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to not understand why Christians think Jesus died for our sins?

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switcheroooo · 20/04/2025 10:06

If Jesus died for everyone's sins, does that mean people are not accountable for their actions? You can kill people, steal and lie but have a protected status because Jesus died for your sins.

How does this work? Why are people not responsible for their own sins? Where is the justice?

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Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 14:53

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 14:46

Not murdering someone or treating someone with respect are nothing to do with religion but just being a decent and law abiding person.

The fact that that principle had become a definition of being a decent person is in a large part due the influence of Christianity.*

Pagan Rome, for example, had different laws and morals on what was acceptable.

*I speak of the western world here. My knowledge of ancient Eastern societies is not sound enough.

It's 100% OK to say that religion doesn't have moral supremacy, or that one needs to be religious/ have a faith to be a good person or that religion is central to a 'good' society. But it would be incorrect to say that what we agree is good of a person or society was not influenced by religion.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 14:54

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 14:50

Gosh, you're touchy. I have no desire to try and discuss anything with someone who thinks saying mean things about a religion is inappropriate so won't reply to any further posts from you.

I'm pretty sure Jesus wasn't into judging people's comments. I don't think he was capable of being offended. He always turned the other cheek.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 14:54

@Kardamyli2 the points just fly straight over your head, don't they?

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 14:57

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 14:53

The fact that that principle had become a definition of being a decent person is in a large part due the influence of Christianity.*

Pagan Rome, for example, had different laws and morals on what was acceptable.

*I speak of the western world here. My knowledge of ancient Eastern societies is not sound enough.

It's 100% OK to say that religion doesn't have moral supremacy, or that one needs to be religious/ have a faith to be a good person or that religion is central to a 'good' society. But it would be incorrect to say that what we agree is good of a person or society was not influenced by religion.

I think what we consider to be good has definitely come from religions but it's no different to a primary school teacher saying hitting is bad and being kind is good. It's an organised way of getting groups of people to behave nicely to each other. It's basically just a recipe for overall happiness. You don't have to subscribe to a God to recognise that people are happier when we treat each other well.

Pussycat22 · 21/04/2025 15:01

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 20/04/2025 10:34

Christians believe that if you're truly sorry (truly involves changed behaviour) God will forgive you and you can live in heaven. I guess this is meant to help with rehabilitation /people changing and becoming better as otherwise if you commit one sin you might think 'ah well I'm off to hell anyway, might as well enjoy myself while I'm on earth and do whatever I want from now on'

Committing a horrible crime with the plan to 'say sorry' later isn't being truly sorry.

It's a license to do what you like without penalty.

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 15:06

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 14:53

The fact that that principle had become a definition of being a decent person is in a large part due the influence of Christianity.*

Pagan Rome, for example, had different laws and morals on what was acceptable.

*I speak of the western world here. My knowledge of ancient Eastern societies is not sound enough.

It's 100% OK to say that religion doesn't have moral supremacy, or that one needs to be religious/ have a faith to be a good person or that religion is central to a 'good' society. But it would be incorrect to say that what we agree is good of a person or society was not influenced by religion.

So Christians don’t murder anyone or disrespect anyone?

Those who are religious are no better than those of us who aren’t regardless of what you want it to be.

Pandimoanymum · 21/04/2025 15:07

LittlerCharlotte · 21/04/2025 00:42

Interestingly there's evidence that Saturnalia isn't so closely with Christmas. I listened to a fascinating podcast about it all
Will try to find it.

I'd be interested in listening to that, thanks

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:08

Pussycat22 · 21/04/2025 15:01

It's a license to do what you like without penalty.

The penalty is felt in this life. No need to be worrying about afterlives.

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 15:10

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 15:06

So Christians don’t murder anyone or disrespect anyone?

Those who are religious are no better than those of us who aren’t regardless of what you want it to be.

sigh that is not what I said.

And for the nth time, I'm neither religious or Christian.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:11

The idea of saving your soul through repentance is actually about trying to get back on a path that will make you happier. If you're not sorry then you have no interest in changing to make you and those around you happier.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:12

Saying sorry on your death bed does nothing for anyone.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:15

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 15:06

So Christians don’t murder anyone or disrespect anyone?

Those who are religious are no better than those of us who aren’t regardless of what you want it to be.

Religious people are often the worst. Kindness goes right out the window and being 'right' takes its place, sadly. People get very confused. We're human, I suppose. It's hard to rise above that.

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 15:17

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 14:46

I do, in a way. I just don't believe in an afterlife. I believe that we can attain happiness here on earth if we could just put our momentary selfishness aside. It seems that people find that very hard to do without the promise of some sort of comeuppance on judgement day. It's pretty sad that we can't do it without a looming threat.

I don't think it is necessarily a case of doing it without a looming threat. It depends on how you interpret it.

We have traffic lights to keep things in order. Would it be great if we did not need them? Yes. But does it help keep everything flowing mostly smoothly? Yes. In schools, we have basic rules and in society too. It is not left entirely to the individual for good reason.

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MasterBeth · 21/04/2025 15:23

Leafy3 · 21/04/2025 13:37

I don't think they do predate Jesus, actually. Which isn't to say people were not kind or compassionate beforehand , but that the established societies, pagan religions and civilisations were built on other principles.* It's easy to point to other ancient religions which teach consideration, but they don't all predate Christianity and they weren't always so prevalent. Ancient societies were greatly shaped by religions and belief systems that have died out.

Tom Holland has a fascinating summary of how Christianity has shaped the world, all over.

*obviously not all cultures

Here's evidence that these ideas were prevalent pre-Jesus in ancient Egypt, ancient India, ancient Greece, ancient Persia and ancient Rome.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golden_Rule#:~:text=Ancient-,history,-edit

Not all cultures, but many cultures.

Golden Rule - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Golden_Rule#:~:text=Ancient-,history,-edit

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 15:26

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:15

Religious people are often the worst. Kindness goes right out the window and being 'right' takes its place, sadly. People get very confused. We're human, I suppose. It's hard to rise above that.

I wouldn't say religious people are the worst. Generalisations do not help anyone.

Some of kindest best people I have ever met are religious people.

Likewise I have met amazing people with no faith.

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Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:26

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 15:17

I don't think it is necessarily a case of doing it without a looming threat. It depends on how you interpret it.

We have traffic lights to keep things in order. Would it be great if we did not need them? Yes. But does it help keep everything flowing mostly smoothly? Yes. In schools, we have basic rules and in society too. It is not left entirely to the individual for good reason.

I think the analogy of traffic lights is perfect. If we all follow them, everyone is happy. It's a bit like what Jesus was trying to teach - follow the traffic lights/ rules for a happy society. Some people will take advantage; a person who hasn't bought into the greater good. They also don't care about the repercussions or they wouldn't have done it in the first place. It's not a reason to get rid of traffic lights. There will always be people who only think of the immediate gain but they never end up happy.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:28

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 15:26

I wouldn't say religious people are the worst. Generalisations do not help anyone.

Some of kindest best people I have ever met are religious people.

Likewise I have met amazing people with no faith.

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Fair enough. That's why I said 'often'. Some very religious people are very happy and spread happiness wherever they tread.

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:31

I'm just saying organised religion can sometimes get in the way of being a good person. It's a 'not seeing the wood for the trees' situation.

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 15:38

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:31

I'm just saying organised religion can sometimes get in the way of being a good person. It's a 'not seeing the wood for the trees' situation.

Only if the person does not understand the true essence of faith. Most religions encourage the highest standards of behaviour.

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Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 15:52

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 15:38

Only if the person does not understand the true essence of faith. Most religions encourage the highest standards of behaviour.

But only because there's a punishment looming.

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 15:55

switcheroooo · 21/04/2025 15:38

Only if the person does not understand the true essence of faith. Most religions encourage the highest standards of behaviour.

If religions encourage high standards of behaviour, why is there so much crime and discrimination. It can’t be all from us non believers 🤣

Religion in England (2021 census)

  1. Christianity (46.3%)
  2. No religion (36.7%)
  3. Islam (6.7%)
  4. Hinduism (1.8%)
  5. Sikhism (0.9%)
  6. Buddhism (0.5%)
  7. Judaism (0.5%)
  8. Other religions (0.6%)
  9. Religion not stated (6%)
Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 16:00

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 15:55

If religions encourage high standards of behaviour, why is there so much crime and discrimination. It can’t be all from us non believers 🤣

Religion in England (2021 census)

  1. Christianity (46.3%)
  2. No religion (36.7%)
  3. Islam (6.7%)
  4. Hinduism (1.8%)
  5. Sikhism (0.9%)
  6. Buddhism (0.5%)
  7. Judaism (0.5%)
  8. Other religions (0.6%)
  9. Religion not stated (6%)

You're right. People aren't buying into the judgement day stuff anymore so they don't see the point in behaving kindly towards each other if it doesnt get them ahead financially etc. Throwing the baby out with the bath water.

PowderMonkeys · 21/04/2025 16:09

Grammarninja · 21/04/2025 16:00

You're right. People aren't buying into the judgement day stuff anymore so they don't see the point in behaving kindly towards each other if it doesnt get them ahead financially etc. Throwing the baby out with the bath water.

Except there’s never, in the history of, say, Christianity, been the slightest indication that following a religion makes the average person behave any differently in terms of kindness, tolerance, respect for others, forbearance from violence etc.

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 16:14

PowderMonkeys · 21/04/2025 16:09

Except there’s never, in the history of, say, Christianity, been the slightest indication that following a religion makes the average person behave any differently in terms of kindness, tolerance, respect for others, forbearance from violence etc.

So the living to a higher standard is a moot point?

PowderMonkeys · 21/04/2025 16:31

Parker231 · 21/04/2025 16:14

So the living to a higher standard is a moot point?

There’s just no evidence that those professing religious beliefs behave any better than those who don’t. Quite the contrary. Iceland and Japan have some of the lowest rates of religious belief in the world, and Iceland has a murder rate of 0.30 per 100,000, while Japan has a murder rate of 0.26 per 100,000. Compare the USA with 4.96 murders per 1000,000.

Only about 1% of the US prison population declares as atheist. Over 3/4 of it identify as Christian.

One can only conclude that following a religion does not involve living out that religion’s rules about non-violence, tolerance and charity. Living in a country with less social inequality and a strong sense of social cohesion lessens crime. The concept of ‘sin’ does not, clearly.

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