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To be really worried about Reform?

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FiveHorse · 29/04/2025 13:09

Just that really. They’re predicted to gain the most from the upcoming elections, if this carries on could we see a reform government at the next general elections? Or is it press scaremongering as usual?

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caringcarer · 29/04/2025 15:48

DutchEmerald · 29/04/2025 13:22

I'm hoping they do really well and win all thats ti be won. The current two party system completely ignores the vast majority of people's opinions and lies to us all the time. They need to be shown the door. Reform is coming 😁

I agree. Reform UK have said in their first month of power they would order an independent review into the grooming and rape gangs. Jess Philips just wants to sweep it all under the carpet.

tramtracks · 29/04/2025 15:50

driedgrasses · 29/04/2025 15:10

I'd like to see an actual proper conservative party as well, not like the previous asset stripping, greedy, corrupt, contracts for mates, morally bankrupt, low IQ fools we've been seeing. People who actually want to conserve the UK for future generations and who want to see the country do well again.

I think Rishi Subsk had one if the highest iqs and distributed one of the most socialist policies during Covid.

caringcarer · 29/04/2025 15:50

tramtracks · 29/04/2025 15:45

I don’t think it’s hard per se to tackle illegal immigration. But it will take some v unpopular decisions - like pulling out of the ECHR.

Pulling out of ECHR and having a British bill of rights would be a very popular action for many people including me.

LipglossAlly · 29/04/2025 15:51

I think they may actually win.

I hope they don't, but if they do, we will see a similar scenario to Brexit - people listening to false promises and the country going to shite with irremediable damage being done.

I genuinely believe that Farage simply does not have the capability to be an effective PM and will finish running this country to the ground. It is as simple as that.

Goldenbear · 29/04/2025 15:51

Blazeicecream · 29/04/2025 13:26

Except the UK doesn't just have two parties.

Exactly, goodness, we are all doomed!

Whatafustercluck · 29/04/2025 15:54

menopausalfart · 29/04/2025 13:21

It is extremely frightening. I imagine a lot of people who will vote for them want to blow up the existing system, and the only party they see that will do this is reform. It really doesn't matter what happens after as long as the existing status quo is completely destroyed.

This is it really, and we saw the same with Brexit. So much apathy, or outright discontent/ hatred, of the main parties translates into votes for new parties simply because people are fed up with the status quo not making their lives better. So they vote for disruption for the sake of disrupting. I mean, I voted Labour and would never contemplate voting Reform (or even Conservative tbh). But even I can understand why there is so much disillusionment among the electorate. You vote for parties you think can and will make a positive change, and when it doesn't happen and you get more of the same then of course you're more likely to be attracted to mavericks. It's utterly depressing.

driedgrasses · 29/04/2025 15:55

tramtracks · 29/04/2025 15:50

I think Rishi Subsk had one if the highest iqs and distributed one of the most socialist policies during Covid.

Covid wasn't representative of how they ran the country, it was a national emergency that just happened to occur when they were in.

What about the PPE scandal that occurred during that time? That's more representative of the behaviour of the last government.

TheFrendo · 29/04/2025 15:56

Reform say they will reduce immigration to managable levels and deporyt illegal migrants. These are attractive promises and I am unsurprised they are popular.

driedgrasses · 29/04/2025 15:56

LipglossAlly · 29/04/2025 15:51

I think they may actually win.

I hope they don't, but if they do, we will see a similar scenario to Brexit - people listening to false promises and the country going to shite with irremediable damage being done.

I genuinely believe that Farage simply does not have the capability to be an effective PM and will finish running this country to the ground. It is as simple as that.

Because he's a thick grifter. Like trump.

Oioisavaloy27 · 29/04/2025 15:56

DutchEmerald · 29/04/2025 13:22

I'm hoping they do really well and win all thats ti be won. The current two party system completely ignores the vast majority of people's opinions and lies to us all the time. They need to be shown the door. Reform is coming 😁

Nigel Farrage did not manage to deliver on his Brexit promises so how on earth do you think he's going to deliver on anything else?

tramtracks · 29/04/2025 15:57

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/04/2025 15:10

Illegal migration does concern people, and that does have to be dealt with.

However, it’s getting amplified as an issue because of foreign influence, as those who want to harm our country know it’s going to rile people up.

So we have to address the fact of the foreign influence as well as the actual problems with illegal migration - which we were actually in a better position to fight from within the EU, ironically.

People have talked about grooming gangs - which is important - but again the discussion on that has been skewed - both in terms of framing it as only an “immigrant” problem which it’s not, and the suggestion nothing is being done.

I disagree. Illegal immigration isn’t being ‘amplified’. It’s totally out of control. All of the parties agree that it is. Their procrastination to crack on and deal with it will allow the less than desirable reform to become mainstream.

GasPanic · 29/04/2025 15:57

Summerseagull · 29/04/2025 15:01

How so ,can you explain both comments please

It's simple. Both parties are scared of losing votes to reform. Both parties will implement reform policies in order to convince voters not to vote for them.

It's the way politics works in a FPTP system, and why UKIP was ultimately successful in forcing Brexit even though it never gained a significant amount of parliamentary seats. Cameron was so scared of UKIP he offered Tory voters a referendum to try to stay in power. He won and the rest is history.

Re Labour and the Tories moving to the right, probably you have had your head in the sand if you need this explaining. I'm not going to bother.

driedgrasses · 29/04/2025 15:58

TheFrendo · 29/04/2025 15:56

Reform say they will reduce immigration to managable levels and deporyt illegal migrants. These are attractive promises and I am unsurprised they are popular.

There's more to running a country than deporting some illegal migrants though, as people will soon find out if they are ever elected to govern.

Goldenbear · 29/04/2025 15:58

IdaGlossop · 29/04/2025 15:27

Trump was an unknown quantity in 2016 an now look where we are.

Yes and the Canadians have seen right through that and voted in Liberals. I doubt very much the British are more inclined to vote for Reform when they can see how that is playing out in the U.S!

Oioisavaloy27 · 29/04/2025 15:58

LipglossAlly · 29/04/2025 15:51

I think they may actually win.

I hope they don't, but if they do, we will see a similar scenario to Brexit - people listening to false promises and the country going to shite with irremediable damage being done.

I genuinely believe that Farage simply does not have the capability to be an effective PM and will finish running this country to the ground. It is as simple as that.

That's what I can't understand I really don't get it, people were hoodwinked during Brexit and yet here they are being hoodwinked again and falling for it again.

tramtracks · 29/04/2025 15:58

TheWisePlumDuck · 29/04/2025 15:30

I am worried about reform but don't believe Trump will be putting anyone off voting for them, quite the opposite in fact.

He has been deporting people left right and centre, putting their portraits on the white house lawn along with their crimes (child rape etc.) and has massively reduced illegal immigration numbers in a very short time. Essentially he is doing what those who voted for him wanted, and I imagine as Farage is buddies with him that voters may be even more incentevised to vote for him if immigration is a concern.

If the Tories and Labour had actually listened and cracked down on illegal.immigration, and the too high levels of unskilled legal immigration/dependants then we could have had a moderate solution. I fear it is too late now, trust for the two main parties on this issue is gone.

I'm quite worried that it will now be inevitable that eventually a far right party will get in off the back of lax immigration and the outdated asylum treaty. It may not be the next election, but it is certainly over the hill. As an immigrant myself, I hoped it wouldn't come to that.

Edited

This is the most accurate and reasoned post on this that I’ve read for a while.

Cattenberg · 29/04/2025 15:59

It’s far, far easier for the smaller parties to win council seats than parliament seats. I’ve worked on election counts. The ballot boxes from the smallest rural council wards contain fewer than 20 votes. The ballot box for an urban ward might contain hundreds of votes, but voter turnout is rarely high. In fact, it’s often less than 20%.

It’s not unheard of for a council election to result in a tie and the result to be decided by a coin toss. In at least one instance, the crucial seat which decided which party would have overall control of a council was settled by a coin toss.

Goldenbear · 29/04/2025 16:00

TheFrendo · 29/04/2025 15:56

Reform say they will reduce immigration to managable levels and deporyt illegal migrants. These are attractive promises and I am unsurprised they are popular.

They aren't popular, maybe in certain parts of the country and saying they are again and again isn't going to change that!

driedgrasses · 29/04/2025 16:00

Goldenbear · 29/04/2025 15:58

Yes and the Canadians have seen right through that and voted in Liberals. I doubt very much the British are more inclined to vote for Reform when they can see how that is playing out in the U.S!

I'm still not feeling confident 😬

Maitri108 · 29/04/2025 16:01

caringcarer · 29/04/2025 15:50

Pulling out of ECHR and having a British bill of rights would be a very popular action for many people including me.

We already have a British bill of rights: The Human Rights Act.

tramtracks · 29/04/2025 16:02

caringcarer · 29/04/2025 15:50

Pulling out of ECHR and having a British bill of rights would be a very popular action for many people including me.

Yes it would. But sadly I think it is the only way to do deal with illegal immigration. The ECHR has been hijacked by illegal immigrants and is being used for reasons it was never intended. They block up the system and make it extremely difficult to allow safe immigration for those fleeing from harm. Everyone pretty much agrees on this but it is unpalatable to say so publicly.

IdaGlossop · 29/04/2025 16:04

Goldenbear · 29/04/2025 15:58

Yes and the Canadians have seen right through that and voted in Liberals. I doubt very much the British are more inclined to vote for Reform when they can see how that is playing out in the U.S!

Farage is canny and recognises Trump's excesses are damaging for him. That's why he's toned down his rhetoric.

tramtracks · 29/04/2025 16:07

caringcarer · 29/04/2025 15:50

Pulling out of ECHR and having a British bill of rights would be a very popular action for many people including me.

Agreed. if only a party had the balls to do it.

Goldenbear · 29/04/2025 16:11

IdaGlossop · 29/04/2025 16:04

Farage is canny and recognises Trump's excesses are damaging for him. That's why he's toned down his rhetoric.

Well you would have to be pretty stupid to not see through that and think that they could run services efficiently and reconcile council accounts.

AbigfanofDogs · 29/04/2025 16:14

Very good question!

Ironically back to DH country South Africa (xenophobia is rife but there is gradual change, he was born 1990 so is part of and believes in the rainbow nation) 2nd country in the world to legalise LGBT marriage and has a very modern constitution (unlike UK which is a feudal state)

He has a European (Hungarian) passport so there are options to go anywhere in EU… however not Hungary because again, racist, homophobic EURH) forgetting that we’d struggle to learn the language it’s complex. (Also they are Russia's pet)

Netherlands, Germany, France, Spain or Portugal would be viable options. Scandinavia too cold for him even though had Swedish Grandparent.

He can work in his current company as is an international tech company in English. Could probably pick up Dutch quickly as speaks Afrikaans. He has family in France and Portugal who’ve thrived and learnt the languages.

Personally, I’d be the weak link as can’t access Hungarian passport need to be married for 10 years … Would have to knuckle down and learn language or work remotely with UK clients (I have a small business) and earn what I could. Or teach English if I’m lucky. I am a nurse but a MH nurse so skills aren’t transferable. I work with Irish Nurse who taught English for 10 years whilst living in his husband’s home country Spain.

I grew up in Manchester with a patriotic mother who would probably vote reform or conservative, I wasn’t brought up to believe anywhere but the UK is home or anywhere could be better.

I am different, i’ve travelled extensively and lived in South Africa for short periods, the UK is amazing in many ways however it’s declined in my lifetime (I’m early 30’s) and now I’ve left the NHS I feel less inclined towards spending the rest of my life sitting in a sinking ship. Bit of a rant there!

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