Recovery Fund - possibly by increasing contributions from member states. Then there is the cost of infringement fines member states often have to pay (including the UK).

Not forgetting of course that Dr. Vlieghe has used counterfactual modelling to estimate what the UK economy might have looked like - based on assumptions with obvious limitations.


Also, you compared an estimated cost of Brexit over 7 years with asylum system costs but asylum seekers granted refugee status will often then require support from different government funding streams such as housing benefit and universal credit.

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'People who have been granted asylum in the UK have a disproportionately low employment rate of 51 per cent, compared with economic migrants who have an employment rate of 88 per cent.'
https://www.london.gov.uk/who-we-are/what-london-assembly-does/london-assembly-press-releases/working-out-employment-barriers-asylum-seekers-and-refugees

YehRight · 04/05/2025 21:39

I feel like most people who take the politically correct stance (for want of a better description) do it out of general principles while most people that object do it for specific reasons. Obviously there are also the outright racists but I don't think these are the majority of people concerned about immigration. I think a lot of people are a bit leery of it but are careful of what they say for fear of reprisal.

PersephoneSmith · 04/05/2025 21:46

2dogsandabudgie · 04/05/2025 15:57

Well I'm concerned about uncontrolled immigration so I must be a racist then. Well I never, every day's a school day on mumsnet.

Your comprehension skills are lacking.

Not everyone who is concerned about immigration is a racist.

All racists say they are concerned about immigration.

get it now?

1SillySossij · 04/05/2025 21:53

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 10:17

One of the biggest problems we are facing in terms of extremism and terrorism comes from the right wing - chiefly low achieving angry white men. Would you like to say anything about that?

I would say that statement in itself is racist (as well as sexist and classist)

YehRight · 04/05/2025 21:56

The thing that most surprises me is the public's seeming indifference to the sex crime element, especially as we hear a lot about rape culture in general from the left. We also hear an overwhelming amount about the threat from transwomen in women's toilets which frankly doesn't seem to come close in terms of statistical risk.

I honestly think this is an area that a lot of people just aren't very well informed on in regard to statistics.

It was recently discussed on GB News following a FOI request which evidenced that foreign nationals now account for almost 3/4 of sexual assaults in London. I'd not seen it discussed at all before seeing it mentioned on here and had I not I'd have had no idea.

Further analysis shows that they're also 3x more likely to be arrested for sex crimes and twice as likely to be arrested in general. In total they account for 26% of sex crimes in the UK despite making up only 9% of the population. The figures also show nearly 165 arrests per 100,000 of the migrant population, compared to 48 per 100,000 for Britons.

Even if we use the discrimination argument those figures are pretty stark!

www.gbnews.com/news/immigration-row-culturally-distant-nations-clash-uk-laws-british-values

PersephoneSmith · 04/05/2025 21:57

unsync · 04/05/2025 11:06

@sowemeetagainbananaman I agree with you. It is always useful to post the stats as people do seem to be unaware of the scale of it. They tend to think of it on an individual level (someone working cash in hand whilst claiming for instance, what harm does it do yada yada yada) and seem unable to understand what that means when multiplied by the number of people doing it.

The figures for tax and VAT evasion are also eye watering. All three figures would have plugged the gap that Rachel Reeves was banging on about when she entered office.

Yes, correct. I got my arse handed to me when I posted about an acquaintance working cash in hand so she wouldn’t have to declare it and pay tax or lose any benefits.
’poor thing, just trying to make ends meet’ ‘cost of living crisis’
I was told I am the nastiest person alive for even considering reporting her.

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 22:04

1SillySossij · 04/05/2025 21:53

I would say that statement in itself is racist (as well as sexist and classist)

It’s not.

esthersouwester · 04/05/2025 22:06

PersephoneSmith · 04/05/2025 21:57

Yes, correct. I got my arse handed to me when I posted about an acquaintance working cash in hand so she wouldn’t have to declare it and pay tax or lose any benefits.
’poor thing, just trying to make ends meet’ ‘cost of living crisis’
I was told I am the nastiest person alive for even considering reporting her.

Next time just dob them in and say nowt.

It bugs me when I pay tax and these folks can get away with stealing (cos that's what it is) from taxpayers like me.

If more people reported these thieves (cos that's what they are) maybe we wouldn't have a cost of living crisis?

emsjk · 04/05/2025 22:11

Well I guess I made my point 🤷‍♀️

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user1492538376 · 04/05/2025 22:27

We need a bold Government and radical reform to improve this country’s deep seated problems. This has been going on way too long now - and while reform are revolting I do understand why people want an alternative.
The people of this country have been failed by various Governments - I know the Global picture isnt great but Europe seems to be more progressive and better off than us.

user1492538376 · 04/05/2025 22:33

We need a cultural shift too - we live in a time of extreme individualism - problems are
the fault of individuals - they are lazy, don't work, or people should be able to ‘cure’ their mental health problems. I hear it all the time.

But in the context of jobs - wages haven't really gone up in 20 years and employers demand more and more for us all to be paid less. Mental health services are abysmal. So this is a systematic failure of our own society.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 22:52

emsjk · 04/05/2025 22:11

Well I guess I made my point 🤷‍♀️

Yes, your goading got you what you wanted, didn't it.

User46576 · 05/05/2025 01:01

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 22:04

It’s not.

It is. M15 confirms that the vast majority of terrorists nd extremism it considers a thread is Islamist extremism.

Dangermoo · 05/05/2025 07:53

User46576 · 05/05/2025 01:01

It is. M15 confirms that the vast majority of terrorists nd extremism it considers a thread is Islamist extremism.

No matter how much evidence is presented, some still won't accept Islamic extremism is a massive problem. It's as though the need for one upmanship is paramount. Ironic how you're then accused of posting in bad faith.

StandFirm · 05/05/2025 08:58

You’d have to be a special kind of idiot to want to continue doing something that harms you.

Brexit anyone?

Dangermoo · 05/05/2025 09:28

emsjk · 04/05/2025 09:49

Second time now I’ve sat down to have drinks with a friend only to be met with “I don’t agree with Farage, but…”

Cue a rant about Muslims, immigrants, how the country is not what they remember in the good old days.

More and more people are starting to spout this drivel about immigrants. Yesterday it was literally ‘I’m not racist, I have asian family, but’ and then cue racist rant.

I feel like the country I love that used to be fair and tolerant has gone to shit.

Good job M15 and the police have foiled a targeted Iranian terrorist attack in this shit country, isn't it?

WinterMorn · 05/05/2025 09:59

User46576 · 05/05/2025 01:01

It is. M15 confirms that the vast majority of terrorists nd extremism it considers a thread is Islamist extremism.

If you want to get into hair splitting, in my original post way back at the start, I said that right wing extremism was one of the biggest problems. I did t say anywhere it was the sole issue.

MmeChoufleur · 05/05/2025 11:50

Keirawr · 04/05/2025 13:06

So UK has 0.4% of global population but 0.8% of refugees? Seems like already accepting more than our share.

We have 2.5% share of global GDP. I think we’re getting off lightly.