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AAAAGH Reform. Are people ignoring the racist?

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Peasnbeans · 02/05/2025 23:01

And that he's no economist skills yet promising the impossible. And a racist. And mysoginist.

If Mumsnet is full of women, how is no-one talking about Reform and limiting women's rights?
I know I'll get flamed for this, but it is a boiling frog situation! Jump out!
And I didn't choose the AIBU board but I looked down all the Current Threads and this didn't feature.

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JHound · 05/05/2025 17:19

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 22:49

Yet you can't fathom POC being fans of Reform.

Who can’t fathom that?

And you have no answered my question: why are you assuming all those posting in opposition to ReFUK are white?

JHound · 05/05/2025 17:20

LookingForRecommendation · 05/05/2025 10:40

We already have Sharia courts

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/society/article/sharia-law-courts-uk-marriages-divorce-zs76vq2c9

Now where are the Christian hardline courts of which you imply?

I don’t understand they issue with Sharia courts when we have the Beth Din and it all takes place under our established legal framework.

BundleBoogie · 05/05/2025 17:39

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2025 19:34

How does this affect your life in any way? All women are free to dress as they choose.

While women in Muslim countries are still killed or beaten for not wearing head coverings or top to toe coverings - it is not a free choice.

FlyPhobicDog · 05/05/2025 17:52

BundleBoogie · 05/05/2025 17:04

The accusation was that it was outrageously racist to say that Rudakubana is clearly not a British name.

Are you progressing towards a claim that there is no such thing as a ‘British’ name and as soon as citizenship is achieved, Rudakubana becomes a ‘British’ name by default?

It’s a similar argument deployed by people who want to insert men into women’s spaces “what is a woman anyway?”

I’m just wondering what the criteria would be for a British name. It’s an interesting question.

I do think it’s safe to say that if someone is born in Britain they’re British? I wouldn’t necessarily extend that to someone who is granted citizenship as an adult. (Although they are obviously a British citizen.)

Definitions of men and women are an interesting analogy. I’m assuming (from what you’ve said) you believe, like me, that it’s not possible to change sex. How do you feel this analogy would be applied to Britishness?

BundleBoogie · 05/05/2025 18:04

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2025 20:15

Or those who don’t think they have the right to judge people from different cultures and religions.

You’re not seriously suggesting that we shouldn’t judge a religion that stones women to death for being raped and imposes a sentence of a rapists sister being raped in public as retaliation for the crime??

bellsanddogwhistles · 05/05/2025 18:15

BundleBoogie · 05/05/2025 18:04

You’re not seriously suggesting that we shouldn’t judge a religion that stones women to death for being raped and imposes a sentence of a rapists sister being raped in public as retaliation for the crime??

Don't forget throwing gays off tall buildings and FGM

springbirdss · 05/05/2025 18:26

bellsanddogwhistles · 05/05/2025 18:15

Don't forget throwing gays off tall buildings and FGM

@BundleBoogie I hope you guys realise that many of the young asylum seekers you've been complaining about on here are fleeing from exactly this kind of danger and persecution.

2025meme · 05/05/2025 18:28

Wow I hope you’re banned disgusting

2025meme · 05/05/2025 18:29

Lmao yeah that’s why they throw their passports in the sea and bypass France

springbirdss · 05/05/2025 18:37

LookingForRecommendation · 05/05/2025 10:40

We already have Sharia courts

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/society/article/sharia-law-courts-uk-marriages-divorce-zs76vq2c9

Now where are the Christian hardline courts of which you imply?

The vast majority of Muslims do not practice or align with this branch of Islam and those most endangered by it are other Muslims, not white British people. Don't conflate faith with extremism!!

springbirdss · 05/05/2025 18:39

2025meme · 05/05/2025 18:29

Lmao yeah that’s why they throw their passports in the sea and bypass France

What are you talking about??

Dangermoo · 05/05/2025 18:39

JHound · 05/05/2025 17:19

Who can’t fathom that?

And you have no answered my question: why are you assuming all those posting in opposition to ReFUK are white?

Quite hung up on this aren't you? Does race matter that much to you on this point? People of whatever ethnicity are free to vote for who they want.

Moveanymountain · 05/05/2025 19:15

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 10:12

A surprisingly large number of people from this country think it is OK to set fire to hotels full of people, or to post on social media encouraging other people to do so. That does not mean that all people from this country think that is OK.

I agree.

Moveanymountain · 05/05/2025 19:19

Atina321 · 05/05/2025 15:57

Would you like to back up the claims with some actual figures? Actual data?

Most immigrants are legal. Illegal immigrants cost less to deal with than would be made if large corporations were forced to pay their tax bills.

We are an island - would you choose to risk your life to get here if you weren’t desperate?

The main reason the cost of living is increasing is because it is a case of profits before people. Nothing to do with immigrants, illegal or otherwise.

A hotel a day being filled with migrants. Many young, able bodied foreign men with no background checks in small communities.

Many of these young men don’t see crossing the channel as particularly risky to life given the 1000s who have successfully done it. Being an economic migrant is not fleeing persecution - it’s coming to a country illegally to make money without contributing to society or the community.

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 19:26

Moveanymountain · 05/05/2025 19:15

I agree.

So why do you think all men from Morroco (to use your example) share the same attitudes and beliefs? To the point where they should automatically be denied entry off the back of them?

LarkspurLane · 05/05/2025 19:29

If Reform get in power, their supporters will realise that stopping the boats is a) not the answer to their problems and b) not as easy to do as Farage suggests.

Does Farage even want to stop the boats really, or is it just a good way to get himself into power and do the things he does want to do?

Moveanymountain · 05/05/2025 19:41

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 19:26

So why do you think all men from Morroco (to use your example) share the same attitudes and beliefs? To the point where they should automatically be denied entry off the back of them?

Because the secondary status of women is endorsed in the Quran (which I have read). Because these men are socially trained to treat women poorly. It is in their culture. In the UK, views of burning down hotels are not acceptable to most - they are thankfully the minority.

Most people want migrants to be dealt with sympathetically but simply taking migrants continually with no end point plan is not sustainable nor is it likely to be helpful to many communities housing them.

HellsBalls · 05/05/2025 19:43

LarkspurLane · 05/05/2025 19:29

If Reform get in power, their supporters will realise that stopping the boats is a) not the answer to their problems and b) not as easy to do as Farage suggests.

Does Farage even want to stop the boats really, or is it just a good way to get himself into power and do the things he does want to do?

Why do you think people see stopping the boats will answer their problems?
They want the obvious unrestricted and illegal immigration stopped. They don’t want to walk down the High Street and think they could be in Cairo or Islamabad.
Everyone knows stopping the boats won’t fix anything in their lifetimes. But it’s still wrong and not nice watching these people abuse the system.

Clavinova · 05/05/2025 19:58

FlyPhobicDog · 05/05/2025 17:52

I’m just wondering what the criteria would be for a British name. It’s an interesting question.

I do think it’s safe to say that if someone is born in Britain they’re British? I wouldn’t necessarily extend that to someone who is granted citizenship as an adult. (Although they are obviously a British citizen.)

Definitions of men and women are an interesting analogy. I’m assuming (from what you’ve said) you believe, like me, that it’s not possible to change sex. How do you feel this analogy would be applied to Britishness?

I do think it’s safe to say that if someone is born in Britain they’re British?

British citizenship is not automatic - I know several EU citizens (teens) born in the UK to an EU parent and they are not British. They may have the right to apply for British citizenship.

springbirdss · 05/05/2025 20:03

@HellsBalls @Moveanymountain
I mean this respectfully: if your ideas about asylum seekers are purely based on media/news consumption, I would recommend broadening your sources and conducting some non-biased research.

I have worked firsthand with young asylum seekers and the levels of (very confidently expressed) ignorance on this website is quite something.
They are not a homogenous group. I imagine you have a 'copy and paste' type image of them in your head; this is false and (sorry) racist.

'Migrants' and 'asylum seekers' are not the same. Migrants come here by choice to work (on visas), whereas asylum seekers are forcibly displaced people.

It is extremely hard to live here as an illegal migrant (no visa), let alone make money, and they certainly cannot access any of our services. It is not possible for them to abuse the system, because they cannot claim benefits or receive NHS treatment (migrants have to pay an annual fee to access the NHS).

If you walk down the high street and are upset by the sight of 'foreigners', you are making a load of extremely biased assumptions about them.

Ironically after the Neanderthal population was wiped out, Britain was an uninhabited island for some time. The first modern settlers came here from the Middle East!! Your ancestors perhaps? Lol

FlyPhobicDog · 05/05/2025 20:06

Clavinova · 05/05/2025 19:58

I do think it’s safe to say that if someone is born in Britain they’re British?

British citizenship is not automatic - I know several EU citizens (teens) born in the UK to an EU parent and they are not British. They may have the right to apply for British citizenship.

aha, so I guess they didn’t have settled status?

Papyrophile · 05/05/2025 20:07

My maiden name was Harvey, which is a version of the Norman French (1066 etc) of herve, which meant infantryman. Nevertheless, the Norman infantrymen have assimilated and integrated.

Clavinova · 05/05/2025 20:10

FlyPhobicDog · 05/05/2025 20:06

aha, so I guess they didn’t have settled status?

They do have settled status but British citizenship is not automatic.

Moveanymountain · 05/05/2025 20:17

springbirdss · 05/05/2025 20:03

@HellsBalls @Moveanymountain
I mean this respectfully: if your ideas about asylum seekers are purely based on media/news consumption, I would recommend broadening your sources and conducting some non-biased research.

I have worked firsthand with young asylum seekers and the levels of (very confidently expressed) ignorance on this website is quite something.
They are not a homogenous group. I imagine you have a 'copy and paste' type image of them in your head; this is false and (sorry) racist.

'Migrants' and 'asylum seekers' are not the same. Migrants come here by choice to work (on visas), whereas asylum seekers are forcibly displaced people.

It is extremely hard to live here as an illegal migrant (no visa), let alone make money, and they certainly cannot access any of our services. It is not possible for them to abuse the system, because they cannot claim benefits or receive NHS treatment (migrants have to pay an annual fee to access the NHS).

If you walk down the high street and are upset by the sight of 'foreigners', you are making a load of extremely biased assumptions about them.

Ironically after the Neanderthal population was wiped out, Britain was an uninhabited island for some time. The first modern settlers came here from the Middle East!! Your ancestors perhaps? Lol

I also work with migrants in a health care setting (health assessments on arrival, vaccinations etc). I know asylum seekers and illegal economic migrants are different.
I have both sympathy and empathy for genuine asylum seekers. But I also believe that we cannot continue to accept and support migrants of any sort without a limit or endpoint.

And I do have concerns about cultural differences. For example, I have vaccinated 1000s of migrant children and commonly, the fathers allow their sons to be vaccinated for HPV but not their daughters, despite cervical cancer being a much bigger risk than penile.

FlyPhobicDog · 05/05/2025 20:23

Clavinova · 05/05/2025 20:10

They do have settled status but British citizenship is not automatic.

Apparently it varies depending on the year the child was born, but if one of the parents had IL to R, right of abode, right of readmission or after 2006 any of those three or settled status or permanent residence status if an EU citizen then British citizenship is automatic (unless it’s just the father who fulfils the above criteria and they’re not married). I checked that, this is not from memory 😆

So I guess if a parent is a British citizen it’s straightforward, and if neither parent is then it comes down to their status and if they were living in the UK at the time.

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