Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

AAAAGH Reform. Are people ignoring the racist?

1000 replies

Peasnbeans · 02/05/2025 23:01

And that he's no economist skills yet promising the impossible. And a racist. And mysoginist.

If Mumsnet is full of women, how is no-one talking about Reform and limiting women's rights?
I know I'll get flamed for this, but it is a boiling frog situation! Jump out!
And I didn't choose the AIBU board but I looked down all the Current Threads and this didn't feature.

OP posts:
Thread gallery
28
Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 20:40

SquashedMallow · 04/05/2025 20:20

👏👏👏

I concur 👏

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 20:41

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2025 19:56

It’s no more dangerous than it was for us all to obscure our faces during covid.

🙄

bellsanddogwhistles · 04/05/2025 20:44

BIossomtoes · 04/05/2025 19:45

It doesn’t matter whether you agree with it or not. It’s none of your business.

It is if it is a security issue

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2019/08/07/two-women-accused-using-muslim-dress-shoplifting-spree/

EasternStandard · 04/05/2025 20:47

CunningLinguist1 · 04/05/2025 19:13

The lovely Torygraph … the ‘respectable’ DM parent. Yup yup

What do you read and trust, The Guardian?

bellsanddogwhistles · 04/05/2025 20:49

For those that aren't happy, here's the security footage in glorious technicolour

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 20:50

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

That's the lengths the virtue signallers will go to. It's really quite telling, reading some of these views, why the white groomed girls were kicked down the bottom of the pile. Imagine going through that ordeal and then on top of that, you're shown contempt by white middle class women, who are more interested in protecting cultural misogyny than they are anyone else. Its all a mess really, their thinking, which is riddled with double standards and inconsistencies. All in the name of not being seen to be racist.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 20:51

EasternStandard · 04/05/2025 20:47

What do you read and trust, The Guardian?

The Guardian is the quintessential lefty's Bible.

Twilight7777 · 04/05/2025 20:52

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 03/05/2025 07:31

Attitudes such as yours are precisely the reason Reform are on the rise.

exactly

DreamTheMoors · 04/05/2025 20:59

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 03/05/2025 00:03

I imagine many people vote for them BECAUSE of the racism and misogyny. It reflects their views and they wish to support it. Its very sad. I always thought the UK was better than this.

I always thought the USA was better than this but it’s only been 100 days and look at us.
There are people here who if they heard “the sky is falling! - the sky is falling!” would yell “Sell sky!!”
We have something like 1350 days left.
JFC we’re all gonna die.

Winter2020 · 04/05/2025 21:00

Azdcgbjml · 04/05/2025 16:31

Yes, the influx of people from outside the EU was one of the widely predicted consequences of Brexit that was dismissed as "project fear" iirc.

The vast majority of those could have been declined by the government if they chose to do so.

The people voted Brexit to be able to control immigration and both the Conservatives and now Labour chose not to control it. They have betrayed the public with that decision.

Chumbawomble · 04/05/2025 21:01

Hopefully they will show their ineptitude quickly and we'll be spared from them doing well at the next general election.

Labour have been given the shock to get the country going again by e.g. rescinding the increase in employer's NI, fixing legal immigration, deporting foreign criminals, sorting primary care, finding and charging the bosses of OCGs, cracking down on tax evasion and avoidance, identifying empty properties and allowing local councils to use CPOs.

ToWhitToWhoo · 04/05/2025 21:32

LookingForRecommendation · 04/05/2025 20:08

Because by acting like religious freedom should entitle anyone to do as they wish, and it’s nobody else’s business, you sleepwalk into a theocracy.

No, just as with anything else, there are gradations.

A committed Christian:

Wears a cross in public (absolutely fine)

Tries to make me wear a cross in public (annoying)

Harrasses women outside an abortion clinic (nasty)

Campaigns to enact laws to restrict women's reproductive rights or their rights to leave abusive partners (hey there Trumpsters and Project 25) (truly vile)

Bombs an abortion clinic (extremely vile)

Similarly for Muslims.

Of course Muslim theocracies are pretty much the worst at the moment; but e.g. Afghan refugees are generally fleeing the Taliban, not importing it.

And incidentally I know, and have worked, with plenty of Muslims, and have never experienced anyone telling me what I can and cannot eat, though they themselves may decline to attend certain events during Ramadan, Not saying that it could NEVER happen, but, in a rather long life, the only people who have tried to pressurize me about what I can eat have been health freaks, and, when I was much younger, the 'clean your plate, don't be a fussy eater' brigade.

ToWhitToWhoo · 04/05/2025 21:43

Oh, and by the way, if you don't like having people who disagree with you insult you by calling you 'stupid' or 'racist'- by the same token, don't call us 'virtue signallers'!!! THAT is truly insulting!!! \People can genuinely hold views that are different from yours!!! Call me stupid if you must, but don't call me a virtue signaller!

JHound · 04/05/2025 22:37

Dangermoo · 03/05/2025 19:11

Did I really just read yet another white middle class saviour say Reform are hostile to non whites? This is the kind of ignorant arrogance that elevates Reform. I've noticed when immigrants or general POC post they agree with Reform's stop the boats, that they are ignored. Now I wonder why that is. It reminds me of why the disgusting label coconut exists. The left are the most hypocritical toxic people going.

Why are you assuming all the people posting here, hostile to Reform, are white?

And the term “coconut” is not a left wing invention. I recall a certain David Starkey, far from left wing, referring to “the whites have turned black” after the 2011 riots.

JHound · 04/05/2025 22:39

ToWhitToWhoo · 04/05/2025 21:43

Oh, and by the way, if you don't like having people who disagree with you insult you by calling you 'stupid' or 'racist'- by the same token, don't call us 'virtue signallers'!!! THAT is truly insulting!!! \People can genuinely hold views that are different from yours!!! Call me stupid if you must, but don't call me a virtue signaller!

I just take it as a sign of stupidity and being hard of thinking. They cannot fathom people having a different opinion to themself.

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 22:48

JHound · 04/05/2025 22:39

I just take it as a sign of stupidity and being hard of thinking. They cannot fathom people having a different opinion to themself.

😆 😆 😆 🤣 the irony

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 22:49

JHound · 04/05/2025 22:37

Why are you assuming all the people posting here, hostile to Reform, are white?

And the term “coconut” is not a left wing invention. I recall a certain David Starkey, far from left wing, referring to “the whites have turned black” after the 2011 riots.

Edited

Yet you can't fathom POC being fans of Reform.

bellsanddogwhistles · 04/05/2025 22:53

JHound · 04/05/2025 22:37

Why are you assuming all the people posting here, hostile to Reform, are white?

And the term “coconut” is not a left wing invention. I recall a certain David Starkey, far from left wing, referring to “the whites have turned black” after the 2011 riots.

Edited

Is this a racist group?

Just checking.

https://kidcreoleandthecoconuts.com/

SquashedMallow · 05/05/2025 09:48

Dangermoo · 04/05/2025 20:50

That's the lengths the virtue signallers will go to. It's really quite telling, reading some of these views, why the white groomed girls were kicked down the bottom of the pile. Imagine going through that ordeal and then on top of that, you're shown contempt by white middle class women, who are more interested in protecting cultural misogyny than they are anyone else. Its all a mess really, their thinking, which is riddled with double standards and inconsistencies. All in the name of not being seen to be racist.

Couldn't have said it better !

hattie43 · 05/05/2025 09:59

I’m a white middle class woman and agree with you . You don’t have to live these experiences to be able to clearly see right from wrong but the volume of people putting their warped ideologies before common sense is primarily the reason the country is a mess .

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 10:12

Moveanymountain · 04/05/2025 19:19

Thank you! My point exactly. It’s nothing to do with race - it’s a cultural thing. Women and girls are treated appallingly in these countries - especially the poorest. I visited Morroco once and our guide told us that because of access to pornography, the men saw all white women as wh*res (disgusting word which I can’t write in full).

These are men who gladly partake in FGM “ceremonies”, whooping and cheering as the young girls are “cut” and we are expected to welcome them here because they are seeking asylum? Shocking.

A surprisingly large number of people from this country think it is OK to set fire to hotels full of people, or to post on social media encouraging other people to do so. That does not mean that all people from this country think that is OK.

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 10:15

Foostit · 04/05/2025 19:15

Exactly! What if the colleague was disabled so wasn’t able to leave the office to go for a walk but they had to eat lunch in order to take pain medication? It’s a choice for a person to fast as is belief in religion. These beliefs and practises should not be forced on others in a work environment. Most people in the U.K. are not religious so religious customs are not relevant anyway!

Edited

So the policy of an entire country should be based on what allegedly happened to a friend of someone who posted on Mumsnet?

My entire working life I have had Muslim colleagues and nobody has ever requested I don't eat. It might have happened, but it is by no means the norm.

scorpiogirly · 05/05/2025 10:18

Can you please explain what is racist about the Reform party? I assume you are talking about Farage, but if not the same question applies.

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 10:18

marshmallowmix · 04/05/2025 19:22

Labour aren’t trying to stop the boats they will house them and give them leave to remain in return for votes…let’s hope they never see another term in government again ! They have alienated every sector in such a short time that takes some doing…

I believe Starmer is the most unpopular PM in history they are fools and incompetents…

And yet here they are actively taking steps to stop the boats...
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn4jwk7zl0qo#:~:text=Under%20the%20proposed%20agreement%2C%20illegal%20migrants%20who,and%20reducing%20the%20number%20of%20dangerous%20crossings.

Migrants brought ashore in Dover after attempting to cross the channel. In the background you can see a border force boat with the union flag and migrants being disembarked in Dover at the processing centre known as Jetfoil.

What impact could the UK-France migrant deal have in Kent?

Talks could lead to a new agreement regarding both legal migrants and small boat crossings.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cn4jwk7zl0qo#:~:text=Under%20the%20proposed%20agreement%2C%20illegal%20migrants%20who,and%20reducing%20the%20number%20of%20dangerous%20crossings.

Azdcgbjml · 05/05/2025 10:25

LookingForRecommendation · 04/05/2025 20:04

Of course it’s our business. Do you think we should have Sharia courts in the UK?

Because obviously if we allow head and face coverings that means we have to have Sharia courts...

Do these head coverings offend you too?

AAAAGH Reform. Are people ignoring the racist?
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.