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AIBU?

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To think just don’t offer them beige food?

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Ashlll · 25/04/2025 15:23

Or am I spectacularly uneducated here? My sister has a 3 year old who apparently will only eat beige food and mostly crisps. She says it’s a sensory thing and we have to respect it when around him, for example when I took him and dd out last week I had to give him quavers rather than the snacks I had got for dd… which then made dd want quavers too! Same with water, he won’t drink it and it has to be juice.

I am not massively strict but did say to dsis just don’t buy these things then he won’t know he can ask for them… she says he just won’t eat or drink. I think this is ridiculous (I’ve not said this to her). AIBU?!?

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ObelixtheGaul · 28/04/2025 16:07

LovePeriodProperty · 28/04/2025 15:50

Our dentist put a lot of pressure on my mum because I have a gap between my teeth.
Kids at school were having the skin above the gap cut and braces to push them together

My mum told the dentist I’d inherited it from my family and it was lucky meaning I’d be
either rich or a good singer or both. 🤣🤣🤣

Ouch, that procedure sounds nasty. Interestingly, I work as a TA now as supply in different schools and I don't think I have seen a single brace. Is that because dentists are like hen's teeth these days or because there isn't such a push to straighten teeth, I wonder?
This is an off the thread topic, maybe I should start a new one as it's quite an interesting subject..

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 02/05/2025 08:30

MidnightPatrol · 25/04/2025 15:41

I think some children are fussy.

But - I don’t think it helps to then only offer them those foods.

I was the 'fussy' eater.
My mum forced me to eat things that made me gip, the smells were horrific, textures were freaky and yes it really was that bad because I had undiagnosed sensory issues.

My child will only eat the same dinner meals on rotation, 2 different meals, literally. He eats a wide variety of fruit and has some lunch mix ups so not all bad but for dinner.... The same two dinners.

Maybe some children are fussy but fussy is a label given because people don't get the sensory thing with food and children.

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