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Demonic Possession

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scorpiogirly · 01/05/2025 13:16

Do you believe?

I've been watching a lot of podcasts on YouTube lately with exorcist from the church.

I'm torn. Do you believe?

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Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:20

QuaintShaker · 01/05/2025 17:06

Yes, I believe that alcohol - a drug that is extremely well known to impair people's judgment, reduce inhibitions, alter emotional processing and lead to increased violence and aggression - often causes negative behaviour including increased violence.

You believe that, at the same time some people drink alcohol, they are temporarily possessed by a magical being that just happens to cause the same adverse side effects.

Maybe possessed by Dionysus?

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:22

mathanxiety · 01/05/2025 17:15

https://www.usccb.org/prayer-and-worship/sacraments-and-sacramentals/sacramentals-blessings/exorcism

I'm RC, and believe this exists.

I've linked an explanation of the sacramental here.

The text notes the sensational way the topic and the rite are presented in movies and popular culture.

Every person presenting for baptism in the RC church will undergo a minor exorcism, while anyone believed to be suffering from demonic possession can have a major exorcism. This includes people who are not Catholic or Christian. The minor and major rites are very different, with major exorcism only performed by a duly appointed priest and after a protocol of examination and preparation by the priest have been followed.

Anyone seeking a major exorcism must undergo a medical, psychological, and/ or psychiatric exam first, and the context or background to the suspicion of demonic possession will be examined - any dabbling in the occult / 'spiritual cleansing' / New Age religion, etc. or family involvement when growing up will be ascertained.

What do you think are the differences you can use to tell a possessed person apart from a mentally ill one?

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:24

ButterfliesnWaterfalls · 01/05/2025 17:38

In Islam - there is a whole area of study about Jinn (beings who currently live on this planet but we can’t see/hear them).

Sometimes they possess humans. Some are good Jinni and some are bad.

There are some who are evil like Satan, and just create chaos.

Muslims believe this. We have our way of doing “exorcisms”. Mostly which consists of reciting verses of the holy book and trying to remain clean and “good”.

Similarly, Muslims also believe in Angels. Divine beings.

Of course - people can have mental health issues. It’s considered better to take a balanced approach to any ailments - so take your medicine and say your prayers.

That's interesting.

How do you tell a possessed person from a mentally ill one? Are there any particular signs?

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:26

QuaintShaker · 01/05/2025 17:44

Ah, here you go @Abbycarry2211 . Sounds like your ex accidentally drank a jinn and tonic.

Btw, Under The Shadow is a great Iranian horror film about a woman and her daughter being menaced by a jinn during the Iran-Iraq war.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Under_the_Shadow&ved=2ahUKEwi68-bKqLKSAxWIUUEAHThBCBQQFnoECEMQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3ipC-KVCEehWIG1-zVEG2e

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FUnder_the_Shadow&usg=AOvVaw3ipC-KVCEehWIG1-zVEG2e&ved=2ahUKEwi68-bKqLKSAxWIUUEAHThBCBQQFnoECEMQAQ

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:27

BlossomBlanket · 01/05/2025 17:49

I'm not sure if that is blasphemous

Yep, biblical inerrancy is primarily a US evangelical thing.

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:29

BoundaryGirl3939 · 01/05/2025 18:39

You can bring a horse to water but you can't make him drink. You can't force someone to get exorcised. And I'm not sure it works for everyone.

I do believe some people are condemned to hell from the beginning (narcs). Diagnosing it as a personality disorder is an infantile explanation that lets ppl away with murder. And modern day psychology is still new. It can't explain everything, and has removed the spiritual element from almost everything.

I've known narcissists, and they throw anyone under a bus to get out of trouble. Bad news. They will slowly kill you. Zero empathy. The most prideful idiotic people about. They crave admiration. Their persona is a mask. It was pride that sent Lucifer to hell. These are his minions who will return to him. I do believe this. I don't think there is salvation for certain ppl.

Edited

Are you a Calvinist? Or another denomination believing in predestination?

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:29

OhWhistle · 01/05/2025 18:48

Please spend that time at Mass or doing the rosary or working with the poor or something.

The good exorcists aren't flashing about online. The Church sadly is politicised and a lot of demonisation of modernity happens online.

Regardless of that, don't give forces of darkness attention. They are vain and also they will look for ways in.

Eyes firmly on the Cross.

Do you think there are signs to tell if someone is genuinely possessed?

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:33

CharlotteLightandDark · 01/05/2025 22:04

I read a book by a psychiatrist who worked with possessed people, he initially was sceptical as a man of science but became more convinced through his experiences. He still maintained like 90% of people who believe they are/are seen as possessed are experiencing mental illness but he says there are in his opinion some real genuine cases he can’t explain.
it was really interesting anyway

Was it the one called Demonic Foes by Richard Gallagher?

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.amazon.co.uk/Demonic-Foes-Psychiatrist-Investigates-Possessions/dp/0062876473&ved=2ahUKEwiLjdqOqrKSAxUDR0EAHc9mNzwQFnoECFAQAQ&usg=AOvVaw1d5vEL1Yp-ydhT84Ebdl0h

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.co.uk%2FDemonic-Foes-Psychiatrist-Investigates-Possessions%2Fdp%2F0062876473&usg=AOvVaw1d5vEL1Yp-ydhT84Ebdl0h&ved=2ahUKEwiLjdqOqrKSAxUDR0EAHc9mNzwQFnoECFAQAQ

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:41

Skirtless · 02/05/2025 13:18

Yes, I’ve seen those (briefly).

My own grandfather believed he’d been cursed. I’ve told the story elsewhere on Mn at some point, but he believed someone had put a piseóg on him — his crops failed, his first wife died etc. He had poor MH, possibly PSTD from experiences during the war of independence and civil war, and was hospitalised several times. It’s fairly clear to me, putting the pieces together a generation later, that a neighbour who wanted his land was profiting from a fragile man’s delusion. His delusion did wreck his life, though. He lost his family farm, and lived the rest of his life barely above the breadline working as a labourer.

Your poor grandfather.

I wonder how often this might be the reason for a perceived demon/ghost etc.. I have an interest in Native American tribes & on a subreddit for one once, I spoke to a lady who said several people in her area belonging to her tribe had seen a skinwalker (shape-shifting ghost tribes often traditionally believed in). Several other things she said made me wonder if someone was deliberately trying to scare them to get their land, which wouldn't be a first in US history sadly..

Gettingbysomehow · 30/01/2026 09:36

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:04

How do they tell which ones they think need a genuine exorcism?

I don't really know. A lot of that information is confidential so he cant tell me.

fashionqueen0123 · 30/01/2026 09:43

What’s with all the crazy posts on mumsnet today?!

This is quite worrying these people are operating in society.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 30/01/2026 12:25

fashionqueen0123 · 30/01/2026 09:43

What’s with all the crazy posts on mumsnet today?!

This is quite worrying these people are operating in society.

This is an old post obviously stumbled upon (or searched for) by one individual - I worry about unethical scientists and medics and left wingers in society rather than those with private spiritual beliefs.

aLFIESMA · 30/01/2026 13:06

The term 'Shame and Blame' springs readily mind. Look at the vicious hysteria that resulted in the Witch Trials.

HorrorAndHaagenDazs · 30/01/2026 13:44

I think its highly unlikely to exist, highly and suspect that its significant mental illness and churchy snakeoil but Ralph Sarchie's book deliver us from evil was an interesting read.

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 15:13

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 30/01/2026 12:25

This is an old post obviously stumbled upon (or searched for) by one individual - I worry about unethical scientists and medics and left wingers in society rather than those with private spiritual beliefs.

You find left wingers per se worrying? Or just unethical ones?

I think it's quite clear that belief in Demonic possession is worrying if this 'private spiritual belief' makes people avoid medical help for potential mental health problems.

Elsvieta · 30/01/2026 18:04

myplace · 01/05/2025 13:53

When my DC had night terrors, it would have been easy to believe it. His face was like a waxy mask, his eyes deep and dark, and he pointed to and saw and talked about things and people who weren’t there. Then by day he’d be fine. Obviously.

It’s easy to see how that would be interpreted.

Can you explain what you mean by the eyes being dark? I've heard people say similar things before about people having night terrors and so on. Obviously the iris can't actually change colour, so I can never quite picture what they mean.

myplace · 30/01/2026 18:34

Elsvieta · 30/01/2026 18:04

Can you explain what you mean by the eyes being dark? I've heard people say similar things before about people having night terrors and so on. Obviously the iris can't actually change colour, so I can never quite picture what they mean.

I think the pupils must be enormous so there’s not much iris, but the whites disappear too. I don’t know whether it’s possible for the eyeballs to sink deeper into the socket, I think it’s associated with dehydration, maybe low blood pressure? Certainly he was pale and waxy, which also tallies with low BP.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 30/01/2026 20:21

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 15:13

You find left wingers per se worrying? Or just unethical ones?

I think it's quite clear that belief in Demonic possession is worrying if this 'private spiritual belief' makes people avoid medical help for potential mental health problems.

I go ind left wingers generally quite worrying hence the two “ands”.

if someone wants to avoid medical treatment so be it. Tbh I found occultism far more effective in relation to my adhd, ptsd and anxiety than any therapist I’ve met.

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 20:43

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 30/01/2026 20:21

I go ind left wingers generally quite worrying hence the two “ands”.

if someone wants to avoid medical treatment so be it. Tbh I found occultism far more effective in relation to my adhd, ptsd and anxiety than any therapist I’ve met.

Thanks for the clarification.

Occultism? Wait, I thought you were Christian? Or am I mixing you up with another pp?
I get the argument re spiritual treatment helping mental health & I'm glad it helped you. But at the same time,,some mental health problems do have treatments that work, and would be dangerous to only treat via spiritual methods : schizophrenia, BPD among others. It's generally cases like this where exorcism produces the worst results (Anneliese Michel for one). Moreover, someone with schizophrenia etc might not be competent to understand the implications of only having spiritual treatment rather than medical.

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 21:23

Yes, I do. Perhaps not in the conventional sense (levitation and rotating heads) but in the sense that the occult is a ‘door’ you can open, but once opened, you can’t close it again and anything or anyone can come through.

I think you can unwittingly invite dark forces into your life, and I would strongly encourage anyone not to risk it

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 21:26

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 03:22

What do you think are the differences you can use to tell a possessed person apart from a mentally ill one?

I’m RC and I think the difference is that possession generally coincides with the possessed person doing things that shouldn’t be possible within their body/strength. There’s also a fixation on Satanic rituals and aversion to Holy imagery.

I’ve seen a lot of very mentally unwell people but they never appear possessed.

Firefly1987 · 30/01/2026 21:49

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 21:23

Yes, I do. Perhaps not in the conventional sense (levitation and rotating heads) but in the sense that the occult is a ‘door’ you can open, but once opened, you can’t close it again and anything or anyone can come through.

I think you can unwittingly invite dark forces into your life, and I would strongly encourage anyone not to risk it

Agree. I used to be very interested in that stuff and I wish I hadn't now as my mental health is quite fragile and anything could've happened to me. I also have a sibling with Schizophrenia. He was actually convinced at one point during psychosis that this ornament we had was cursing people. He told me a couple stories about how one of his friends destroyed it because he kept going on and on about it and then something terrible happened to the person...I have no idea if it's true or not, probably not! He was convinced at the time.

Anyway, nothing ever happened to me thankfully-I would've thought it was the coolest thing back then but now I realise you don't want to mess with that kind of thing. I did lose all belief in it but who knows what's out there really. I know you can lose your mind and that's very real.

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 22:47

Playingvideogames · 30/01/2026 21:26

I’m RC and I think the difference is that possession generally coincides with the possessed person doing things that shouldn’t be possible within their body/strength. There’s also a fixation on Satanic rituals and aversion to Holy imagery.

I’ve seen a lot of very mentally unwell people but they never appear possessed.

Thank you, that's interesting.

All of those things could, however, also be caused by mental illness.

During acute psychosis, mania, dissociation, or extreme fear, adrenaline and reduced pain perception can let people exert far more force than usual. People in excited delirium, severe mania, or psychotic breaks have restrained multiple adults or injured themselves badly without reacting to pain. It looks supernatural because it’s rare and frightening, but it’s still within human physiology

Aversion to holy imagery is especially culture-dependent. Someone raised Catholic who develops delusions may fixate on guilt, sin, Satan, demons, or hell. Aversion to crosses, holy water, prayers, etc. can come from trauma, OCD, psychosis, or dissociation. In other cultures, people show the same pattern — but with different religious symbols, eg. In Islamic contexts, jinn.

Religious OCD (scrupulosity) can cause obsessive thoughts about Satan or evil. Psychosis often borrows imagery that’s emotionally charged and familiar. If someone already believes Satan is real and dangerous, the mind may build delusions around that framework. People don’t usually fixate on Satan if they weren’t already exposed to those ideas. The content reflects prior belief.

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 22:58

Anecdotally, I've had the experience of seeing my 90 year old grandmother fight off 4 nurses. She wasn't possessed, she was in the throes of delirium- which fortunately cleared up!

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