God didn't have a wife.
The Hebrew God most certainly did have a wife, who was sidelined around the time of the Babylonian Exile.
As for Jesus, everything about his story was plagiarised wholesale from that of Mithras.
A mortal woman visited by the Spirit of God in the form of a dove, impregnating her, a messenger explaining it. Being born in a cave on December 25th. Fleeing persecution.
12 disciples, all the miracles, the evangelism, betrayal and execution by the authorities, resurrection on the third day etc etc.
All to please a gang of Roman noblemen, who were refused entry to the cult of Mithras simply because they were rich and powerful, not because of their soldierly qualities.