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To ask what the most BRILLIANT advice/suggestion you've seen on here is?

872 replies

SpikySausage · 22/04/2025 15:48

Inspired by the other thread with a similar title!

Maybe not advice/suggestion as such, but I wouldn't have got my Mirena coil had I not been persuaded by the balance of views on here and enough positive feedback that it could work out well. It has been lifechanging, I wish I had done it 20 years ago, I could have avoided years of pain.

My new one is tretinoin. It's only been a few weeks but I already think I will be using this for the rest of my life. Why have I spent so much money on expensive and less efficacious creams?

Without wanting to control the direction of the thread, I wasn't thinking of LTB type advice. More immediately implementable things that someone could try today! (Although MN has definitely educated me in matters such as 'the script', narcissism, emotional abuse, and trans/gender critical matters!)

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TheGamblersGone · 22/04/2025 23:52

what’s Trentinoin?

Mistyglade · 22/04/2025 23:56

Someone shared the best advice they’d ever had on here a few months back which I’ve quietly adopted as my mantra:
‘this too shall pass’
..about everything

Icequeen01 · 22/04/2025 23:56

Following a thread I had on here about how my daft DH had managed to forget to empty the safe in our hotel in Crete when we were on holiday last year, leaving behind our passports, my purse and my jewellery, someone suggested putting one of the shoes we would be travelling home in in the safe. We are going back to the same hotel this summer and I will be doing this. I never want to go through stress like that again! It took two weeks to get my jewellery home but luckily I did due to our fabulous hotel.

Luv2luv9 · 22/04/2025 23:57

Regarding duvet advice mentioned earlier. I've never been a fan of duvets. I much prefer a good quality thick cotton quilted bedspread in the winter & a lighter one in the summer.

Htgold3 · 22/04/2025 23:58

Frozen Mash! I had never heard if it. The ingredients are just potato's, butter, milk, salt & pepper, and when i add a bit of extra butter and milk it tastes indistinguishable to homemade mash. Way better than microwave mash. Thank you mumsnet!

notafraidofthebigbadwolf · 23/04/2025 00:04

Mine is that spiders will be put off living in your home for a full season if you spray your home with Indorex flea spray. It works!!! I am eternally grateful to my fellow mumsnetters for that one. Autumn has been a happier time in my home these last two years.

Ihateslugs · 23/04/2025 00:08

EmptyTheFrickingBins · 22/04/2025 23:28

Why not? I love mine. I use a flat sheet under it, wash that and the other sheets/pillow cases weekly, then wash the duvet quarterly. It's made my life so much easier!

Same here, I wash my coverless duvet only when I swap the winter one for the summer weight one. I use a top sheet which gets washed regularly but the duvet does not touch my body so does not get dirty - I live alone, don’t have pets and tend not to sit on the bed so the duvet remains clean.

When I was 18, I spent a ski season working in holiday chalets in Austria and we did not use duvet covers, just top sheets. At change over day, we stripped the sheets and hung the duvet outside in the covered balcony for a few hours before putting it back on the bed. All the ski hotels did this back in the 1980s!

murasaki · 23/04/2025 00:21

I've always thought coverless duvets are a bit skanky, and I'm by no means a 'wash your towel after every use' kind of person.

EmptyTheFrickingBins · 23/04/2025 00:25

murasaki · 22/04/2025 23:30

Do you tuck the top sheet in? I hate that, my first thing in a hotel is to untuck it, it feels like being trapped to me. If it's not tucked in then surely it moves and you'd have to wash the duvet.

It never moves and I tend to tuck the duvet under my feet. Duvet is brushed cotton though so I can't say how well it'd work with a different duvet. I fold a bit over the top just because I prefer how it feels though.

To ask what the most BRILLIANT advice/suggestion you've seen on here is?
murasaki · 23/04/2025 00:28

EmptyTheFrickingBins · 23/04/2025 00:25

It never moves and I tend to tuck the duvet under my feet. Duvet is brushed cotton though so I can't say how well it'd work with a different duvet. I fold a bit over the top just because I prefer how it feels though.

Fair enough. according to DP, and I can't deny it, I am a 'mobile' sleeper, so it wouldn't work for me at all. Horses for courses.

LouH1981 · 23/04/2025 00:30

That you only need to put conditioner in the lengths of your hair rather than all over (in roots). The advice I was given was ‘ears and below’.
I genuinely never knew this and my hair is far less greasy since applying it.

TheSandgroper · 23/04/2025 00:33

About twenty years ago, someone on here said “meet your child at the school gate with food in your hand”.

Best advice ever.

StellaShining · 23/04/2025 00:36

Hatty65 · 22/04/2025 16:00

The one that sticks out for me is someone helpfully pointing out that if you have a king size or super king bed then the duvet goes ACROSS the bed horizontally, rather than vertically (if that makes sense).

I am ashamed to admit I've spent roughly 30 years with a superking bed, assuming that the stitching on the duvet ran from head to foot and grumbling that my duvet never fitted properly inside the cover.

Turning the duvet 90 degrees inside it's cover was life changing!

Got a king size last year and have been enraged with the duvet situation. THANK YOU!!

ilovemyfriends · 23/04/2025 01:26

I read a thread about young children and bowel problems ..recognised symptoms for coeliac disease with grandchild, persuaded daughter to get child tested,blood test was conclusive without any further investigation. Thank you MN 😊

OscarPistolius · 23/04/2025 01:27

That one who asked why her throat bleeds and was told it's cancer.

TerracottaWorrier · 23/04/2025 01:41

BrokenTeapots · 22/04/2025 20:15

Put any waste that can get smelly (meat, oranges that go mouldy, you know, anything like that) in a bag in the freezer until bin day. Completely stops your pedal or outside bin ever smelling. It feels much more hygienic as no germs festering in the bin too.

This is a game changer as a single person as it takes a couple of weeks at least to fill any normal bin bags.

I do this. I then had a three day power cut and I still can't face opening the freezer 😅

coxesorangepippin · 23/04/2025 01:50

Clean the bathroom whilst the (young, have to be supervised) kids are in the bath

Foodmammahelp · 23/04/2025 01:50

Hatty65 · 22/04/2025 16:00

The one that sticks out for me is someone helpfully pointing out that if you have a king size or super king bed then the duvet goes ACROSS the bed horizontally, rather than vertically (if that makes sense).

I am ashamed to admit I've spent roughly 30 years with a superking bed, assuming that the stitching on the duvet ran from head to foot and grumbling that my duvet never fitted properly inside the cover.

Turning the duvet 90 degrees inside it's cover was life changing!

How does this work? Maybe I’ve been doing it wrong too but Surely it wouldn’t fit in the cover if you turn sideways 🙈

coxesorangepippin · 23/04/2025 01:56

When trying to get a sandwich into a Tupperware, place the Tupperware on top of the sandwich, then turn the cutting board with the sandwich on, over.

Saves mincing around trying to get the sandwich into the Tupperware without spilling all the fillings

uselessatlife · 23/04/2025 03:26

That Chat GPT helped me get clarity on a situation in one afternoon than the therapist I was talking to - truly life changing I couldn’t believe it.

Annialisting · 23/04/2025 03:36

I cut the top off a bag of say frozen chips/peas and use it to secure the open bag. Fucking genius idea. Thank you Mumsnet.

BoxOfCats · 23/04/2025 03:40

Buy socks in large batches of identical socks so they all match. It saves time not having to match up your socks once they’re washed and dried!

stripedrollerskates · 23/04/2025 04:03

Icequeen01 · 22/04/2025 23:56

Following a thread I had on here about how my daft DH had managed to forget to empty the safe in our hotel in Crete when we were on holiday last year, leaving behind our passports, my purse and my jewellery, someone suggested putting one of the shoes we would be travelling home in in the safe. We are going back to the same hotel this summer and I will be doing this. I never want to go through stress like that again! It took two weeks to get my jewellery home but luckily I did due to our fabulous hotel.

Could you not just set a reminder on your phone to empty the safe?

stripedrollerskates · 23/04/2025 04:05

StellaShining · 23/04/2025 00:36

Got a king size last year and have been enraged with the duvet situation. THANK YOU!!

We have the lines going vertically and it’s definitely the right way round (king size) so this advice makes no sense to me. Maybe depends on the make.

stripedrollerskates · 23/04/2025 04:05

TerracottaWorrier · 23/04/2025 01:41

I do this. I then had a three day power cut and I still can't face opening the freezer 😅

Yeah this tip belongs in the worst advice thread!!