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To think this country’s gone to S***

352 replies

emsjk · 04/05/2025 09:49

Second time now I’ve sat down to have drinks with a friend only to be met with “I don’t agree with Farage, but…”

Cue a rant about Muslims, immigrants, how the country is not what they remember in the good old days.

More and more people are starting to spout this drivel about immigrants. Yesterday it was literally ‘I’m not racist, I have asian family, but’ and then cue racist rant.

I feel like the country I love that used to be fair and tolerant has gone to shit.

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WestwardHo1 · 04/05/2025 15:28

Anti uncontrolled immigration doesn't equal racist.

However the problem is that all racists are anti uncontrolled immigration therefore there is no nuance to the discussion. It's like everything nowadays - you're lumped by others into being right wing or left wing if you voice an opinion which they don't agree with. George Bush has a lot to answer for when he said "You're either with us or against us". That along with social media has killed off proper debate.

CatSnackTagine · 04/05/2025 15:29

ilovesooty · 04/05/2025 15:25

Any need to sneer? I'd have done the same.

@ilovesootyAll she does is sneer. She's a troll, enjoying slinging insults around on this thread. Maybe it's Nigel behind it 🤣

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:29

CatSnackTagine · 04/05/2025 13:49

You're not refusing to conform to @WinterMorn's view, you're being deliberately obtuse and refusing to consider any other information that may even slightly affect your puerile view that the country is on its knees because we are kind to a small amount of the worlds refugees, rather than the drooling, knuckledragging, flagshagging antics of the Brexiteers and 14 years of Tory criminality when we needed our government the most.

Hope that helps 🙏🏼

You seem to do a lot of presuming. More lazy othering; the very thing you accuse others of. When are you going to show this great academic display of knowledge, because all I'm seeing is diatribe..and an unoriginal one at that.

sualipa · 04/05/2025 15:30

The way things are going it feels like some sort of "civil war" is brewing which a Professor at King's College thinks is a likely outcome in the next 5 years. Sadly I think he may well be right.

In a recent podcast interview with journalist Louise Perry, Professor Betz warned that the UK is "explosively configured" for mass unrest and predicted a national eruption within five years. He attributes this potential unrest to factors such as government failures to secure borders, protect citizens, maintain freedom of speech, and sustain social cohesion.

Professor Betz, who teaches in the War Studies Department at King's College London and has advised the UK Ministry of Defence and GCHQ, elaborated on these concerns in his 2023 academic paper titled "The Future of War Is Civil War." In this work, he discusses the possibility of civil wars in Western societies, highlighting factors like societal instability, multicultural tensions, and the erosion of legitimacy in institutions.

dominicadler.substack.com/p/thinking-the-unthinkable

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:32

ilovesooty · 04/05/2025 15:25

Any need to sneer? I'd have done the same.

You don't say?

ilovesooty · 04/05/2025 15:32

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:32

You don't say?

Yes. I did say. Do you have a problem here?

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:34

CatSnackTagine · 04/05/2025 15:29

@ilovesootyAll she does is sneer. She's a troll, enjoying slinging insults around on this thread. Maybe it's Nigel behind it 🤣

Your own sneery attitude introduced itself to me. Not quite the tolerant one you like to think are you? Yes, of course I'm a troll or a bot 🙄 more lazy 'thinking'. Unoriginal as well as bitchy. Nice combo going on there.

Keirawr · 04/05/2025 15:34

Why was immigration not such a big issue when numbers were net 50k a year, right up until slimy Blair came to power. he opened the floodgates to Europe and Tories decided why stop there, why not just have open borders for anyone from anywhere in the world. Borders, schmoders!!!!

Now net immigration is running at nearly 1 million a year. And it’s making the country poorer. The numbers say so. Why is it such a surprise that people don’t like it. You’d have to be a special kind of idiot to want to continue doing something that harms you.

WHM0101 · 04/05/2025 15:35

2024onwardsandup · 04/05/2025 15:25

But that’s the point - the OPs community has been displaced by a community that has not integrated.

I know, I live in London after all and a lot of places here remind movies about Arabic countries, and not in a pleasant way.
I don't know why some choose to ignore the facts.

CatSnackTagine · 04/05/2025 15:35

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:29

You seem to do a lot of presuming. More lazy othering; the very thing you accuse others of. When are you going to show this great academic display of knowledge, because all I'm seeing is diatribe..and an unoriginal one at that.

I never offered you an academic display. I simply pointed out that you are unwilling to consider educating yourself about the real reasons our country is in dire straits, rather than simply blaming refugees because the tabloids tell you to, or you don't like foreigners, or you think they're all staying in luxury, or whatever reason. You didn't really explain your point of view so nobody can tell.

EasternStandard · 04/05/2025 15:35

CatSnackTagine · 04/05/2025 15:29

@ilovesootyAll she does is sneer. She's a troll, enjoying slinging insults around on this thread. Maybe it's Nigel behind it 🤣

How do posts like this help?

CatSnackTagine · 04/05/2025 15:36

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:34

Your own sneery attitude introduced itself to me. Not quite the tolerant one you like to think are you? Yes, of course I'm a troll or a bot 🙄 more lazy 'thinking'. Unoriginal as well as bitchy. Nice combo going on there.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 amazing

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:37

ilovesooty · 04/05/2025 15:32

Yes. I did say. Do you have a problem here?

Other than I know your political stance and knew you'd agree with cutting off a friend due to one's own intolerance?

WestwardHo1 · 04/05/2025 15:37

God this thread is unpleasant. There will never be progress if people are so vile to the people they disagree with.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:39

EasternStandard · 04/05/2025 15:35

How do posts like this help?

The pack mentality always shows its ugly face on these posts. It's as predictable as the bot/troll accusations. The lengths some go to when they don't get their own way.

ilovesooty · 04/05/2025 15:39

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:37

Other than I know your political stance and knew you'd agree with cutting off a friend due to one's own intolerance?

You've learned a lot about my political stance it seems. I don't want people in my life who post stuff like that on social media and visibly align themselves with political groups endorsing those views. I make no apology for that.

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 15:40

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:11

What does political education look like to you? I can guarantee it's everything but lived experience. Text books and the Guardian will only get you so far. I'm smelling a first year undergrad Politics student here, but your bitterness reflects more advanced years.

You could have an argument in an empty room couldn’t you?

sualipa · 04/05/2025 15:41

WestwardHo1 · 04/05/2025 15:37

God this thread is unpleasant. There will never be progress if people are so vile to the people they disagree with.

It is isn't it. It's going to be a long hot summer - hopefully peaceful but it does feel , god forbid , another atrocity like Southport or Manchester happened then some parts of the country would explode. Farage et al need to be mindful of the tinderbox they are campaigning on. They are part of the problem not part of the solution.

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2025 15:42

WestwardHo1 · 04/05/2025 15:37

God this thread is unpleasant. There will never be progress if people are so vile to the people they disagree with.

MN’s horribly rancid today. It’s like Thursday’s results have emboldened all the bigots to expose themselves.

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 15:43

CatSnackTagine · 04/05/2025 15:29

@ilovesootyAll she does is sneer. She's a troll, enjoying slinging insults around on this thread. Maybe it's Nigel behind it 🤣

She is certainly a very unpleasant and bitter character.

EasternStandard · 04/05/2025 15:43

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:39

The pack mentality always shows its ugly face on these posts. It's as predictable as the bot/troll accusations. The lengths some go to when they don't get their own way.

It’s madness.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:44

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WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 15:46

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😂😂😂 re-read that, and then think about it’s application.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:46

EasternStandard · 04/05/2025 15:43

It’s madness.

..then they have the gall to insinuate its Reform voters who are the unpleasant ones. The arrogance is astounding but not surprising, when they hunt in packs.

WinterMorn · 04/05/2025 15:47

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 15:46

..then they have the gall to insinuate its Reform voters who are the unpleasant ones. The arrogance is astounding but not surprising, when they hunt in packs.

Says the person who has just told me to f* off 😂😂😂