Very good question!
Ironically back to DH country South Africa (xenophobia is rife but there is gradual change, he was born 1990 so is part of and believes in the rainbow nation) 2nd country in the world to legalise LGBT marriage and has a very modern constitution (unlike UK which is a feudal state)
He has a European (Hungarian) passport so there are options to go anywhere in EU… however not Hungary because again, racist, homophobic EURH) forgetting that we’d struggle to learn the language it’s complex. (Also they are Russia's pet)
Netherlands, Germany, France, Spain or Portugal would be viable options. Scandinavia too cold for him even though had Swedish Grandparent.
He can work in his current company as is an international tech company in English. Could probably pick up Dutch quickly as speaks Afrikaans. He has family in France and Portugal who’ve thrived and learnt the languages.
Personally, I’d be the weak link as can’t access Hungarian passport need to be married for 10 years … Would have to knuckle down and learn language or work remotely with UK clients (I have a small business) and earn what I could. Or teach English if I’m lucky. I am a nurse but a MH nurse so skills aren’t transferable. I work with Irish Nurse who taught English for 10 years whilst living in his husband’s home country Spain.
I grew up in Manchester with a patriotic mother who would probably vote reform or conservative, I wasn’t brought up to believe anywhere but the UK is home or anywhere could be better.
I am different, i’ve travelled extensively and lived in South Africa for short periods, the UK is amazing in many ways however it’s declined in my lifetime (I’m early 30’s) and now I’ve left the NHS I feel less inclined towards spending the rest of my life sitting in a sinking ship. Bit of a rant there!
What about you? 😊