Hand hold please

[NewPlumCat]

I'm really struggling.

Sending virtual handhold! What’s going on with you? Are you somewhere safe just now?

I'm here. Feel free to pm xx

Can we help? xx

Ahh OP ..
What’s the matter ..
We might be able to help you , hope we can ❤️

Sending a hand hold and a hug @NewPlumCat and some flowers. 💐

Another hand hold here.

Can we help?

Please don’t struggle and in silence. You have posted here so reach out and ask for help. I wish you well x

Thank you for messaging. I am safe but am really struggling with menopause symptoms x

Thank you so much x
God bless you 🙏

Thank you so much. Its menopause symptoms and everyday they are getting severe and nothings helping me. I'm not on HRT x

Hi OP. Sorry to hear that. I was the same. Would you be willing to try antidepressants? They’ve made a huge difference to me xxx

Awe ☺️…

Awe OP , loads of us understand this …
Go speak with your GP , if you don’t find your GP very helpful, a health specialist.. Speak to someone though …
Don’t be struggling.. Xx

Hi,
Thank you for your message. I've tried sertraline but it makes me feel worse and I'd rather not take it. Nothing is helping me. I have been taking menopace but its not really helped. I don't think anything will help me and this is my life now and I have to live in misery now x

Are you open to trying hrt?

You posted the other day about being worried about trying HRT. Please reconsider, see your GP and ask for it. Is it really worth living like this because you are worried about the very small risks that the medication may bring? Surely it is better to try than resign yourself to being miserable?

Menopause truly sucks, doesn't it OP? I truly sympathise. I'm on menopace and sertraline, and I'm lucky they help. But the weight gain, the night sweats, the mood swings, the insomnia. . .! Sheese! Can't us women just catch one lousy, measly, little break?! And the aches and pains. All the aches and pains.

It's that tiny bit easier when the weather is nice, and I go for a walk.

Hang in there. . .

What are your worst symptoms? Sertraline isn’t for everyone but there are other antidepressants. I take citalopram xx

Get yourself on HRT! Changed my life.

Hey guys , I went on antidepressants also for a while & they made me feel worse aswel ..
I was told it’s trial & error with them , that you have to keep trying til you find the right one , i couldn’t put myself through that !!
So I just never bothered with anything like that again ..

OP you haven’t tried hrt.
I don’t find it much help , but I see there , others find it a God Sent ..
You won’t always feel like this OP ..
Pick up the phone & ask for some help … Xx

Hi. My worst symptoms are anxiety and depression and I get really horrible intrusive thought's. I don't think anything will help me. They are very severely symptoms as well x

Hi, thank you for your message and I'm so sorry to hear your feeling the same. Has there been any improvement in your health so far? You said your not on HRT or antidepressants then how are you managing? I really feel for you 🙏 God bless you 🙏

Thank you for your message and I'm so happy to hear your feeling better and HRT has helped you. But I don't know if it will do the same for me as my symptoms are so severe and no matter what I take it doesn't help x

Would you try HRT? My main symptoms were anxiety and depression and HRT cured them within 3 weeks.

My sister was so bad that she was sectioned. HRT again removed all her symptoms and she is happy now.

Nothing you have tried so far contains oestrogen, and lack of oestrogen is what is causing your symptoms. Give it a try,you can always stop if you don't like it